dreamfactory313 said: Maybe we'll have time to dine together tomorrow night. Id rather have dinner at my place.
.. i like that. smart move! | |
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Christopher said: dreamfactory313 said: Maybe we'll have time to dine together tomorrow night. Id rather have dinner at my place.
.. i like that. smart move! Thank you! | |
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great, entertaining thread...
but that "Rakesh looks very straight to me." shit cracks me up... | |
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roodboi said: great, entertaining thread...
but that "Dr R looks very straight to me." shit cracks me up... Why do you say that? Have you seen a pic of him. Lets try not to print his name please. | |
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dreamfactory313 said: roodboi said: great, entertaining thread...
but that "Dr R looks very straight to me." shit cracks me up... Why do you say that? Have you seen a pic of him. Lets try not to print his name please. I copied and pasted that quote from a previous post, so thats where the name came in...and, yeah, I saw the pics...it's just that comment, coming from that person, cracks me up...'cause we all know you can tell just by looking... | |
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roodboi said: dreamfactory313 said: Why do you say that? Have you seen a pic of him. Lets try not to print his name please. I copied and pasted that quote from a previous post, so thats where the name came in...and, yeah, I saw the pics...it's just that comment, coming from that person, cracks me up...'cause we all know you can tell just by looking... Oh yeah. Haaa. I suppose I got a kick out of that as well. | |
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...should we all start coming up with your "couplename"?
DR-eamfactory? Dreamkesh? Damesh? ...am I jumping the gun By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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PurpleJedi said: ...should we all start coming up with your "couplename"?
DR-eamfactory? Dreamkesh? Damesh? ...am I jumping the gun Maybe jumping the gun a bit but Damesh is kinda cute. Made me smile. Im just getting home. I cant wait to see him tonight. | |
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That's hot. | |
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After having abandoned this thread for a couple weeks, I thought Id return with an update. Dr R have gone out a couple times in the last 2 weeks and its been fun but I really don't feel any sparks flying too much and I am getting tired of keeping hope alive. He never speaks about women or any sort of romantic relationships at all but I feel like our relationship is really stagnant, almost devolving because he never has any time. For example, we were supposed to meet tonight to kick it, plans that we made a week ago. (I haven't even seen him in a week and only chatted on the phone once.) I texted him moments after I got off while I was still at the hospital at around 5:00 and now its almost 7 and no text back. Even if we were to be serious together, I don't see how I could deal with him never being around. During this last 2 weeks, I have have gone out with 2 other people that I know are 100% into me. I'm starting to grow tired of all of this. I'm starting to wonder if all of my efforts are worth it at all. It usually just leaves me frustrated and often times disappointed. | |
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dreamfactory313 said: After having abandoned this thread for a couple weeks, I thought Id return with an update. Dr R have gone out a couple times in the last 2 weeks and its been fun but I really don't feel any sparks flying too much and I am getting tired of keeping hope alive. He never speaks about women or any sort of romantic relationships at all but I feel like our relationship is really stagnant, almost devolving because he never has any time. For example, we were supposed to meet tonight to kick it, plans that we made a week ago. (I haven't even seen him in a week and only chatted on the phone once.) I texted him moments after I got off while I was still at the hospital at around 5:00 and now its almost 7 and no text back. Even if we were to be serious together, I don't see how I could deal with him never being around. During this last 2 weeks, I have have gone out with 2 other people that I know are 100% into me. I'm starting to grow tired of all of this. I'm starting to wonder if all of my efforts are worth it at all. It usually just leaves me frustrated and often times disappointed.
That sucks. Well, you're lucky enough to have TWO other people who are totally into you. Are you into either one of them? | |
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PunkMistress said: dreamfactory313 said: After having abandoned this thread for a couple weeks, I thought Id return with an update. Dr R have gone out a couple times in the last 2 weeks and its been fun but I really don't feel any sparks flying too much and I am getting tired of keeping hope alive. He never speaks about women or any sort of romantic relationships at all but I feel like our relationship is really stagnant, almost devolving because he never has any time. For example, we were supposed to meet tonight to kick it, plans that we made a week ago. (I haven't even seen him in a week and only chatted on the phone once.) I texted him moments after I got off while I was still at the hospital at around 5:00 and now its almost 7 and no text back. Even if we were to be serious together, I don't see how I could deal with him never being around. During this last 2 weeks, I have have gone out with 2 other people that I know are 100% into me. I'm starting to grow tired of all of this. I'm starting to wonder if all of my efforts are worth it at all. It usually just leaves me frustrated and often times disappointed.
That sucks. Well, you're lucky enough to have TWO other people who are totally into you. Are you into either one of them? Not like I'm into "Dr R". I am trying to think of something else right now. Its after 8 now and still no text or phone call, no email, no smoke signal, nothing. God help me. | |
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dreamfactory313 said: PunkMistress said: That sucks. Well, you're lucky enough to have TWO other people who are totally into you. Are you into either one of them? Not like I'm into "Dr R". I am trying to think of something else right now. Its after 8 now and still no text or phone call, no email, no smoke signal, nothing. God help me. I'll tell you the lovingly brutal truth: Although I only know what I've read on the Org, my gut says he is not into you, and probably not into men. If you were supposed to meet up tonight, and he's a no-show and no-call and not responding to your texts, I think that says it all. I could be wrong, but that's what I get from what you've told us. Good luck. | |
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!!!! | |
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aww, what a great thread. Hope things get better....the ice has to be broken though..you still don't know if he's gay ...right? unlucky7 reincarnated | |
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forget this guy, take a few chances with this guy but if he doesn't bite then move on, he probley won't grow up by then [Edited 10/16/09 19:52pm] | |
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booty said: forget this guy, take a few chances with this guy but if he doesn't bite then move on, he probley won't grow up by then
[Edited 10/16/09 19:52pm] I hope the guy is not playing mind games... unlucky7 reincarnated | |
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peacenlovealways said: aww, what a great thread. Hope things get better....the ice has to be broken though..you still don't know if he's gay ...right?
No, I still don't know for sure but I went out with someone else last night and he calls me at about 10:30, I didn't even answer. I was so pissed. Then he texted me right after saying how sorry he was and that he was held up at the hospital and that he was tired and that we'd make it up later. I understand how hectic things are for him but I at least deserve a return text in a reasonable amount of time. Am I asking too much? I still haven't returned his text. I still need to cool off. Im off to work soon. I almost hope I don't see him today. | |
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You've done all the work so sit back and let him do the chasing, if he doesn’t then move on. Remember everyone has a soul mate - they come along when you least expect | |
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Oh dear... Just caught up on your little drama there.
Really hope it works out for you, one way or the other. You know, I have a similar situation on my hands, just reversed - I think the man I'm into, a colleague from work (about 10 years my senior, also senior at work) might be gay. At least most of my female workmates have made the odd gay joke about him being too considerate and polite and whatnot for a heterosexual (he notices when people change their hairstyles or come back from holidays with a tan etc.)... he adores Sandra Bullock and likes romantic movies and house music. He HAS mentioned two ex-girlfriends in conversations with me, but of course - als the girls would say - that might be a front. I don't get a gay vibe from him, but they certainly do. And oh, the signals... From what I read, my dear dreamfactory, we're very much in the same boat. Except that my 'problem' will be around permanently - and it's been going on for about a year already. Plus I'm intent to keep my job there, so messing things up with him is really not an option for me, as I am not yet as important for the company as he is. Well, anyways - keep us up to date, I hope all develops for the best. "Can't keep my eyes from the circling skies -
tongue-tied and twisted, just an earthbound misfit, I" | |
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He just texted me inviting me to a poker game on Saturday night with another Dr that we mutually know. Should I go?? | |
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i don't know girl how long are you going to play the text games, no offense.
But this where the games begins [Edited 10/19/09 16:49pm] | |
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booty said: i don't know girl how long are you going to play the text games, no offense.
But this where the games begins [Edited 10/19/09 16:49pm] lol. U think Im a girl? I havent responded to his text yet. What would u do? [Edited 10/19/09 17:07pm] | |
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dreamfactory313 said: He just texted me inviting me to a poker game on Saturday night with another Dr that we mutually know. Should I go??
Go! | |
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dreamfactory313 said: booty said: i don't know girl how long are you going to play the text games, no offense.
But this where the games begins [Edited 10/19/09 16:49pm] lol. U think Im a girl? I havent responded to his text yet. What would u do? [Edited 10/19/09 17:07pm] well why would you not go? depending on the situation i can't say it would be a yes or no. is this your first time going out together? then i would say yes go lol [Edited 10/19/09 19:14pm] | |
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UPDATE! | |
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PunkMistress said: UPDATE!
Second that "Can't keep my eyes from the circling skies -
tongue-tied and twisted, just an earthbound misfit, I" | |
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booty said: dreamfactory313 said: lol. U think Im a girl? I havent responded to his text yet. What would u do? [Edited 10/19/09 17:07pm] well why would you not go? depending on the situation i can't say it would be a yes or no. is this your first time going out together? then i would say yes go lol [Edited 10/19/09 19:14pm] Chile, you need to go back and review | |
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Ottensen said: booty said: well why would you not go? depending on the situation i can't say it would be a yes or no. is this your first time going out together? then i would say yes go lol [Edited 10/19/09 19:14pm] Chile, you need to go back and review i still didn't get a answer [Edited 10/26/09 8:28am] | |
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booty said: Ottensen said: Chile, you need to go back and review i still didn't get a answer [Edited 10/26/09 8:28am] No sweetheart. It isnt our first time going out. | |
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