Do women who claim to have had sexual intercourse with lots of men turn you on... or do you think that they are really insecure women who desperately want people to think that they are attractive and wanted? Or... do you think that there is something else going on?

What about women who constantly claim that they are the hottest thing going? What do you think there?


(So, I copied and pasted... I did go through the trouble of changing it a little).

It's kinda sexy to know they're experienced and could teach me a few things but it's also quite intimidating.

Anyone who feels a need to demonstrate how "hot" they are is seriously lacking, in some department or another. I much prefer a quiet confidence.

And if they're bragging about how many people they've slept with, chances are they are very insecure about something.

In fact, if I had the choice of a guy who's slept with several different women one time or a guy who's only slept with only one woman who he was in a serious relationship with, I'll choose the one-woman guy every time. Not necessarily because he's "proved" his monogamy, or because he's much more likely to be disease-free (which is VERY important!), but because she's had time to teach him things!! 10 to 1 he's the much better guy in bed.

On the other hand, just because someone HAS slept with a lot of people, doesn't make them crazy or a bad person or a slut/whore/whatever. To each their own.

(Ok, I know the topic was about women, but I never got into the discussion on the other thread... sorry.)

I guess I'd need to see the person in question before I could answer. I'm a very visual person.

less history more mystery...

some shit i do not wanna know.

and..some shit you dont wanna know about me


lol

Common Sense warrants keeping zee Mouth Closed. Use the ole Zip-it! Sometimes these Women so to Speak are Not BRAGGING and I don't Think a woman who talks about her Sexuality is wrong. It's not like she said Geez ,You know I slept with 3 million guys . It could only be 3 guys and so she isn't a virgin so why she gotta act like some Tight-Assed Prune? Nothing Wrong with a Female stating she likes Sex. We are All Human Beings. Hey,I Like sex and I'm not Shy about it in the Least. I've been Married and had a kid. Had 3 Serious Boyfriends and always engaged so I don't think cause I had Sex with them that makes me a slut. I've Always Had Serious Monogamous relationships...Have You? I believe in TRUST and being FAITHFUL to my Partner...Whether they have been FAITHFUL TO ME well that's another Damn Story...

I think a woman who has slept with lotts of men is a BIG turn off. The idea of many men before me kinda disgusts me.
But that´s my opinion...

It is quite interesting to see the different views that you guys have regarding this. A little surprising too...

AzureStar said:

I like these kind of questions...but why do you ask

Jasper said:

I asked because it was asked of the women earlier today...

AzureStar said:

I know, I read it. Just wanted to have some fun..

Jasper said:

lol

Copykitty!

:EVIL:

i suppose it all depends on how they're talking about it...

if they're talking about it as a matter of fact, then i wouldn't think anything of it one way or the other...

if they're talking about it like they're on this huge conquest to fuck every guy on the planet, then i may be a bit turned off... i might also suggest that they make a trip to the clinic periodically and have that shit checked out...

LoL,,, AzureStar, you funny! ...You go gal!!!

Same answer I gave on the other thread...I'd worry about cheating...

Yes! But she can't be with more than TWO men before me.
Otherwise she will know i'm lacking and got no skills.
And that means the world to me. I have an ego and self-esteem to nurture.




Nurturing the edit
[This message was edited Thu Jan 9 6:03:04 PST 2003 by 4LOVE]

IceNine said:

Meow

Personally, I would rather not know.
Any woman who goes on about how hot they are, is a major turn-off. Knowing you're beautiful is one thing but to go on about it is another.

Selfishness on any level makes me turn the other way and run.