KidaDynamite said:

I heard that you finally started posting your pic....

roodboi said:

Wait! "heard" from whom?

KidaDynamite said:

people talk, just sayin'...

that superman outfit looks great on you, by the way...
[Edited 9/25/09 22:39pm]

roodboi said:

funkpill said:

Can always count on funkpill for the jams!

funkyslsistah said:

I am actually seeing someone, but it's one drama after the next...
I've been going thru the "how much do I need this BS?" thing.

We broke up for a little while, and I met 2 fools the same week:
- the first one was a Wall St. lawyer who approached me and gave me his card. After I Googled his ass, checked out his MySpace page and stuff, I called. Fool started "interviewing" me on the phone! Put it up front that he had 2 kids and wanted more- when I evaded the topic, he came right out and said, "Can U even conceive?!"
Conversation was officially over because I told him it was inappropriate and he said he'd "still take me out anyway".

- the 2nd one stopped me in the supermarket. Ignorant as hell. First he asked me if I was at least over 30. As I was walking away, he yelled after me, "I can't believe a pretty thang like U ain't got nobody."

Yeah... single is lonely, but...

I LOVE being single. I can do whatever, whenever I damn well please. I've had 3 daughters and a husband. Now The girls are grown and gone and the hubby is too. I have my own job and my own home and I ain't missing shit do you hear me?? did I say I Love it loud enough???

Dayclear said:

But see, that's different than never having been married and having no children.... U're talking about found-freedom.

I expressed the good things about being single in my original post, but I still think about what it'd be like to have someone of my own to share things with.


verb tense edit
[Edited 9/26/09 10:45am]

sammij said:

damn. sorry to hear.

Dating sucks

Any single females available in the Netherlands for this single guy?

I'm single and love to just date and fling it up for now. Maybe later if I meet someone special I'll wanna be long term, but for now I am very content with only having to think about myself (and my little man, of course).
[Edited 9/26/09 9:10am]

Actually, my now ex-boyfriend and I broke up EXACTLY one year ago.

I definitely like being single. I wouldn't really mind being with someone else but it simply hasn't happened. It gets boring because I don't have friends but sometimes I'd rather stay the hell away from people than dealing with their drama and bullshit

KidaDynamite said:

Oh, he's still around...
[Edited 9/26/09 10:03am]

NMuzakNSoul said:

ain't nuthin to be sorry 'bout love

nurseV said:

Let me see...

I'm a terrible person half of the time and, uhm, also an industrial / harsh noise artist (never a plus if you intend to share an apartment with someone). I tend to effectively seclude myself during those periods of my life when I have some sort of a "project" going on, so that means I am always postponing the prospect of actually settling down. So most of the time my thinking goes along the lines of "later definitely, but not now". It really does not work that way.



It's okay, but I would like to be able to just pay 50% of the rent myself.
[Edited 9/26/09 10:45am]

I've been unintentionally single for awhile now and it does get lonely sometimes.

JuliePurplehead said:

Social awkwardness

funkpill said:

Feeling the Funk

funkyslsistah said:

Yeah most of the guys I have come across have issues and I'm starting to think there is no "Prince Charming"

sammij said:

alright well if youre alright its cool sammi stay cool!!

Alej said:

nurseV said:

Oh really.

novabrkr said:

So...U like seclusion and you want someone to go half?

veronikka said:

It DOES get lonely sometimes, though

nurseV said:

Yeah, I'd have to give up the other.

Although I'm planning to go for someone still in her mid-twenties so at least she would be still going out with her friends on weekends, so I could be alone myself.

I've been single since Feb 2008 after a 7 year relationship.
I am very happy at present, no lonliness at all. I haven't been interested at all in dating, firstly because I wanted a complete break from guys and I think it takes time to take full distance from an old relationship. We finished amicably which helped but I have two girlfriends who also went thru break ups after many years and they're going thru hell. Makes you think twice.

Sometimes if I feel bored I'll go to a dating site to "shop" but when I enter my specifications, no one exists, go figure And honestly, it's too much work to go and look. I'm not looking & I'm not waiting.

I'm just living and loving it

JuliePurplehead said:

This pretty much echoes my own situation. This is probably TMI, but I've never had a girlfriend or even been kissed before. That felt like pure HELL in my teenage years. But since then I've looked at it as sort of a blessing in disguise, since it has allowed me to focus on other things in my life, such as getting an education.

Often I feel socially disconnected, having to make compromises because of the limitations that my Cerebral Palsy places on my mobility. It's hard having my dad with me everywhere, having to drive me to wherever I want to go. I'd be embarrassed to use lines like, "Hey, you're gorgeous...do you like my wheelchair?" or "Let's hang out at my place; my dad'll take us there."

In short, I'd love to be un-single someday, but whomever that special woman will be, she's going to have to be willing and able to accept me for who I am, handicap and all. I really hope there's a princess out there for this prince!

nurseV said:

Everybody has issues, so I'm not expecting perfection. It just seems like the guys are coming across more desperate these days. They turn up the pick up lines to the max and lay it on way too thick with selling themselves that it comes across as sounding desperate. If I had just met you and we've only talked once or twice, asking me "Do you think I'm sexy" is not a turnon. It just got me wondering what's going on?