Fauxie said:

F*cking A

JustErin said:

Why?

Ray Jay is the new Flava Flav. The world is coming to an end.

Deadflow3r said:

Because, a crush is when you like someone that doesn't feel the same way back. Not the healthiest situation.

JustErin said:

That's why I do the "no fornication" thing right away. When they hear your not going to have sex with them for a good four months,you get to see their true feeling for you. I recomend this even for atheists. I think women in general are much more suseptible (spelling?) than men are to getting emotionally involved when they think they are in control of their feelings and getting hurt.

Deadflow3r said:

I just do what feels right at the time when it comes to having sex right away or not and whatever happens, happens and I deal...but this situation is not like that. This has been going on since 2003 and we are also close friends.

I can absolutely have sex with no emotional attachment - I've been in a physical only relationship with someone on a regular basis for even longer than this "friendship".

It's just different with this person. It's a tad complicated...but I know I should probably just walk away.

JustErin said:

Have you ever told this person your feelings for them?? Is this someone with whom youd like to be in a relationship with?

tinaz said:

Ya, a couple of years ago and every now and then in round about stupid ways. He knows my deal.

As for being in a relationship with him....no, he's got some major issues and he's a terrible boyfriend...just ask his gf.

But I do care about him dearly.

JustErin said:

Did you mean girlfriend or ex-girlfriend?

Deadflow3r said:

No, his current girlfriend of like a couple of years.

JustErin said:

Well I think you should do whatever makes you happy for now unless this relationship is preventing you from finding someone that will return your love... Also, I believe if your mind is questioning it, then you know what you need to do.. But i think you know all of this and you just think his sex is that DAMN good! lol

Seriously tho, I wish you peace and happiness and everything you hope for... Before I met my husband I was in a "chump slump" and a good friend told me the night we were going out that "when you least expect it, expect it" cuz i had been bitchin bout my streak of losers..So we went off to the party... I was looking to hook up with my old boyfriend, well he never showed up but i did meet my husband that nite! Silly story I know but it really does happen!!

So I am bestowing the "wish" upon you..."when you least expect it, expect it!"

tinaz said:

Thanks!

sometimes you find good stuff at thrift stores/second hand stores

i cannot fucking wait for tomorrow night

evenstar3 said:

What's tomorrow night?

another addition to previous babble:

I tried to finish staining my chairs with another coat because I wasn't happy with the result.

After three hours of sitting in the garage meticulously doing it I've realised that it will never be an even stain. I suck.

So my solution is to buy wood paint and paint the fuckers instead. Enough of this old school furniture shit....as long as I get the right colour NO ONE WILL KNOW

connorhawke said:

wednesday's a holiday for me so it'll be a long epic night with my friends

evenstar3 said:

Have fun!!!

I could sure use a cookie right now but...

almost time to go to work. this kinda feels like twitter

The goody goodies on facebook are really starting to irrate the PISS out of me...

I have to be up at 0400 again tommorow,, love my job hate my hours...

JustErin said:

HAHAHAHAHAHA!

tinaz said:

DON'T DO TO P:M&M ANY MORE!! IT'S NOT SAFE!!!!

connorhawke said:

LMAO! It really IS scary there isnt it!

tinaz said:

Hell yes!

:anniewilkes:

Stressing out!!!

I just realised it's 1.00am here
which means bed time

im almost done with my big critical thinking project! yay for me.