Do guys who claim to have had sexual intercourse with lots of women turn you on... or do you think that they are really scared little boys who desperately want people to think that they are verile and attractive? Or... do you think that there is something else going on?

What about guys who constantly claim that they are the hottest thing going? What do you think there?

No... they most certainly are NOT a turn on. Men who talk about how "hot" or "sexy" they are and who speak about how many hundreds of women they have slept with are very insecure men, in my opinion.

(I am really not posting... you see nothing here).

Sounds like a potential cheater to me...

It doesn't bother me, eye figure what happened in their past is none of my business.

I do not even want to talk about how many women I have been with.

I do not understand why women even ask how many women have you been with.

What's the point? As Chris Rock said, any number past one is going to be too much.

Why press on it?

As long as the person is clean and is only with you, that is all that should matter.

Paisley said:

That is not my point... my point is:

What do you think about men bragging about fucking a lot of women, as if that is some kind of badge of honor? Do you think that this is a sign of insecurity or security... or something else?

IceNine said:

I interpret it either as the guy trying to "prove" he's good in bed, or that he's absolutely irresistable to women. (Almost certainly, neither of these is the truth) I personally find it tacky, and of course I'd also think of the possible health risks involved, and I would never want to be with someone who felt he had to talk like that.

Why, do you know someone like that? A U of Michigan graduate, perhaps?

AnotherLover2 said:

Naaah... I think that TheChronic is just having fun and bullshitting... He is most likely a really great guy.

I was just thinking about the topic for some reason... I just find it a little amusing.

IceNine said:

I imagine it's what's considered "lockerroom talk"? Did that kind of conversation really go on in the all-male sanctuaries, Ice?

AnotherLover2 said:

That kind of conversation goes on among guys quite freqently in the teenage/early twenties time-frame... guys are trying to prove their verility and they want to assert their heterosexuality in the face of other guys. Most guys are VERY afraid that people will think that they are gay or that they are not a man if they don't fuck a lot of women, therefore many men will make the assertion that they have fucked a lot of women in an attempt to make themselves fit into a mold that society accepts.

IceNine said:

Anyone who brags about anything usually have some other issues going on. A real man doesn't have to brag -- it shows. Like people who think they know it all usually don't know the difference between their mouth and their asshole. Men who brag about sexual intercourse with lots of women are most likely chornic masturbaters.

IceNine said:

Have you ever bragged ice??

Funksha said:

A real man doesn't need to brag about being with a lot of women... true!

Anyone who acts like they know it all is quite wrong indeed and they should not do so... you are right there too.

Masturbation is actually a healthy sexual outlet, as long as it is not chronic or the sole form of sexual release.

It is a turn-off. From my experience these men appear to have zero respect for women. They don't know how to rise above it, and that says a lot about their mindset.

Again, regarding guys who claim they are the hottest thing...usually they are the guys who aren't. It doesn't attract me one bit. I think they are insecure and feel the need to act as though they have a string of women at their feet. Again, this is very telling.

Attractive is quality, not quantity.

I talk a ton of shit, mostly for fun, and I have come across as this type of person. However, those who know me, know different.

4LOVE said:

When I was a kid... yes. I believe that the vast majority of adolescent males have done this. I don't take pride in the number of women that I have fucked at this point... in fact, I am rather ashamed at times.

IceNine said:

Ashamed because it's such a low number or such a high number, Ice?

AnotherLover2 said:

That would say a lot, eh, AnotherLover2

AnotherLover2 said:

:LOL:

LaVisHh said:

Knowing him, he'll answer it though!

AnotherLover2 said:

Here is my answer:

The best thing to do is find ONE person that you can really connect with and be with that person.

AnotherLover2 said:

He's trying the ole, "laugh it off" thing.

LaVisHh said:

Nope... see above.

IceNine said:

You should have said alot of women Icenine.That way it comes across that you have matured well over the years.That was the "old" you,this is the "new".

IceNine said:

Where is your direct answer?

LaVisHh said:

He's doing the ole, "I'm protecting my image one way or the other so women don't infer that I'm either inexperienced/uptight or a male ho with diseases!"

LaVisHh said:

Let's give him his privacy and dignity, Lav. Actually, he has that whether we "give" it to him or not!

AnotherLover2 said:

Somebody is getting painted into a corner.

AnotherLover2 said:

Oh, alright.

backing off, but remembering

4LOVE said:

You have a point, but I really don't think that it makes that much difference what I say about the number... it could be high, it could be low. I was just making a veiled analogy about it being cool for a guy to say that they have fucked hundreds of women while a woman is a whore if they have fucked 10 guys. I just went about it a different way to see what the responses would be.

There is a tremendous need for sexual gratification in humans and we satisfy this need as we see fit. My only problem with it is bragging about the number of people that we have satisfied this need with, as if the people were of no worth and were only a means to an end, which is actually what many are to many people. Have I been guilty of sexual attrocities? Yes.

AnotherLover2 said:

Once again, no.

You don't really get the topic or the implications of the topic. That is strange to me, as I would have thought that you of all people would have understood.

That is cool though.