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PrintableVendetta1 said: paintedlady said: This never bothered me until I gained 80 lbs from taking meds. I am still fat as hell, and now I found a new sense of compassion for overweight people because NOW I understand.
You are just awesome. I don't get angry or hurt when people call me fat... I only cried once when my sister taunted my excessive weight gain because I was at ideal weight 9 years ago. She was always a bully to me my whole life, so this was just another way to hurt me when she equated my weight with a lack of class. So I let her have it and called her a raggety bitch that lacked not only tact but a sense of class herself. She used to starve herself to be thin, and she still has body image issues (even though she is fit and beautiful). She even landed herself in the emergency room numerous times because of her extreme dieting. One day I blew up at her, and she left me alone, shocked at the way I stood up to her. She apologized to me which is hard for her to do. She wonders why I am happy in any size I am. I don't let people ( men in particular) bother me. I walk in confidence, even as a size 18W, I keep a mean strut. My sister doesn't understand, why I am happy in my size. Its because I can breathe and I feel healthier now that my lungs are functioning in a normal way. Yes, I will work on losing the weight in the future, but I enjoy my body just the way it is, even love my swimsuit I bought (yes an 18W!) and I wear it proudly on the beach. No harpoon needed. Weird thing, I have wayyyy better sex in my "meatball" form than I ever did slender. I am just as agile, even though I queef a bit more because of my um... thickness. TMI  But its the truth... dudes love the squishiness of my "pillowtop" form.    I hate any woman to feel bad about her body, doesn't matter if she is too thin/fat/short/tall by standards set by others. Its HER body, and no one has any right to make anyone feel uncomfortable in their own skin. I think even the men can relate to that one too. | |
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It hasn't happened but I wouldn't care if it did because it would be unjustified as I'm not fat and comfortable in my own skin.
I have been witness to a few occasions it has happened to others though, it was not pleasant. There is a girl at work that taunts other girls with crude comments. On one occasion she went up to a girl that has put on a little weight, she put her hands on the girls face and boldly said "oh look how pudgy, cute and fat U look now that U have put on so much weight".The other girl reacted with "Rita I can lose weight any time I like but unfortunately U will always be ugly". [Edited 10/20/09 6:11am] | |
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PanthaGirl said: It hasn't happened but I wouldn't care if it did because it would be unjustified as I'm not fat and comfortable in my own skin.
I have been witness to a few occasions it has happened to others though, it was not pleasant. There is a girl at work that taunts other girls with crude comments. On one occasion she went up to a girl that has put on a little weight, she put her hands on the girls face and boldly said "oh look how pudgy, cute and fat U look now that U have put on so much weight".The other girl reacted with "Rita I can lose weight any time I like but unfortunately U will always be ugly". [Edited 10/20/09 6:11am] Co-sign. |
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paintedlady said: Vendetta1 said: You are just awesome.
I hate any woman to feel bad about her body, doesn't matter if she is too thin/fat/short/tall by standards set by others. Its HER body, and no one has any right to make anyone feel uncomfortable in their own skin. I think even the men can relate to that one too.Good point  |
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whistle said: if someone calls you fat, will you remember the incident for life?
Only 4 the weakest of minds. | |
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Yes! | |
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Yup. I'll never forget my 'step' grandmother who said to me at Christmas "You're getting ANOTHER plate? Don't you think you're a little too fat?".
I was 12 and horrified. I never forgot those words from that hag. Bitch! | |
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Graycap23 said: whistle said: if someone calls you fat, will you remember the incident for life?
Only 4 the weakest of minds. I would think a star quarterback remembers every time he's been sacked or whatever you call it. | |
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Graycap23 said: whistle said: if someone calls you fat, will you remember the incident for life?
Only 4 the weakest of minds. Not true! | |
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Honey said: Graycap23 said: Only 4 the weakest of minds. I would think a star quarterback remembers every time he's been sacked or whatever you call it. and I am willing to bet that men remember every time a woman complained about his performance/dick size | |
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paintedlady said: Honey said: I would think a star quarterback remembers every time he's been sacked or whatever you call it. and I am willing to bet that men remember every time a woman complained about his performance/dick sizeFor sure!  | |
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My Nan once said it to me and it cut deep but I have to remember that she was beginning to loose the plot.
I AM fat. I absolutely loathe the size I am but find it hard to gather the willpower to do anything about it. I need to make some serious life adjustments. I can no longer use the 'baby weight' excuse as my baby is now 15 months old! I'm not stopping. I haven't even taken my coat off
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paintedlady said: Honey said: I would think a star quarterback remembers every time he's been sacked or whatever you call it. and I am willing to bet that men remember every time a woman complained about his performance/dick size | |
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CarrieLee said: Yup. I'll never forget my 'step' grandmother who said to me at Christmas "You're getting ANOTHER plate? Don't you think you're a little too fat?".
I was 12 and horrified. I never forgot those words from that hag. Bitch!  "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: CarrieLee said: Yup. I'll never forget my 'step' grandmother who said to me at Christmas "You're getting ANOTHER plate? Don't you think you're a little too fat?".
I was 12 and horrified. I never forgot those words from that hag. Bitch! Really...I was going through puberty at the time so I was a little bit of a chunk but not obese. She was the one that was fat...it really hurt my feelings as a pre-teen!!! | |
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^^^^
that sux | |
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CarrieLee said: meow85 said: Really...I was going through puberty at the time so I was a little bit of a chunk but not obese. She was the one that was fat...it really hurt my feelings as a pre-teen!!! That is pretty awful. A lot of people have no tact or sense of consideration for others' feelings, especially when that other is a kid. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: No. Because not only am I an ideal weight for my height and body type, I don't have much in the way of body image issues.
 same here.
although my boss did call me fat once but I called him boney mutherfucker so wutevs. | |
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Yea, I'd remember it...   I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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Graycap23 said: whistle said: if someone calls you fat, will you remember the incident for life?
Only 4 the weakest of minds. Wrong. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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If someone has - an they prolly have cuz I am "fat" and have been stocky all my life
I don't really remember - so No | |
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sammij said: Graycap23 said: Only 4 the weakest of minds. Wrong. U all have some long memories or u are 2 sensitive. | |
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Graycap23 said: sammij said: Wrong. U all have some long memories or u are 2 sensitive. What's wrong with sensitive? I'm super sensitive when it comes to my looks. | |
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JustErin said: Graycap23 said: U all have some long memories or u are 2 sensitive. What's wrong with sensitive? I'm super sensitive when it comes to my looks. Many folks have commented on how pretty you are. Doesn't that help squash your sensitivities even a lil bit? | |
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DesireeNevermind said: JustErin said: What's wrong with sensitive? I'm super sensitive when it comes to my looks. Many folks have commented on how pretty you are. Doesn't that help squash your sensitivities even a lil bit? No. | |
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paintedlady said: This never bothered me until I gained 80 lbs from taking meds. I am still fat as hell, and now I found a new sense of compassion for overweight people because NOW I understand.
I don't get angry or hurt when people call me fat... I only cried once when my sister taunted my excessive weight gain because I was at ideal weight 9 years ago. She was always a bully to me my whole life, so this was just another way to hurt me when she equated my weight with a lack of class. So I let her have it and called her a raggety bitch that lacked not only tact but a sense of class herself. She used to starve herself to be thin, and she still has body image issues (even though she is fit and beautiful). She even landed herself in the emergency room numerous times because of her extreme dieting. One day I blew up at her, and she left me alone, shocked at the way I stood up to her. She apologized to me which is hard for her to do. She wonders why I am happy in any size I am. I don't let people ( men in particular) bother me. I walk in confidence, even as a size 18W, I keep a mean strut. My sister doesn't understand, why I am happy in my size. Its because I can breathe and I feel healthier now that my lungs are functioning in a normal way. Yes, I will work on losing the weight in the future, but I enjoy my body just the way it is, even love my swimsuit I bought (yes an 18W!) and I wear it proudly on the beach. No harpoon needed. Weird thing, I have wayyyy better sex in my "meatball" form than I ever did slender. I am just as agile, even though I queef a bit more because of my um... thickness. TMI But its the truth... dudes love the squishiness of my "pillowtop" form.  you rock! | |
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DesireeNevermind said: JustErin said: What's wrong with sensitive? I'm super sensitive when it comes to my looks. Many folks have commented on how pretty you are. Doesn't that help squash your sensitivities even a lil bit? That can make being called fat, just once, unforgettable. | |
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paintedlady said: This never bothered me until I gained 80 lbs from taking meds. I am still fat as hell, and now I found a new sense of compassion for overweight people because NOW I understand.
I don't get angry or hurt when people call me fat... I only cried once when my sister taunted my excessive weight gain because I was at ideal weight 9 years ago. She was always a bully to me my whole life, so this was just another way to hurt me when she equated my weight with a lack of class. So I let her have it and called her a raggety bitch that lacked not only tact but a sense of class herself. She used to starve herself to be thin, and she still has body image issues (even though she is fit and beautiful). She even landed herself in the emergency room numerous times because of her extreme dieting. One day I blew up at her, and she left me alone, shocked at the way I stood up to her. She apologized to me which is hard for her to do. She wonders why I am happy in any size I am. I don't let people ( men in particular) bother me. I walk in confidence, even as a size 18W, I keep a mean strut. My sister doesn't understand, why I am happy in my size. Its because I can breathe and I feel healthier now that my lungs are functioning in a normal way. Yes, I will work on losing the weight in the future, but I enjoy my body just the way it is, even love my swimsuit I bought (yes an 18W!) and I wear it proudly on the beach. No harpoon needed. Weird thing, I have wayyyy better sex in my "meatball" form than I ever did slender. I am just as agile, even though I queef a bit more because of my um... thickness. TMI But its the truth... dudes love the squishiness of my "pillowtop" form. U go girl!  "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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JustErin said: DesireeNevermind said: Many folks have commented on how pretty you are. Doesn't that help squash your sensitivities even a lil bit? No. Yeah...it doesn't really make a difference, all it takes is the right person saying something nasty & it feels like none of that matters. | |
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yes, yes, yall, you know we breakin it off. see how we bringing the street corner to carnagie hall. it be so funny how badily they want me to fall. fuckin up something, me and jiggas is ready to brawl.....  ...THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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