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Reply #30 posted 11/01/09 7:39am

JustErin

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Holy depressing posts.
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Reply #31 posted 11/01/09 8:31am

BlackAdder7

JustErin said:

I carve my initials on their foreheads as I leave with my dignity.





eek
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Reply #32 posted 11/01/09 8:31am

BlackAdder7

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How do you handle rejection???

you spent the night at your best buddies house...you come home and you are ready for your night with the honey...but, she aint having it to the point she goes onna rant about where you've spent all your time and money and that she doesn't want to feel like yet another booty call...whatcha gonna do???




invite your best buddy to come hang out with you and the honey.
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Reply #33 posted 11/01/09 8:34am

JustErin

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BlackAdder7 said:

JustErin said:

I carve my initials on their foreheads as I leave with my dignity.





eek


lol

I even find this shocking but I've never given into my thoughts of revenge...and believe me I had some pretty nasty ideas on how to get back at people.
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Reply #34 posted 11/01/09 8:37am

BlackAdder7

JustErin said:

BlackAdder7 said:






eek


lol

I even find this shocking but I've never given into my thoughts of revenge...and believe me I had some pretty nasty ideas on how to get back at people.



i didn't doubt that for a second. thankfully for us, you have self control. I cant help but feel that whomever rejects you winds up begging to makeup/be taken back
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Reply #35 posted 11/01/09 8:49am

Vendetta1

I believe as I get older I handle it better. I still hate it though. And it still doesn't stop me from pursuing anyone. I guess after a while, you just get used to it.
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Reply #36 posted 11/01/09 8:50am

Vendetta1

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I deleted my original post because I completely misread the topic!

I don't like being rejected in that way either. It makes a girl feel insecure.

But sometimes... well I'm not in the mood either.

It happens...
[Edited 11/1/09 6:07am]
You're a girl? lol
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Reply #37 posted 11/01/09 8:59am

Alej

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Phishanga said:

Alej said:



Me too.



Me three. And I don't take it well, either. Usually I'd get drunk but this time I like her so much and I'm scared of the mood I'd get in when I drink. Had that last weekend and it wasn't nice. Not one bit.

And I'm like a junkie, I try to get every short conversation or glimpse of her I can get. Thankfully she works where I work. biggrin confused

And I write songs, lyrics. Doesn't help one bit but it's just what I do.



It does nod At least it does for me lol
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Reply #38 posted 11/01/09 9:08am

Imago

I text my regular pokes until one of them answers and has time for a short-notice bootycall.
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Reply #39 posted 11/01/09 10:07am

sammij

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Alone. To myself. For a very long time.
It takes a lot for me to get over it...
...the little artist that could...
[...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...]
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Reply #40 posted 11/01/09 10:08am

sammij

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thekidsgirl said:

If you constantly tell yourself that he doesn't really like you that much anyway, you won't feel so bad when you're rejected...trust me smile

THAT. RIGHT THERE. nod
I've been doing that all my life.
...the little artist that could...
[...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...]
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Reply #41 posted 11/01/09 10:10am

Cinnie

sammij said:

thekidsgirl said:

If you constantly tell yourself that he doesn't really like you that much anyway, you won't feel so bad when you're rejected...trust me smile

THAT. RIGHT THERE. nod
I've been doing that all my life.

That's basically the only way I was able to get through my summer fling too. nod
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Reply #42 posted 11/01/09 10:58am

Alej

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sammij said:

thekidsgirl said:

If you constantly tell yourself that he doesn't really like you that much anyway, you won't feel so bad when you're rejected...trust me smile

THAT. RIGHT THERE. nod
I've been doing that all my life.


nod
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Reply #43 posted 11/01/09 11:03am

thekidsgirl

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sammij said:

thekidsgirl said:

If you constantly tell yourself that he doesn't really like you that much anyway, you won't feel so bad when you're rejected...trust me smile

THAT. RIGHT THERE. nod
I've been doing that all my life.


I've been doing it for quite a while highfive
Sometimes a little low self-esteem can spare you a lot of disappointment
If you will, so will I
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Reply #44 posted 11/01/09 11:20am

JessieJ

Damn, these replies are killing me. WTF you guys lol sad

I handle rejection fairly well. When I was younger, it'd bother me, but now, if someone rejects me, I just remind myself that while this person doesn't want me, there is someone out there that does. And then I'm all...


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Reply #45 posted 11/01/09 11:33am

PanthaGirl

No gain, no loss.
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Reply #46 posted 11/01/09 11:36am

Cinnie

PanthaGirl said:

No gain, no loss.


That's exactly why it DOES feel like a loss, though. When you think you were getting somewhere and enjoying someone's company.
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Reply #47 posted 11/01/09 11:53am

PanthaGirl

Cinnie said:

PanthaGirl said:

No gain, no loss.


That's exactly why it DOES feel like a loss, though. When you think you were getting somewhere and enjoying someone's company.


Nope not to me it doesn't, out of billions of peeps out there I'm not going to worry myself over one, afterall it's just a guy.
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Reply #48 posted 11/01/09 11:54am

Cinnie

PanthaGirl said:

Cinnie said:



That's exactly why it DOES feel like a loss, though. When you think you were getting somewhere and enjoying someone's company.


Nope not to me it doesn't, out of billions of peeps out there I'm not going to worry myself over one, afterall it's just a guy.


Well, those are commendable, healthy words of wisdom. I hope to adopt this attitude (I think most people have).
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Reply #49 posted 11/01/09 11:57am

PanthaGirl

Cinnie said:

PanthaGirl said:



Nope not to me it doesn't, out of billions of peeps out there I'm not going to worry myself over one, afterall it's just a guy.


Well, those are commendable, healthy words of wisdom. I hope to adopt this attitude (I think most people have).


Thanks Cin I hope the same for u too.
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Reply #50 posted 11/01/09 12:01pm

Alej

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JessieJ said:

Damn, these replies are killing me. WTF you guys lol sad

I handle rejection fairly well. When I was younger, it'd bother me, but now, if someone rejects me, I just remind myself that while this person doesn't want me, there is someone out there that does. And then I'm all...




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Reply #51 posted 11/01/09 12:17pm

violator

I used to be so fearful of rejection in my younger years that if a girl didn't approach me it wasn't happening. I don't worry about rejection at all now.
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Reply #52 posted 11/01/09 1:31pm

JustErin

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violator said:

I used to be so fearful of rejection in my younger years that if a girl didn't approach me it wasn't happening. I don't worry about rejection at all now.


So what was the reason for not telling me you were coming to a town like 40 minutes from me?
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Reply #53 posted 11/01/09 7:26pm

violator

JustErin said:

violator said:

I used to be so fearful of rejection in my younger years that if a girl didn't approach me it wasn't happening. I don't worry about rejection at all now.


So what was the reason for not telling me you were coming to a town like 40 minutes from me?


Oh, that. Fuck...
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Reply #54 posted 11/01/09 7:31pm

hokie

violator said:

JustErin said:



So what was the reason for not telling me you were coming to a town like 40 minutes from me?


Oh, that. Fuck...



falloff
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Reply #55 posted 11/02/09 1:45am

Wishuponastar

Listen to Music all day music
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Reply #56 posted 11/02/09 4:34pm

JustErin

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violator said:

JustErin said:



So what was the reason for not telling me you were coming to a town like 40 minutes from me?


Oh, that. Fuck...


mad
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Reply #57 posted 11/02/09 5:27pm

SupaFunkyOrgan
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JustErin said:

violator said:



Oh, that. Fuck...


mad

I tried telling him he couldn't get away from it lol wink
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Reply #58 posted 11/02/09 6:35pm

Horsefeathers

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I'm surprised no one said excessive masturbation. Liars!

Excessive is a relative term, though. I suppose as long as one's arms are symmetrical, it's not excessive.
Murica: at least it's not Sudan.
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Reply #59 posted 11/04/09 5:17pm

inovio

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does it count if he said he str8? LOL
Eye wanna make Love to U,
2 times maybe 3,
If u want to go 4 or 5,
Baby that's alright with me,
eye will be your little baby,
eye can be your big strong man....
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