What would U do if U discovered an ex was jacking off live on a straight male site that targets the gay male population?

A close friend found out about this about a particular ex of hers and she has mixed emotions about the entire ordeal and after seeing it with my own eyes, I was shocked but had a good laugh. Apparently he does it for the extra money and of course the power trip he gets in return for having all these peeps wank for him as he wanks for their viewing pleasure.

I advised her against confronting him with it head on because frankly it's none of her business but of course to each their own.

So...what would U do? Would U confront him with ur opinion or let it be?

its an ex...just let it be...
But that story was funny and kind of disturbing..lol

nyse said:

Too true lol but I do feel sorry for her as she has not moved on with anyone else since they broke up a couple of years ago so she still has emotional attachments. No matter what I or the other girls say she can't seem to get past him.

I'm hoping she will after this umm full frontal incident...

PanthaGirl said:

i'd probably get turned on and ring him up

PricelessHo said:

Yah she was tempted. I had to stop her from doing so when we were watching him.

I wouldn't really think anything of it.

I wouldn't worry about it at all.

But I'd post a link so we could all see what we were talking about.

PanthaGirl said:

yeah thats real tough...I know how that feels like (not moving on)
and if i found my ex on the intenet with a toy or a vibrator...i would be devistated...And on the bottle heavy....

be there for her...show her a good time...what ever get her mind off of it...

Efan said:

Efan said:

yeah exactly

lol...yall nasty

Efan said:

Nope I won't make it worse for her by encouraging others.

nyse said:

Thanks nyse I will definately do my best to help her get over him.

I'm stiff just thinking about it.

Betina said:

Well, if she's curious to see if he was a closeted homosexual and this played into the 'breakup' I guess I could see her curiosity in it.

But many straight guys do gay porn strictly for the money because it pay so much more, from what I'm told, so it doesn't mean he's gay.



My stance is that he's an EX so what does it matter? He could be doing crack cocaine now, and that's really his business. No need to get involved in that mess.


Why exactly is she curious about his line of work?

Imago said:

From what I know, the reason she is so curious and wanting to bring this up with him is because they occasionaly still engage in sex and therefore she holds a flame for him and won't let go of her emotional attachments. She can't seem to let go of this one he really has a hold on her, even though they are no longer technically a couple, moreso occasional fuck buddies with a twist.

He's not gay but obviously has no problems with jerking off to gay men and I can confirm (now that I've seen it too) he is alone when he does his live online vids but gets it on for whomever pays to watch. As for his occupations his regular day job is a labourer and by night a masturbator.

PanthaGirl said:

OK, my ex girlfriend and I did that for a while. The 'not a couple' but still having sex thing... it doesn't really work. One of you always ends up thinking about the other person in a romantic sense eventually.

If I was her, I'd run for the hills. I'd get utterly grossed out knowing someone I'm fucking is showing their bits and pieces to the rest of the world.

PricelessHo said:

Me too


One of my exes did something like this, but he actually told me about it. I can't say that I was surprised.

Imago said:

Exactly mate. From what I can see between them 2 as an outsider, she is the only one with the romantic notions going on in her head. If he felt the same way, he would still be committed to her and wouldn't be sharing his wanks with men and women worldwide. I'm unsure of my reaction if and when I see them out together again, I'll probably piss myself laughing thinking back to the imagery of him.

JessieJ said:

Was this after ur relationship had broken up? I'm glad he was honest enough to fess up.

exactly how much does this pay? Does he interact with the men or is it some mystery thing where he has no idea who he is performing for????

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I'm not too sure lovely cause when I saw him live a few hours ago with her, I stopped her from calling him so the money side hasn't been revealed yet, from what I have read over the net these type of acts can pay a fair bit. A male friend of ours was the one who directed us to his extra curricular activities and that's how we know what we do.

Guests to the site can remain anonymous or there can be some forms of communication if the guest chooses that option, which includes vocal or visual.

PanthaGirl said:

It was something that he had been doing before he and I got together. He told me about it during our relationship. He was pretty open about most things, which was very much appreciated. I'm sure he wanted to let me know just in case I stumbled upon something

PanthaGirl said:

She will, I'm sorry she hasn't moved on yet, but maybe this is the kind of information she needed about him to do just that. lol

JessieJ said:

I think it was great of him to be so open and honest about it. Kudos.

blessedk said:

I'll be speaking to her later today and see where she is at with this. I hope she can finally let go and move on with her life, she deserves better then that.