CalhounSq said: PurpleJedi said: I hear ya. My situation was that we bought a house the year before my company started failing, so they cut all the overtime that I depended on. Then of course the car needs a repair, the hot water heater goes, etc., etc., and before you know it, we were living off of credit cards and most of my paycheck was going into paying down the open balances just to buy groceries & clothes & stuff. It's a horrible, horrible cycle. We wound up in bankruptcy. It is a horrible cycle, hopefully one we can all break & get over Unfortunately we've fallen into credit card use again but we're alot more careful and keep them manageable. By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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yes. working on rescuing responsibly! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Yes, and it began in college when I signed up for a credit card in exchange for free candy.
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That damn Mortgage. | |
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LeCram said: meow85 said: I don't drive. I don't have cable. I don't own any clothing that's new. I don't have heat. I don't eat much meat. My phone is held together with duct tape, And internet is the result of a collective effort between 5 roommates. Given all that, this past year I've still had to use credit for rent, food, and hydro. Another tip to reduce some costs. want comfy and have every day food? Let's team up with let's say 6 close friends or family or other people in your area. each and every day visit another and one day you are a host yourself. Spend time together and cook for each other and have some fun as well. With this kind of scenario you should reduce costs of food, heating and water as well, and still are comfy and a filled tummy everyday. It may not be perfect because of obligations you have every day for a longer period, but it might help to overcome the difficult times. That is a really excellent idea. I never would've thought of that. Thanks! "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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NDRU said: Yes, and it began in college when I signed up for a credit card in exchange for free candy.
What did my mother teach me about candy & strangers? I have a friend who signed up for a credit card because she got a free ipod out of the deal. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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PurpleJedi said: CalhounSq said: It is a horrible cycle, hopefully one we can all break & get over Unfortunately we've fallen into credit card use again but we're alot more careful and keep them manageable. Once I dig myself out again, I'm going back to my "cash only" policy which had worked for years once I dug out the first time. It's really the way to go if all is going well | |
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Credit card use is such a trap, and using one is NEVER a good idea (unless you pay the entire balancde off every month) unless it's a life & death type thing.
But the entire US economy is based on debt (over 10 trillion, now) so many of us find ourselves just not making enough to do things like buy clothes, visit the dentist, let alone do fun things, without charging them. It's on us to get out of the trap, but it's not really our faults either, when employers just don't pay very much. My Legacy
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meow85 said: LeCram said: Another tip to reduce some costs. want comfy and have every day food? Let's team up with let's say 6 close friends or family or other people in your area. each and every day visit another and one day you are a host yourself. Spend time together and cook for each other and have some fun as well. With this kind of scenario you should reduce costs of food, heating and water as well, and still are comfy and a filled tummy everyday. It may not be perfect because of obligations you have every day for a longer period, but it might help to overcome the difficult times. That is a really excellent idea. I never would've thought of that. Thanks! mayby here you can find some other useful tips. http://www.moolanomy.com/...resources/ | |
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Not eating lunch out at work is one of my biggest money savers. I can spend as much as $10 per day on lunch unless I bring my own from home.
I don't eat out much at all. I am starting to miss it, though! I think I need to make more money My Legacy
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NDRU said: Credit card use is such a trap, and using one is NEVER a good idea (unless you pay the entire balancde off every month) unless it's a life & death type thing.
But the entire US economy is based on debt (over 10 trillion, now) so many of us find ourselves just not making enough to do things like buy clothes, visit the dentist, let alone do fun things, without charging them. It's on us to get out of the trap, but it's not really our faults either, when employers just don't pay very much. So true. When I had a lull in the work schedule I had to put my health insurance on my card b/c I needed my cash on hand for rent | |
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NDRU said: Not eating lunch out at work is one of my biggest money savers. I can spend as much as $10 per day on lunch unless I bring my own from home.
I don't eat out much at all. I am starting to miss it, though! I think I need to make more money I take my lunch every day, even if it's a janky $2 frozen thing from the store You save SO much money that way, or cooking for the week & bringing it every day. I'll let myself have takeout every now & again, but I don't buy lunch regularly at all. I'm cheap! | |
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CalhounSq said: NDRU said: Credit card use is such a trap, and using one is NEVER a good idea (unless you pay the entire balancde off every month) unless it's a life & death type thing.
But the entire US economy is based on debt (over 10 trillion, now) so many of us find ourselves just not making enough to do things like buy clothes, visit the dentist, let alone do fun things, without charging them. It's on us to get out of the trap, but it's not really our faults either, when employers just don't pay very much. So true. When I had a lull in the work schedule I had to put my health insurance on my card b/c I needed my cash on hand for rent wow, crazy! I need a crown on my tooth, and I am hesitant because I don't want to charge it, but I don't have that much cash & my insurance doesn't cover the whole thing. When I was a kid, using a credit card for groceries was not normal. You had to go to a special station where they'd swipe the card. I read they didn't want to encourage that kind of thing. My, how times have changed! My Legacy
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CalhounSq said: PurpleJedi said: Unfortunately we've fallen into credit card use again but we're alot more careful and keep them manageable. Once I dig myself out again, I'm going back to my "cash only" policy which had worked for years once I dug out the first time. It's really the way to go if all is going well My husband is a big believer of "cash only" we never charge anything. If we can't afford to pay cash for it, we can't afford it. Thank god for my husband, because I would sepnd spend spend if it was just up to me. | |
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NDRU said: CalhounSq said: So true. When I had a lull in the work schedule I had to put my health insurance on my card b/c I needed my cash on hand for rent wow, crazy! I need a crown on my tooth, and I am hesitant because I don't want to charge it, but I don't have that much cash & my insurance doesn't cover the whole thing. When I was a kid, using a credit card for groceries was not normal. You had to go to a special station where they'd swipe the card. I read they didn't want to encourage that kind of thing. My, how times have changed! Some chains were also very reluctant to allow grocery purchases on credit cards because margins on most grocery items are so thin. I work for a Canadian retailer that mostly deals in groceries, and we only started allowing VISA purchases for grocery items about 8 years ago I believe. Prior to that, your only options were cash or debit unless you were buying general merchandise, electronics, etc. Personally, I use my credit card for every single purchase I make. I find it to be a very effective way of monitoring and managing my expenditures: I upload every statement into a spreadsheet & categorize my purchases & when I go over budget in any given area I scale back my purchases during the next 4 week cycle. Plus I get points on my purchases, which is a nice bonus. But I make sure I pay off the full balance every two weeks. [Edited 9/28/09 15:00pm] | |
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Ex-Moderator | NDRU said: Not eating lunch out at work is one of my biggest money savers. I can spend as much as $10 per day on lunch unless I bring my own from home.
I don't eat out much at all. I am starting to miss it, though! I think I need to make more money I usually buy lunch but I spend less than $5 a day and I get good, quality food for that price. My work cafeteria is actually awesome. For example, one day last week I had an egg-white omlette w/asparagus, artichoke and havarti cheese w/fresh fruit on the side and a bottle of water for 295 calories and it was under $5. I eat better that way then if I brought frozen meals and I don't think ahead to make my own so it's worth $25 (or less) a week for me. |
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CarrieMpls said: NDRU said: Not eating lunch out at work is one of my biggest money savers. I can spend as much as $10 per day on lunch unless I bring my own from home.
I don't eat out much at all. I am starting to miss it, though! I think I need to make more money I usually buy lunch but I spend less than $5 a day and I get good, quality food for that price. My work cafeteria is actually awesome. For example, one day last week I had an egg-white omlette w/asparagus, artichoke and havarti cheese w/fresh fruit on the side and a bottle of water for 295 calories and it was under $5. I eat better that way then if I brought frozen meals and I don't think ahead to make my own so it's worth $25 (or less) a week for me. You're lucky! I work in a college town, so the food is either horribly unhealthy or expensive. I made my lunch today! Rice & curried chickpeas, it was probably very cheap (though I have no idea how much the ingredients were) I definitely think we deserve to eat out, but it's also a good way to save some cash for me. My Legacy
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I save money by living at home instead of elsewhere | |
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PaisleyPark5083 said: CalhounSq said: Once I dig myself out again, I'm going back to my "cash only" policy which had worked for years once I dug out the first time. It's really the way to go if all is going well My husband is a big believer of "cash only" we never charge anything. If we can't afford to pay cash for it, we can't afford it. Thank god for my husband, because I would sepnd spend spend if it was just up to me. Your husband is spot on. | |
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NDRU said: CalhounSq said: So true. When I had a lull in the work schedule I had to put my health insurance on my card b/c I needed my cash on hand for rent wow, crazy! I need a crown on my tooth, and I am hesitant because I don't want to charge it, but I don't have that much cash & my insurance doesn't cover the whole thing. When I was a kid, using a credit card for groceries was not normal. You had to go to a special station where they'd swipe the card. I read they didn't want to encourage that kind of thing. My, how times have changed! talk to your denist office person. Many times they are willing to work out a payment schedule. "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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PaisleyPark5083 said: CalhounSq said: Once I dig myself out again, I'm going back to my "cash only" policy which had worked for years once I dug out the first time. It's really the way to go if all is going well My husband is a big believer of "cash only" we never charge anything. If we can't afford to pay cash for it, we can't afford it. Thank god for my husband, because I would sepnd spend spend if it was just up to me. My husband is that way too and thank god for it cause I probably would be less so. Now, no matter, I would NEVER have a credit card. People will try to convince you that you NEED one in case of an emergancy but you DON'T. You can get financing on almost anything in any kind of emergancy. We have a mortgage a car payment and a harley payment...and that's it. "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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Shorty said: PaisleyPark5083 said: My husband is a big believer of "cash only" we never charge anything. If we can't afford to pay cash for it, we can't afford it. Thank god for my husband, because I would sepnd spend spend if it was just up to me. My husband is that way too and thank god for it cause I probably would be less so. Now, no matter, I would NEVER have a credit card. People will try to convince you that you NEED one in case of an emergancy but you DON'T. You can get financing on almost anything in any kind of emergancy. We have a mortgage a car payment and a harley payment...and that's it. How do u rent a car with a CC? Or book a plane ticket? | |
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Graycap23 said: Shorty said: My husband is that way too and thank god for it cause I probably would be less so. Now, no matter, I would NEVER have a credit card. People will try to convince you that you NEED one in case of an emergancy but you DON'T. You can get financing on almost anything in any kind of emergancy. We have a mortgage a car payment and a harley payment...and that's it. How do u rent a car with a CC? Or book a plane ticket? Probably Visa debit card. Same principal as a CC but ur using ur own money. | |
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PanthaGirl said: Graycap23 said: How do u rent a car with a CC? Or book a plane ticket? Probably Visa debit card. Same principal as a CC but ur using ur own money. | |
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Graycap23 said: Shorty said: My husband is that way too and thank god for it cause I probably would be less so. Now, no matter, I would NEVER have a credit card. People will try to convince you that you NEED one in case of an emergancy but you DON'T. You can get financing on almost anything in any kind of emergancy. We have a mortgage a car payment and a harley payment...and that's it. How do u rent a car with a CC? Or book a plane ticket? with a debit card...with a Visa logo. "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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PanthaGirl said: Graycap23 said: How do u rent a car with a CC? Or book a plane ticket? Probably Visa debit card. Same principal as a CC but ur using ur own money. :ding: "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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Shorty said: Graycap23 said: How do u rent a car with a CC? Or book a plane ticket? with a debit card...with a Visa logo. That doesn't always work. A friend of mine does not have a credit card, but a bank/debit card with a MC or Visa logo -- he cannot rent a car in NYC. The check. The string he dropped. The Mona Lisa. The musical notes taken out of a hat. The glass. The toy shotgun painting. The things he found. Therefore, everything seen–every object, that is, plus the process of looking at it–is a Duchamp. | |
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