would u be willing to date somebody who was expecting a child (that's not yours)

male or female

smells like DRAMA... keep it moving, unless you look at the bright side.

You and the real babydaddy can each hold up a leg as she pushes the baby out.

Lets hope she's not a shitter during delivery.

Hell no.....

paintedlady said:

Depends... on your kink, I guess.

It's funny, but it's not.

Fury said:

Stay friends until after the baby is born that way you won't get hurt if the couple gets back together because of 'the baby'

It was only last June
When her old man ran away
She couldn't stop crying
'Cause she knew he was gone 2 stay

It was 10:35 on a lonely friday night
She was standin' by the bar
Hmm, she was lookin' alright, yeah

I asked if she wanted 2 dance
And she said all she wanted was a good man
And wanted 2 know
If I thought I was qualified, yeah

And I said, baby don't waste your time
I know what's on your mind
I may be qualified 4 a one night stand
But I could never take the place of your man

It hurt me so bad when she told me
With tears in her eyes (Tears in her eyes)
He was all she ever had
And now she wanted 2 die

He left her with a baby
And another one on the way
She couldn't stop cryin'
Cause she knew he was gone 2 stay

She asked me if we could be friends
And I said, oh, honey baby that's a dead end
U know and I know
That we wouldn't be satisfied
No
And I said

Baby don't waste your time
I know what's on your mind
U wouldn't be satisfied (Wouldn't be satisfied)
With a one night stand

And I could never take the place of your man

Yeah, yeah, the place of your man

Fuck no.

I don't think I would want to date anyone with kids full stop ....

IshmaelB said:

gotta give a man a real description of what can happen during a delivery... if you want to get with a woman that's preggers, then he will need to be mentally prepared to support her in any circumstance.

Honestly, and a woman that is single AND pregnant should take a pass at trying to date. She should focus on getting her life in order and preparing for single parenthood instead of a new beau. IMO

Oh Hell nah!

Hell no.... some people are ok with that though

whatever floats your boat i guess lol

One of my coworkers married someone he started dating while she was pregnant. They've been together for a while, and have 3 or 4 kids now.
Sometimes things work out.

i have no interest in children.

Sure, why not - if he's not with the mother.

As for me dating someone while pregnant, there were no shortage of dudes wanting to hook up while I was knocked up, but the thought of sleeping with anyone other than the baby's father repulsed me (and I was single at 4 months along).

IF SHE WAS AWESOME THEN YES.

I'm also confused over the proposed notion of men possibly being preganant.I've never heard of that type of intersexuality.

it's pretty amazing what some folks will tolerate while dating and what they won't...funny that a pregnant woman conjures images of drama and an unsorted life...heaven forbid that a pregnant woman may have her shit together

Ive actually got alot of experience with this, so here goes.

I met this girl and a month later, found out she was 4 months pregnant. I decided to stick it out, because I really liked her, and in my opinion, what's the difference if the kid is 5 or not born yet? We all have had premarital sex, so we all take the risk. I could not in good concious, judge this girl because she got "caught". It would be hypocritical. The father was out of the picture. Sure thoughts of doubt went through my head. Was she with me just so I can take care of her? Does she want me to be a daddy? But if theres one thing Ive learned in life, is you cant live with fear or doubt. You have to bea able to love unconditionally, if you expect to recieve anything in return.

She ended up giving the baby for open adoption to a family from church, as she was young and not ready. I supported her fully with her decision, yet didnt have an opinion, since it wasnt my child.I was the one to deal with the pain and doubt she had after the decision. It was not easy. We were together for 5 1/2 years after that before we got married.

However..she is now pregnant with my child and decided she wanted a divorce...So now I am a seperated man with a child on the way with my soon to be ex wife.. Hopefully some nice girl will give me the same chance I gave her..

Karma's a bitch.

NewPowerToad said:

Wow...

this guy was into me....he had a 11 year old...was never interested...

at some point as a single adult, especially within a certain age group, the chances start to slim that you'll find someone without children...it's understandable that somebody may not want children of their own but of all the reasons to limit the dating pool, children wouldn't be at the top of my list...

sexyone said:

co-sign

roodboi said:

Yeah, true.

paintedlady said:

OMG

Pregnant pussy is good but NO!
Not worth the drama

Fury said:

I do not think I would date any male that was expecting.



But yeah I would date a pregger gal if I liked her and If I was single. I mean I would not exclude her just because she was pregnant.

pregnant gals are hot and horny!

pregnant women r more vulnerable- sometimes men seek them out

roodboi said:

Not necessarily, the drama doesn't have to be on the new mom, the biological dad may have a hard time letting go and allowing her to move on.
The new boyfriend may not be ready for the new parenthood phase, and yes, the financial stuff may come into play IF she has to take an extended maternity leave, that may not suit her financial needs.

paintedlady said:

and all those could apply to people without kids...drama, finances, crazy, controlling motherfuckers....