first I get a call today from his teacher that he doesn't want to do his classwork, after she told me the other day about that nonsense and I told him that shit don't fly.

then I ask if his homework is done and he says yes, so of course I go to check it and shit is done all half assed and incomplete

it is 9:00 at night and this kid is doing a grip load of homework after being at day care for the past 5 1/2 hours.

I don't see a Wii in his future this Christmas.....

I feel your pain.

My husband spent Monday night dismantling our youngest two daughters' entire bedroom, beds included. They have been fucking up so repeatedly, we took out EVERYTHING except their mattresses.

PunkMistress said:

I love that

PunkMistress said:

Can you post a photo

That is exactly what I need to show my boys. They have got something like this coming to them also

ZombieKitten said:

PunkMistress said:

A friend of a friend to my mother used to do that all the time. She always lavished her kids with nice bedroom sets and sheets and stuff a few times a year and bought them little gifts for doing well in school. Whenever they would act up she would take all their bedroom stuff and gifts out and leave them with a some sheets and a decent blanket and a desk. No stuffed animals, posters, games, no nothing. She would even change up dinner. She would make really good meals that they loved when they were good, but when they weren't she gave the bare minimum of a healthy meal (nothing irresponsible of course). It was usually very effective.

PurpleRighteous1 said:

well i never had anything in my bedroom to begin with. I had a bed and a dresser. so when i started to act up...i got a beating

DanceWme said:

I got both.

y'all....it is 11:15 and I JUST got the kid in bed. Evidently he spent so much of the day mouthing off to his teacher, he didn't even know how to do his damn homework!! Seriously!! I'm like "you that damn smart to mouth off, but you are not smart enough to copy sentences out the damn book!!"

I just did a cleansing too. He's got workbooks now. When he finally finishes his homework, he can just go on and learn some more. How the hell I'm gonna buy video games and kid can't even round to damn tens and hundreds. Aw hell naw.

I'm too angry to spank him...kid won't have no ass skin if I have to go there And I have to go to work in the morning and deal with bullshit so I am not in the mood. Shit, might be my last day the way the bullshit is going....

This is the shit right here that made me all happy to be uterus free. My doctor was like "are you sure you don't want any kids?" Fuck naw, I'm good

And he born in December too....I'm like you think I'm too stupid to check your homework and shit, then I'm too stupid to figure out how to shop in Toys R Us! Christmas and birthday gonna be mighty skimmpy this year. (LOL which I guess won't be too bad if tomorrow ends up being my last day)

PunkMistress said:

I just stood up at my desk and .
I love both of y'all.

BklynBabe said:

these kids are spoiled and then they wanna act grown and shit I am teaching him "you treat others the way you want to be treated" and if I can't get what I want...some respect for adults and some education in the kid....then he won't get what he wants.

BklynBabe said:

First, I'm a December baby too so my prayers are with you.

Second, Why did I just tell my ob/gyn the same thing last week??? I told her that if a bitch had health benefits I'd be jumping up on an operating table post haste for a hysterectomy. She was like, "Girl, you might change your mind and want to have kids." I was like

BklynBabe said:

I had so many beatings....I asked my mom if I was a good kid...she said yes. wth... I probably had over 50...

My dad was a different kind of disciplinarian. When didn't obey, he would either create a task or make me do something for long periods of time. For instance, when I was in 3rd or 4th grade, I was being stubborn and refused to learn my multiplication tables. He told me that I was NOT going to sleep until I learned my facts from 1 through 12. Well, I didn't believe him.

He sat me in my bedroom and told me to study my flash cards and every hour he wanted me to come in and he would quiz me. This went on until 4am. And guess what, I had to go to school the next day, but I finally learned my facts.

He also used to make me haul tree limbs, dig ditches, rake the yard and virtually any other task you can think of for discipline. Let's just say, I appreciate it now. Punishments like that were more effective than any spanking or taking away things for me.

PunkMistress said:

thats what i'm talking about....way to go...

my mother was the queen of beeting my ass...lol
she would hit me with any damn thing, any where....

I would act up in the car...she would pull over on the highway..take off her shoe and whoop me with it...I would act up when she would brush my hair..she would smash me with the brush..lol...

I remember cutting my hair shorter than she liked...there my ass goes rolling
down the stairs.. she had great aim to....she could throw a remote control
across the room and nail me dead in the head...lol

one of the reasons i don't want kids...I know kids will get on my nerves like I did my mother...i'm str8

Man they can work you down to stump sometimes.

BklynBabe said:

aww, i feel your frustration

My damn kids keep yellin at me to make em lunches for school and buy em pencils. What type o shit is that! Can't they see I'm tron to get shit done on prince.org.

get it pimp, get it.

I really have no complaints about my 2 youngest daughters (6 and 11)
But my oldest daughter, 16. that about covers it.

daPrettyman said:

Damn, DP, your daddy hazed your ass.

SCNDLS said:

Indeed.

Much more effective than any other punishment. Crazy thing is, he never spanked that much. It was all work.

PaisleyPark5083 said:

You sound like a family member of mine when discussing her now 21 year old.

daPrettyman said:

I always say that the psychological approach is best but sometimes you gotta get in that ass.

SCNDLS said:

I got that also. I was always outspoken as a child. I would talk back to get my point across. I always had to get the last word in.

daPrettyman said: