paintedlady said:

And I'm so tired of hearing my girlfriends who KEEP these men who cheat, lie, and scheme say to me, "But he does have a good heart and deep down he's a good man."

If it's that deep down put him in the trunk and get a shovel...you know the rest.

blueblossom said:

good for you! I know one my girlfriend's is in a marriage where her husband has cheated on her time and time again...with the same woman, and the last time he cheated, the result was a child outside the marriage. She was all set ready to divorce him until her mother and her pastor convinced her to give him yet another chance (as if he really needed another one) because there are too many fatherless children out here (they have two children together). I told her that was a bogus excuse because staying in a lifeless marriage where you are constantly getting disrespected by your hubby for the kids sake does nothing but make the situation worse. The children already sense that something is, and has been wrong with their parents marriage. So why stay? But thats exactly what she did....won't be long before she will be telling me that he has cheated yet again....with the same woman.

noimageatall said:

for real. I get tired of hearing that shit time and time again from girl friends too.

noimageatall said:

I had to push women like these out of my life, because sure enough when dude treats them wrong, the want you to co-miserate. If you find someone, then they find reason to compare and nit pick about crazy stuff all the sudden, your weight, hair, dress, children, etc... Their relationship with you literally becomes toxic. Like they are all the sudden a full fledged "frenemy" simply because THEY are unhappy and it effects everyone around them.

I hope nobody else knows this very hell I went through with more women that I care to count.

paintedlady said:

That's why the majority of my friends are male.

Vendetta1 said:

That's why the majority of my friends are gay males.

noimageatall said:

noimageatall said:

paintedlady said:

I'ma cry

Vendetta1 said:

I love my friends. They won't hit on me constantly. They aren't jealous of me unless I have a new pair of Christian Louboutins...

...I can cry on their shoulder and they really care. They give me "man" advice. I don't constantly feel like they're salivating at the sight of my chest and ass. That gets old to me unless I already love the guy.

It's a shame that I don't have many girlfriends like that. It's never like the women in Waiting to Exhale.

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missfee said:

SMH at that shit. So they laid a guilt trip on her. As if his cheating and making a fool out of their mother is a good example for the kids and as if the kids would feel good about their daddy making babies with a woman who is not their mother. I swear some of these pastors need and ass wuppin'! Don't the bible say "thou shalt not commit adultry'? The mofo broke one of God's commandments and the pastor wants to reward him for it. Your poor friend, she has enablers encouraging her desperation.
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DesireeNevermind said:

I know. It's so sad because she is a very sweet person but she lets her mother and her pastor's opinions influence her decisions about her marriage. I told her she should have left that rat bastard years ago, but yet, she's STILL trying to make a doomed marriage work.

DesireeNevermind said:

A lot of these so-called "Men of God" have their own issues - you know what I'm talking about.

uPtoWnNY said:

TRU muthafuggin DAT!!! that's why people are NOT into church like they usta be. the leaders are all kinds of trifling.
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DesireeNevermind said:

I am one of them.

Desperation is not limited to gender. Both men and women are equally desperate. It is definitely the mindset of an individual, and I can smell desperation a mile away. That is a huge turn off for any gender.

kenlacam said:

step away from the

kenlacam said:

Women are more desperate. A man can have one leg with a kickstand and pull a woman. Women have to pull all kinds of stuff sometimes to score a man.

DesireeNevermind said:

I wish I could leave it alone, girl, but it got me goin!!!! LOL. Puff puff Pass!!!!

Vendetta1 said:

You should probably include many gay men in that too

Except that they pull easily....just sadly

Any man that marries a Kardashian is desperate!

Vendetta1 said:

That is so not true! It is just the opposite. a WOMAN can have a kickstand for a leg and pull a man. A man has to look "good' or have something going for himself for a woman to sleep with him. There is a reason why they say that men are dogs who will sleep with just about anything. Men do not care (generally speaking) if a woman is attractive or not. men will still want to have sex with her. That cannot be said vice-versa. Women do not have to pull out any tricks to sleep with a guy unless she stinks to high heaven. Even then, some men won't even care.

kenlacam said:

Are we talking sex or are we talking relationships? Cuz i already know some men will sleep with anything that moves.

No, I don't think so ... If you see all the discussions, the interesting general discussions, we can not say people are desperate ... are you crazy?! people are very well...

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Everyday is a yellow day... if U set your mind free, baby, maybe U'd understand
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Vendetta1 said:

Depends on your definition of "score". The most unattractive, meanest, bitchiest woman in the world can still find a man who will sleep with her. And not have to lower her own personal standards to do it. In fact she can easily find a man who will even pay her for the opportunity.

But plenty of decent, attractive women can't find a man willing to be in a loving, caring, committed relationship. That part is true.

i guess not desperate enough or I'd have some spit on my dick right now.

BklynBabe said:

Khloe must have a mousetrap in her panties to make Lamar lose his fucking mind like that.

BobGeorge909 said:

You're all class