lol, u just figured this out

we get dressed to impress other women when a man compliments u - its one or two reasons
when a woman compliments u thats real!!!
even when a woman is jealous and hating its REAL

sexyAuntyFuka said:

It's lame but true...

...but instead of staring.....

sexyAuntyFuka said:

Pul-lease. I don't do that because I don't care what other women look like.

blessedk said:

True for some. I don't dress to impress anyone. I dress for myself.

Vendetta1 said:

Yeah, I say it's true, not for all, because I have seen it how women compete with eachother, but it's sad. I'm with you, I dress for myself and if I wanna wear tennis shoes and jeans or flat girlie shoes instead of heels, I will. And when I wanna kill my feet and wear heels, I will. I see women at my job killing their feet wearing 4 inch heels to work everyday and complaining their feet hurt. lol

Women with 4 inch heels at your workplace?

You don't happen to have any vacancies there?

CarrieMpls said:

co-sign.


Why should a woman compete for something that will never truly be hers anyway?

sexyAuntyFuka said:

well...I do believe that things like heels, makeup, etc, while often dismissed as torture devices created by men, all stem back to women creating their own makeup thousands of years ago.

I believe it's women that did these things first to themselves.

However, I believe it was not for each other, but to attract men.

But thousands of years later it has developed into such an art form, that it has it's own life. Women can appreciate the craft of another woman's "fabulousness." It's fun in and of itself. Similarly, while men accomplish goals in order to appear like good providers to women, some do it so well that I can appreciate their craft, too.

A highly stereotyped point of view, I know, and there are many exceptions & arguments. I'm only speaking very generally.

blessedk said:

And it's also human nature. Sure it's true that some women don't compete at all, but the majority do...whether it's subconscious or not is another thing.

And competing doesn't mean that one can't appreciate their competition or that they will be catty or mean towards them. It's not always that way at all.

You see perfect examples of it here on the org, time and time again.

I'm highly competitive, but I don't trash the other person to get ahead.

What's subconscious?

Sexual jealousy abounds, little titties possessed by alien slug forms travelling through the cosmos via radiowaves.

Question1: Titties of slugs?
Question2: Can the slugs morph into the curvature of female breasts?

I like to watch women more than men because they are far more interesting and nicer to look at.

ZombieKitten said:

so it's purely aesthetic and not sexual?

whistle said:

you mean am I thinking "wow I'd like to FUCK HER!?!?!"
that's rare for me, but it CAN happen

ZombieKitten said:

ZombieKitten said:

i guess i was wondering what makes them nicer and more interesting to look at.

whistle said:

they do appeal to me more than men aesthetically

ZombieKitten said:

Vendetta1 said:

ZombieKitten said:

sexyAuntyFuka said:

i call bullshit.

as long as can bust one off, dont matter if its chick nor child. ...





...(notreally)

after all this competing, what's the prize?
REALLY.

I never in my life have thought of myself as in any kind of league to be competing with anyone I always go about minding my own business. I will look at the ladies, and wonder how much it costs (thousands in some cases, according to a magazine article I read about the high price of beauty) and I might look at the men looking at those ladies, and I might be on the same wavelength as CarrieMPLS with that I don't feel even in the same category, I feel removed. Maybe I have an esteem problem, or poor self-image, but if a guy was ever looking at me it I always thought it must have been because I have a booger hanging out of my nose or something Doesn't happen any more, since I never go out in public.

ZombieKitten said:

The prize is the attention I guess. The 'men find me hot and sexy which makes me so much better than you' look on some of the girls faces. I've always noticed though that the truly beautiful women have just as many girl fans as men.

Arnotts said:

I find any kind of attention like that uncomfortable, so that must be why I'm not in it to win it and deliberately do things to not be noticed.

sexyAuntyFuka said:

most men would probably think the plain jane done up is hot. Women can tell the difference.[/quote]

Very true.

Whilst men see a woman with good hair, nice eyelashes, good skin, great figure and smeels good

A woman will look at the same feamale and see a bad weave, fake lashes, cheap foundation, bad breast job and wearing Chanel no.5.3[/quote]





that's so true!
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daingermouz2020 said:

Very true.

Whilst men see a woman with good hair, nice eyelashes, good skin, great figure and smeels good

A woman will look at the same feamale and see a bad weave, fake lashes, cheap foundation, bad breast job and wearing Chanel no.5.3[/quote]


That's so true![/quote]

so what have we learned today? women are haters...

whistle said:

AMEN BROTHER!

All women like to feel like they are attractive, some women are confident and don't worry about who else is in the room and who's looking at who.

I am not physical perfection, heck even Halley Berry dressed in the latest fashion sitting next to my fat ass wouldn't shake my confidence one bit. Many women in my family are drop dead gorgeous, even my best friend has caused a few car accidents from men not being able to take their eyes off of her. I am used to being in the company of great looking women. There is always somebody prettier around me... like wayyyy prettier. IMHO

And ya know... something weird would always happened to me that may not happen to many women, being around gorgeous girls... the vain assholes would gravitate towards them first. Then AFTER the vain asshole got dissed by my awesome looking buddy or sister or cousin of mine, then they would come to me....

Vain asshole: "Hey there, you're good looking too... "
Me: "Ya, I already knew that, thanks and bye-bye now"

To this day, I never went after anybody else's man. I never let a dude talk to me after he tried to "hollar" at my girl either, no matter how fine he was. Never had to, ya see because I'm too pretty.

So are women competitive, or are men just too vain?