Damn, if you don't like me, then say so it's not so dire. I really don't walk around in life wanting everyone to like me, and thinking that everyone's personality is compatible with mine. I am tired of people who smile in your damn face like that shit is cute. It's not.

Lawd I wish you could really just smack people who need it. Especially fake ass bitches who want to cop attitude. Yup I said it!

BklynBabe said:

People who act this way towards me really don't bother me. They don't mean anything to me so I really don't care.

giving a fuck is way overrated...

BklynBabe said:

Such language . . . .

JustErin said:

roodboi said:

I totally wish I could be laidback like that

but rudeness really bothers me! There's just no excuse for lies, drama, trying to run game, fakeness. I am just really intolerant of it.

BklynBabe said:

It's not that I keep quiet or tolerate. I just don't let it overwhelm me in any way. If it's not something I can ignore, I call it out and move on.

JustErin said:

There it is.

I don't think I get out enough I don't actually know enough people to regularly encounter fake types I guess!

OMG...I think we are totally on the same page on this one. I dont have to like somebody to respect them. So, if someone is just being fake, and if they are pressing my nerves by pretending they want the best for me, I tell them straight up "I dont like you and I would appreciate if you would stop trying so hard to be around me." If they are shocked, I dont give a shit...i say it sweetly with a smile. Most of the time when people are like that, they are only hanging around because they want to be in position to make things worse for your should something unfortunate happen. As soon as I recognize people like that, I cut them off quick.

StillGotIt said:

I, on the other hand, am still learning this shit!
[b][Edited 11/1/09 1:31am]

and dont let them fool you.....guys do this fake shit really well.....

well I'm one of those honest and bothered types. I'm probably a bit misanthropic (okay more than a bit). And I'm just the type to tell it to someone and I'll try to be bnice at first but I notice that people like that like to stay in your face.

I also have to deal with a kid like that, so it's not always something I can get away from.

ZK you are just sweetness, no one should be mean or fake to you anyway.

I just wish more people had some ackrite!

ZombieKitten said:

me too. either that, or i just don't notice when people are being fake.

BklynBabe said:

I consciously work on not letting shit stress me out, but what you described above is one of my real challenges.

PunkMistress said:

AND you live in Florida...

BklynBabe said:

Child let that nonsense go! It's not worth your time...spend your time with the people you know care about you and enjoy your company!!! Think about the positive and sweet things that the people you give a shit about have done for you and all the good times you have with them. Each second you waste on people who don't give a damn about you and are fake towards you, that's power that you give to them that they don't deserve!!! Let it go and surround yourself with people who you consider to be real and honest with you!!!! Cut them off and keep it moving.
[Edited 11/1/09 12:15pm]

ZombieKitten said:

Yeah me neither. Either that or I just don't notice it or pay attention to that sort of thing.

missfee said:

I know you are right, can I get an amen?

I do really hate that about myself, that I let dumb shit get to me. I do try very hard to be a better person and let it roll, but sometimes it's too much for my mental.

IstenSzek said:

maybe I'm just dense, or perhaps I behave in a way that discourages it? I'm pretty guarded and non-trusting.

ZombieKitten said: