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PrintableEvvy said:  i dont mean to be gettin all up into your kool-aid but you asked...see what you should be worrying about is why you know what color his pubic hair is before you truly know his age.Why would knowing his age before anything other than a serious relationship matter??? Unless you're foolin' with youngins and have to know for legal reasons, clearly not the case here, I don't see why that is something that should cause anyone any concern. [Edited 10/31/09 21:22pm] | |
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paintedlady said: Ok so I have been attracting older men lately... they all seem to lie about their ages. Since there is no one else for me to ask this question too (because asking my dad or uncles would be too damn creepy)
 I have a biological question.
About how old is a man when his scrotum is completely gray. 30's? 40's? 50's? Can men prematurely gray down there like some on their scalps when its genetic? Been with a man who claimed to be in his mid- 40's and was completely gray. I am 38... I have no grays in my "stubble" so will I be silver at 45-ish? 
Can you age a man by his facial hair also? Or does it matter, (is it all just genetic that is)?  Yes, I don't want to date a man that's working on his bucket list.I would say it's something that differs from person to person. Why do some brunette dudes have light red beards?  | |
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paintedlady said: vainandy said: I've never seen any men in their 40s or even their 50s with gray pubic hair. That's usually the ones in their 60s or 70s. Although there are exceptions.
It will be horrible when I get old enough to get gray pubic hair. I hope I lose my sex drive by then and I don't want no Viagra to revive it. Pubic hair is a huge turn-on for me so I would never trim or shave it but I be damned if I'm going to live with gray pubic hair either. Since I can't dye my hair anymore since I've developed an allergy to hair dye, maybe I'll weave some dark colored pubic hair in. I hate to see that day come.  This is what I was thinking, and as Luv4U suggested, I did finally ask to see his ID.... but he changed the subject and the next day "we" decided that we should no longer pursue a relationship. He told me he was going to re-dedicate his life to the Lord anyways. sorry but I just don't believe him on that one.wait, wait, wait... you saw his pubes (grey right?)... then you did a little dance about truth about age... and NOW he's re-dedicatin' 
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ren, i'm looking for a man to play with...any suggestions??? THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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paintedlady said:  Do older men tend to lie about their age just to get with a younger woman?
I thought society didn't care as much about that? you said in your initial post, that you don't want to be an item on anyone's bucket list, and then you ask why people lie about their age.... it's not just their age people lie about. they lie about their income, their marital status, etc. i wouldn't judge someone by their pubic grey hairs. I'd see if they were nice, if they treated you nicely, can hold a job, talk intelligently, etc. look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher....I bet she has a grey hair or two, yet they have an incredible relationship. if you judge by age, you might miss out on something special. by the way, I pluck my 1 scrotol grey hair. so now I don't have any. | |
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johnart said: paintedlady said: Ok so I have been attracting older men lately... they all seem to lie about their ages. Since there is no one else for me to ask this question too (because asking my dad or uncles would be too damn creepy)
I have a biological question.
About how old is a man when his scrotum is completely gray. 30's? 40's? 50's? Can men prematurely gray down there like some on their scalps when its genetic? Been with a man who claimed to be in his mid- 40's and was completely gray. I am 38... I have no grays in my "stubble" so will I be silver at 45-ish?
Can you age a man by his facial hair also? Or does it matter, (is it all just genetic that is)? Yes, I don't want to date a man that's working on his bucket list.I would say it's something that differs from person to person. Why do some brunette dudes have light red beards? Good point... | |
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Painted...if he's nice and all, ask him to shave 
Sorry but
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RenHoek said: paintedlady said: This is what I was thinking, and as Luv4U suggested, I did finally ask to see his ID.... but he changed the subject and the next day "we" decided that we should no longer pursue a relationship. He told me he was going to re-dedicate his life to the Lord anyways. sorry but I just don't believe him on that one.wait, wait, wait... you saw his pubes (grey right?)... then you did a little dance about truth about age... and NOW he's re-dedicatin'
that has GOT to be the BEST short story I've seen in days... Yes, I started laughing when he told me that, and I still giggle everytime I think of him telling me that. (condensed version) I asked him, first ya said you were 42 now you're 49... first you were completely single, then you are now "legally separated" ... so what's next? He responded... "Naw, see I'm turning over a whole new leaf, and I don't want to do anyone wrong that's why I started going back to Kingdom Hall." I then said.. "Well that's a step in the right direction for you, but I can not follow... good luck and take care friend." That was it, he told me he would stay in touch and I just smiled... I didn't think that meant calling me every damn day. | |
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myfavorite said: ren, i'm looking for a man to play with...any suggestions???
If ya like a newly sorta-single JW wanna be with a mean stroke and gray pubes I got someone you can call. | |
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AndGodCreatedMe said: shit only on the org
Painted...if he's nice and all, ask him to shave
Sorry but
silly girl Its not the grays... its the lies about his age, the grays were the "give away" this is why I started a thread to ask others if men in their 40's (dark hair) can look like Santa Clause down under. He is ALL white down there. I was ready for "speckled" not "Father Christmas". Also is this something I should just get adjusted to because of the age group? 30-40's that is. | |
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BlackAdder7 said: paintedlady said: Do older men tend to lie about their age just to get with a younger woman?
I thought society didn't care as much about that? you said in your initial post, that you don't want to be an item on anyone's bucket list, and then you ask why people lie about their age.... it's not just their age people lie about. they lie about their income, their marital status, etc. i wouldn't judge someone by their pubic grey hairs. I'd see if they were nice, if they treated you nicely, can hold a job, talk intelligently, etc. look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher....I bet she has a grey hair or two, yet they have an incredible relationship. if you judge by age, you might miss out on something special. by the way, I pluck my 1 scrotol grey hair. so now I don't have any. Yes, biut I don't want to date a man I can't relate to. A man that's 20+ years my senior will want different thing in his life than me, and more than likely relate to things differently than I do. I don't mean to come off vain, but I want to LIVE with my lover/partner in life, not watch him pick out caskets and plots in 5 years.  I'm 38 and relatively young, I'm not ready for a retiree yet. | |
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paintedlady said: myfavorite said: ren, i'm looking for a man to play with...any suggestions???
If ya like a newly sorta-single JW wanna be with a mean stroke and gray pubes I got someone you can call. Been there...done that! No thanks!!
And btw... http://www.bettybeauty.com/  "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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paintedlady said: AndGodCreatedMe said: shit only on the org
Painted...if he's nice and all, ask him to shave
Sorry but
silly girl Its not the grays... its the lies about his age, the grays were the "give away" this is why I started a thread to ask others if men in their 40's (dark hair) can look like Santa Clause down under. He is ALL white down there. I was ready for "speckled" not "Father Christmas". Also is this something I should just get adjusted to because of the age group? 30-40's that is. oh sorry so...if he was 20 and was all white (down there and without the lies) it would have been ok? 
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AndGodCreatedMe said: paintedlady said: Its not the grays... its the lies about his age, the grays were the "give away" this is why I started a thread to ask others if men in their 40's (dark hair) can look like Santa Clause down under. He is ALL white down there. I was ready for "speckled" not "Father Christmas". Also is this something I should just get adjusted to because of the age group? 30-40's that is. oh sorry so...if he was 20 and was all white (down there and without the lies) it would have been ok?
[Edited 11/1/09 12:19pm] Never would date a man at 20. Now 30-ish I don't care how white the crotch is. | |
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noimageatall said: paintedlady said: If ya like a newly sorta-single JW wanna be with a mean stroke and gray pubes I got someone you can call. Been there...done that! No thanks!!
And btw... http://www.bettybeauty.com/ IMMY!!   [Edited 11/1/09 12:27pm] | |
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paintedlady said: noimageatall said: IMMY!!
[Edited 11/1/09 12:27pm]    "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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paintedlady said: noimageatall said: IMMY!!
[Edited 11/1/09 12:27pm] And hey..it's for MEN too! Pink pubic hair would rock! "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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