BoOTyLiCioUs said:

That's cool. I hope it works out for you.

JustErin said:

thanks. I hope so too.

ultrablue said:

i'm at my best if i'm attracted to someone only physically- i can flirt with them, reel them in, sometimes get them to do basically anything i want if they're attracted to me as well. i'm totally fucked if i like them for more than just looks i'm awkward, stumble over words, can't be witty, etc. it blows.

evenstar3 said:

Yes....

Crushes... usually hate them. Especially, when they turn into more, like at the moment.

I hate having a crush...

Him: What's your favorite food?

Me: Whatever you like.

evenstar3 said:

I don't seem to suffer through having crushes. It's usually people I already like and have a fondness for who I just seem to dig even more at a particular time. Or occasionally someone new that comes in my life who I love being around. Dan's just charming and adorable, but he's been really cracking me up even more than usual lately. You're gorgeous, and I'm not going to say there's never a physical element to my crushes ( ), but I don't really have crushes based on that alone. My other crush is my ex-best friend's wife ( ) and one of my new best friends. She's just so sweet and funny and she's the first person in a while here who I really look forward to going to hang out with. I just love her to bits. I like my crushes.

BoOTyLiCioUs said:

Lol It is annoying. It doesn't matter what age you are either. When there's a crush, attractions take over and we become all jittery, silly and nervous....enjoy the experience

Bohemian67 said:

yeah, it reminds of me when I was in junior high/high school when I was scared to talk to guys first.

My only advice is : don't appear desparate. It is a huge turn-off, and a guy will often just want one thing from a desparate girl. Let the guy do the chasing. It is far more interesting.

ultrablue said:

i don't have any really at the moment, just people i think i'd probably have crushes on if i let myself be around them more.

kenlacam said:

hey, that applies equally to men too.

evenstar3 said:

right.

I wish someone crushed on me...what's a guy got to do get his ass chased by FEMALES (this time, ), around here

kenlacam said:

yeah...that's what i'm trying to do. He's got a bit of an ego so gotta give him a bit of a chase. But I don't wanna play too hard to get though.

pardonme4livin said:

It's annoying though when a guy has gurls after him all the time....they are really conceited and think they can get a gurl by just looking at them. you gotta bring them back to ground level.

kenlacam said:

his ex was like that tho, already telling him she loved him and they had only been together for 3 weeks.

BoOTyLiCioUs said:

Wow, I would be so out the door if my girl told me that after only 3 weeks. The same thing does apply to guys, but to tell you the truth, us guys enjoy the chase. And since you said he has an ego, you want to play hard to get a little, but not too much. Just enough to keep him wondering. If your org name reflects who you are, it will be worth the wait for him to chase you

kenlacam said:

hahaha how do i do that though? I'm used to guys chasing after me to be honest.

BoOTyLiCioUs said:

You must be pretty hot, I'm assuming ! If a guy has a bigger ego than you, then it is like playing "Chicken", the game where 2 people race cars at each other until one of them gives in and swerves out of the way. So if both of you have egos, you have to work it! Let him sweat it out. Don't answer the phone every time he calls. This will make him want you more. Appear somewhat mysterious to him-don't reveal everything about yourself too quickly, or he will lose interest. Stuff like that. Make HIM crush on YOU, which should be easy, miss Hottie.

kenlacam said:

well when i was younger, the guys that i had crushes on just liked me as a friend. Now since I've grown into my looks, i have a lot of guys who are interested in me. but anyway, he's gonna be in town for the whole week so I told him when I left that night that we should hang out one more time before he leaves....dunno if that was too much. i was gonna hav him interact with me first on this. I hate this because I am so shy on this and worried about anything i say to him.
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If he is in town just for the week, you should make sure that he really is into you for you and not for your body, so if I were you, I would NOT

kenlacam said:

oh no need to worry. we've only hugged and that's it. He has given me a kiss on the cheek. that's it. he's a gentlemen when it comes to that.

evenstar3 said:

I'd love to be around you more. Or once, ever. California is so far away! I wonder if Mon wants to go to Disneyland. So much we've yet to see in S.E. Asia though. I hope you end up living in England someday.

BoOTyLiCioUs said:

That's cool. That is definitely a good sign.

Oh Lord, I've been there two or three times. Unfortunately, they've all been straight. But you should feel great because you actually stand a chance with him.

vainandy said:

well, i hope so. He's really cute so he always has ladies after him. He's on my facebook and sometimes I wonder bout some of his statuses. Just song lyrics or something about his ex or someone he's interested in? I hate this feeling but i love it at the same time.
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ultrablue said:

i might come to thailand someday, you never know

thank you though i still want london so badly, but it's so damn hard. i had the chance a month or so ago to transfer to chester (which i guess is near wales? ), but i wasn't doing very well at the time & couldn't handle it. maybe if i don't like san francisco

kenlacam said:

I loved the master after 3 weeks, but I didn't tell him. A year later I STILL hadn't told him, and he broke up with me because he thought I wasn't serious about him and didn't want to have his babies

evenstar3 said:

Chester's quite near Liverpool isn't it? So near to north Wales. When we're in the UK we're in Cheltenham most of the time, not far from Wales at all, but further south.

Bangkok invasion, I'm telling you! I really hope you get the opportunity to move to London though. I'm sure you will at some point.

ZombieKitten said:

But why didn't you tell him?