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Question for the mature folks.... Ok so I have been attracting older men lately... they all seem to lie about their ages. Since there is no one else for me to ask this question too (because asking my dad or uncles would be too damn creepy)  I have a biological question.
About how old is a man when his scrotum is completely gray. 30's? 40's? 50's? Can men prematurely gray down there like some on their scalps when its genetic? Been with a man who claimed to be in his mid- 40's and was completely gray. I am 38... I have no grays in my "stubble" so will I be silver at 45-ish? 
Can you age a man by his facial hair also? Or does it matter, (is it all just genetic that is)?  Yes, I don't want to date a man that's working on his bucket list. | |
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paintedlady said: Ok so I have been attracting older men lately... they all seem to lie about their ages. Since there is no one else for me to ask this question too (because asking my dad or uncles would be too damn creepy)
I have a biological question.
About how old is a man when his scrotum is completely gray. 30's? 40's? 50's? Can men prematurely gray down there like some on their scalps when its genetic? Been with a man who claimed to be in his mid- 40's and was completely gray. I am 38... I have no grays in my "stubble" so will I be silver at 45-ish?
Can you age a man by his facial hair also? Or does it matter, (is it all just genetic that is)? Yes, I don't want to date a man that's working on his bucket list.i'm 35 on Sunday. i don't think i have too many grey hairs down there. i'd have to go check to be sure. if i grew a beard, there would be some greys on my chin. [Edited 10/30/09 17:05pm] everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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whistle said: paintedlady said: Ok so I have been attracting older men lately... they all seem to lie about their ages. Since there is no one else for me to ask this question too (because asking my dad or uncles would be too damn creepy)
I have a biological question.
About how old is a man when his scrotum is completely gray. 30's? 40's? 50's? Can men prematurely gray down there like some on their scalps when its genetic? Been with a man who claimed to be in his mid- 40's and was completely gray. I am 38... I have no grays in my "stubble" so will I be silver at 45-ish?
Can you age a man by his facial hair also? Or does it matter, (is it all just genetic that is)? Yes, I don't want to date a man that's working on his bucket list.i'm 35 on Sunday. i don't think i have too many grey hairs down there. i'd have to go check to be sure. if i grew a beard, there would be some greys on my chin. [Edited 10/30/09 17:05pm] about how gray is your chin? Sprinkled with a few grays, a cool streak 
or a salt n pepper? | |
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If you think he's lying about his age cut it in half and count the rings  | |
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PANDURITO said: If you think he's lying about his age cut it in half and count the rings
He wouldn't hold still long enough.... | |
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paintedlady said: about how gray is your chin? Sprinkled with a few grays, a cool streak
or a salt n pepper? i would say sprinkled with grey. it looks kinda strange on me, so i shave it off pretty fast. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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paintedlady said: PANDURITO said: If you think he's lying about his age cut it in half and count the rings
He wouldn't hold still long enough.... 
Then you'll have to accept his word  | |
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 Do older men tend to lie about their age just to get with a younger woman?
I thought society didn't care as much about that? | |
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paintedlady said: Do older men tend to lie about their age just to get with a younger woman?
I thought society didn't care as much about that? i wouldn't know. i've always gone after older women. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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whistle said: paintedlady said: about how gray is your chin? Sprinkled with a few grays, a cool streak
or a salt n pepper? i would say sprinkled with grey. it looks kinda strange on me, so i shave it off pretty fast. I see, yeah, you probably have a young looking face for the silver. Men look good with a touch of gray to me though.
Am I an ass to be shocked to see an all white sack? My grass is still black last time I checked and I don't think I'm used to seeing that yet. Would a man that is my age be shocked if he dated a 40-ish women and she undressed to reveal a silver beaver? I feel so immature all the sudden, buts its the truth... when I saw him I thought, "This is what my mother should be looking at... I'm too young for this " I just wasn't ready, I was actually shocked.  | |
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whistle said: paintedlady said: Do older men tend to lie about their age just to get with a younger woman?
I thought society didn't care as much about that? i wouldn't know. i've always gone after older women. The older women are generally honest about their ages? | |
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 i dont mean to be gettin all up into your kool-aid but you asked...see what you should be worrying about is why you know what color his pubic hair is before you truly know his age.LOVE HARD. | |
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paintedlady said: whistle said: i wouldn't know. i've always gone after older women. The older women are generally honest about their ages? women are generally honest full stop. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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Evvy said: i dont mean to be gettin all up into your kool-aid but you asked...see what you should be worrying about is why you know what color his pubic hair is before you truly know his age.
Asked his age...but little lies are a red flag for me. If he will lie about his age then what else will he lie about? See I don't expect a man that's clean shaven at all times with zero white hair on his head to undress and reveal a pubic area that looks like it belongs to Santa Clause. He was COMPLETELY gray... so I was shocked. He told me was was only 42 when I first met him. Then he changed that to 49 later on... I was like  but I didn't feel the need to become a detective and demand to see his ID. I felt confident about him otherwise... until I saw him naked.
I pulled away, I was just turned off a bit after a while. I just don't want a much older man. I want a man in my generation. He was 'aiight... but naw, he still is interested. He still hangs around, calling me daily to see how I am and to "just say hi" hoping I'll let him back in though.  [Edited 10/30/09 18:15pm] | |
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paintedlady said: Evvy said: i dont mean to be gettin all up into your kool-aid but you asked...see what you should be worrying about is why you know what color his pubic hair is before you truly know his age.
Asked his age...but little lies are a red flag for me. If he will lie about his age then what else will he lie about? See I don't expect a man that's clean shaven at all times with zero white hair on his head to undress and reveal a pubic area that looks like it belongs to Santa Clause. He was COMPLETELY gray... so I was shocked. He told me was was only 42 when I first met him. Then he changed that to 49 later on... I was like but I didn't feel the need to become a detective and demand to see his ID. I felt confident about him otherwise... until I saw him naked.
I pulled away, I was just turned off a bit after a while. I just don't want a much older man. I want a man in my generation. He was 'aiight... but naw, he still is interested. He still hangs around, calling me daily to see how I am and to "just say hi" hoping I'll let him back in though.
[Edited 10/30/09 18:15pm] your right mind told you to go the other way and it prolly wasn't all about what was in his pants LOVE HARD. | |
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this makes me think: i like older women, but i've never seen a grey vadge before. i'm not sure what my reaction to that would be...
please don't link any photos, i won't look!  everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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Evvy said: paintedlady said: Its OK... kool-aid placed on the table, take a sip.
Asked his age...but little lies are a red flag for me. If he will lie about his age then what else will he lie about? See I don't expect a man that's clean shaven at all times with zero white hair on his head to undress and reveal a pubic area that looks like it belongs to Santa Clause. He was COMPLETELY gray... so I was shocked. He told me was was only 42 when I first met him. Then he changed that to 49 later on... I was like but I didn't feel the need to become a detective and demand to see his ID. I felt confident about him otherwise... until I saw him naked.
I pulled away, I was just turned off a bit after a while. I just don't want a much older man. I want a man in my generation. He was 'aiight... but naw, he still is interested. He still hangs around, calling me daily to see how I am and to "just say hi" hoping I'll let him back in though.
[Edited 10/30/09 18:15pm] your right mind told you to go the other way and it prolly wasn't all about what was in his pants You're right... but I needed to ask this question to sorta confirm a suspicion that a man that is ALL silver is older than "40's". It is nagging at me, since he still held to his age at 49. His pubes set off the major red flag, I really questioned his intentions with me after that. Gave him an honest chance though, but after several months I felt that it wasn't meant to be. He called me today and called me "baby" and it bothered me, I corrected him, he called me baby again. So I thought about what I might have to say to him if he does ask me for sex again. I hope he never does.  | |
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Google him. Maybe you can find his actual age that way.  Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. ~Berthold Auerbach | |
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EmeraldSkies said: Google him. Maybe you can find his actual age that way.
I tried... shady mofo has no info on google.  | |
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whistle said: this makes me think: i like older women, but i've never seen a grey vadge before. i'm not sure what my reaction to that would be...
please don't link any photos, i won't look! What you mean to tell me that you never saw Patty Labelle live in concert?  | |
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paintedlady said: whistle said: this makes me think: i like older women, but i've never seen a grey vadge before. i'm not sure what my reaction to that would be...
please don't link any photos, i won't look! What you mean to tell me that you never saw Patty Labelle live in concert? maybe it's time for a new version of one her classic hits: "ooh ooh, ooh ooh ooh. i got another grey pube!" everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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whistle said: paintedlady said: What you mean to tell me that you never saw Patty Labelle live in concert? maybe it's time for a new version of one her classic hits: "ooh ooh, ooh ooh ooh. i got another grey pube!" While she's rolling around on the stage, shoes off and laying on her back all sweatty. NOT PRETTY. Great show though. | |
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well cant really say..but when i wa 19 i dated a guy in his 40's & he was the best lover i ever had. 
the last thing on my mind was his hair...oh yeah..he was blond, carpet matched the drapes. | |
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paintedlady said: EmeraldSkies said: Google him. Maybe you can find his actual age that way.
I tried... shady mofo has no info on google. Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. ~Berthold Auerbach | |
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sonic said: well cant really say..but when i wa 19 i dated a guy in his 40's & he was the best lover i ever had.
the last thing on my mind was his hair...oh yeah..he was blond, carpet matched the drapes. 
let's toast to the older fellas! | |
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I've never seen any men in their 40s or even their 50s with gray pubic hair. That's usually the ones in their 60s or 70s. Although there are exceptions.
It will be horrible when I get old enough to get gray pubic hair. I hope I lose my sex drive by then and I don't want no Viagra to revive it. Pubic hair is a huge turn-on for me so I would never trim or shave it but I be damned if I'm going to live with gray pubic hair either. Since I can't dye my hair anymore since I've developed an allergy to hair dye, maybe I'll weave some dark colored pubic hair in. I hate to see that day come. Andy is a four letter word. | |
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pubic hair is gross to me anyhow, except for my own, and to look down there and see a few gray hairs is sort of a turn off....i dont want a man to see that and think....damn that bitch has had problems...ya know??? plus i act younger than my age, just by default, so he would probably think i was creepy. THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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vainandy said: I've never seen any men in their 40s or even their 50s with gray pubic hair. That's usually the ones in their 60s or 70s. Although there are exceptions.
It will be horrible when I get old enough to get gray pubic hair. I hope I lose my sex drive by then and I don't want no Viagra to revive it. Pubic hair is a huge turn-on for me so I would never trim or shave it but I be damned if I'm going to live with gray pubic hair either. Since I can't dye my hair anymore since I've developed an allergy to hair dye, maybe I'll weave some dark colored pubic hair in. I hate to see that day come. This is what I was thinking, and as Luv4U suggested, I did finally ask to see his ID.... but he changed the subject and the next day "we" decided that we should no longer pursue a relationship. He told me he was going to re-dedicate his life to the Lord anyways. sorry but I just don't believe him on that one. | |
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sonic said: well cant really say..but when i wa 19 i dated a guy in his 40's & he was the best lover i ever had.
the last thing on my mind was his hair...oh yeah..he was blond, carpet matched the drapes. See, I was hoping to get turned out... but he was rather um.. ordinary. I guess it would have gotten better with more practice, but I have no patience for all the other stuff.
I guess that's a good thing that he didn't turn my butt out. | |
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