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Why Michelle Obama's Hair Matters

http://news.yahoo.com/s/t...1191914700

When the First Lady attended a country-music event in July without a single strand of hair falling below her jawline, the blogosphere exploded with outbursts ranging from adoration to vitriol. Things settled down only when her deputy press secretary clarified that there had been no First Haircut. In the aftermath, a didactic post on MichelleObamaWatch.com proclaimed that anyone "familiar with the amazing versatility of black hair" would have known that the new summer look was simply "pinned up."

Many Americans have dismissed this hair hubbub as simply more media-driven noise - like the chatter about Michelle Obama's sleeveless dresses, J. Crew cardigans, stocking-free legs or, for that matter, recent (shocking!) decision to wear shorts in the Arizona heat. But for African-American women like me, hair is something else altogether - singular in its capacity to command interest and carry cultural baggage. The obsession with Michelle's hair took hold long before Inaugural Ball gowns were imagined, private-school choices scrutinized or organic gardens harvested. It's not that she's done anything outrageous. The new updo wasn't really all that dramatic a departure from variations we've seen on her before (the "flip-out," the "flip-under," the long-ago abandoned "helmet"). Still, her hair is the catalyst for a conversation that begins with style but quickly transcends outward appearance and ultimately transcends Michelle herself - a symbol for African-American women's status in terms of beauty, acceptance and power.

The hair buzz heated up right after the Democratic National Convention. Websites dedicated to black hair posted and reposted a Philadelphia Inquirer article addressing what was presented as an urgent question: Were the silky strands that moved so gracefully with each tip of her head during her Denver speech straightened with chemicals or with heat alone? How exactly did she metamorphose what we know was once tightly coiled hair?

The choice many black women make to alter their hair's natural texture has undeniable historical and psychological underpinnings. It has been attributed to everything from a history of oppression and assimilation to media-influenced notions of beauty and simple personal aesthetics. But one thing is certain. For the many who wear straightened styles like Michelle's, the decision is deliberate, and the maintenance is significant. A stylist hypothesized in the Inquirer article about the steps taken to attain her look, and a firestorm of online comments followed, including these two:

"Chemicals, hot comb, round brush and dryer ... same effect, different methods. I could see it being a big deal or inspirational if she were natural and wore it in natural styles."

"Girl, ain't no braids, twists, afros, etc. getting into the White House just yet ... LOL."

This could have been read as a lighthearted exchange about beauty and style. But it actually reflects a serious and clamorous debate. A growing community on sites like Nappturality.com urges black women to reject curl-relaxing methods, calling them "taking the easy road" and "conforming" to white aesthetics. Meanwhile, talk-show host Tyra Banks just announced via Twitter that she will abandon her weave and don "no fake hair at all!" for her show's season premiere. Mixed in with the supportive response to the former supermodel's decision was skepticism about whether she could be attractive with what she describes as her "out and free" look.

For black women, hair has classification power (witness the connection Don Imus made between hair and sexual promiscuity when he referred to the Rutgers women's basketball team as "nappy-headed hos"). Just as blond has implicit associations with sex appeal and smarts (or lack thereof), black-hair descriptors convey thick layers of meaning but are even more loaded. From long and straight to short and kinky - and, of course, good and bad - these terms become shorthand for desirability, worthiness and even worldview.

The notion of natural black hair as being subversive or threatening is not new. When the New Yorker set out last summer to satirize Michelle as a militant, country-hating black radical, it was no coincidence that the illustrator portrayed her with an Afro. The cartoon was calling attention to all the ridiculous pre-election fearmongering. But the stereotypes it drew from may be one reason that 56% of respondents to a poll on NaturallyCurly.com say the U.S. is not ready for a "First Lady with kinky hair."

Some black women note that Michelle's choice to wear her hair straightened affirms unfair expectations about what looks professional. On Blacksnob.com a reader empathized with Michelle's playing it safe in the White House and outlined her own approach: "Whenever I start a new job I always wear my hair straight for the first three months until I get health care. Then gradually the curly-do comes out." Another echoed the practice: "I wait about four to six months before I put the [mousse] in and wear it curly ... I have to pace myself because it usually turns into a big to-do in the office."

The amount of money black women spend on hair will be explored in Chris Rock's upcoming comedic documentary Good Hair. "Their hair costs more than anything they wear," he said. Which helps explain the recent news out of Indiana University that black women often sacrifice workouts to maintain their hairstyles.

One might think having a black First Lady who is widely praised as sophisticated and stylish would represent a happy ending to the story of black female beauty and acceptance. Alas, our hair still simultaneously bonds and divides us. "There is no hair choice you can make that is simple," says Melissa Harris Lacewell, an associate professor of politics and African-American studies at Princeton. "Any choice carries tremendous personal and political valence."

Even though I'm biracial and should theoretically have half a share of hair angst, I've sacrificed endless Saturdays to the salon. It is unfathomable that I might ever leave my apartment with my hair in its truly natural state, unmoderated by heat or products. I once broke down at the airport when my gel was confiscated for exceeding the 3-oz. limit. (See 50 essential travel tips.)

I'm neither high maintenance nor superficial: I'm a black woman. My focus on hair feels like a birthright. It is my membership in an exclusive, historical club, with privileges, responsibilities, infighting and bylaws that are rewritten every decade.

Not once when I've seen an image of our First Lady has it been lost on me that she is also a member. I don't see just an easy, bouncy do. I see the fruits of a time-consuming effort to convey a carefully calculated image. In the next-day ponytail, I see a familiar defeat.

A black family at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue signifies a shattered political barrier, but our reactions to Michelle are evidence that it takes more than an election to untangle some of the unique dilemmas black women face. Thanks to her, our issues are front and center. It feels a lot like when nonblack friends and colleagues ask those dreaded questions that force us to reflect and explain: whether we can comb through our hair, if we wash our braids or locks and the most complicated of all - why it all has to be such a big deal.


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Reply #1 posted 09/02/09 8:10pm

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is this the hairstyle in question?
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Reply #2 posted 09/02/09 8:11pm

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And mods, this is about her hair and ain't got nothing to do with P&R. We've had MANY threads in GD about black hair and I'm gonna be looking at ya'll real crazy if you move this over to the black hole that is P&R.
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Reply #3 posted 09/02/09 8:12pm

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ZombieKitten said:


is this the hairstyle in question?

nod Yes, folks got all up in arms over whether she cut her hair because I guess that's an unforgivable crime or something. rolleyes
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Reply #4 posted 09/02/09 8:13pm

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I'm not reading all that.
It matters because she's the first Fierce First Lady since Jackie O.

That's why.
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Reply #5 posted 09/02/09 8:15pm

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johnart said:

I'm not reading all that.
It matters because she's the first Fierce First Lady since Jackie O.

That's why.

mad Read it!!! You ain't got nuthin' better to do noways. razz
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Reply #6 posted 09/02/09 8:19pm

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SCNDLS said:

ZombieKitten said:


is this the hairstyle in question?

nod Yes, folks got all up in arms over whether she cut her hair because I guess that's an unforgivable crime or something. rolleyes

it'll grow back! razz
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SCNDLS said:

johnart said:

I'm not reading all that.
It matters because she's the first Fierce First Lady since Jackie O.

That's why.

mad Read it!!! You ain't got nuthin' better to do noways. razz


I don't wanna! fit
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Reply #8 posted 09/02/09 8:20pm

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ZombieKitten said:

SCNDLS said:


nod Yes, folks got all up in arms over whether she cut her hair because I guess that's an unforgivable crime or something. rolleyes

it'll grow back! razz

nod Magically and overnight in her case.
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Reply #9 posted 09/02/09 8:22pm

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johnart said:

SCNDLS said:


mad Read it!!! You ain't got nuthin' better to do noways. razz


I don't wanna! fit

hmmm You know, I'm starting to doubt whether you or John can actually read??? You have your kids reading and typing your posts on the Org dontcha???
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Reply #10 posted 09/02/09 8:22pm

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SCNDLS said:

ZombieKitten said:


it'll grow back! razz

nod Magically and overnight in her case.

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Reply #11 posted 09/02/09 8:23pm

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oh geez. they should just let it go. She can wear her hair however the hell she wants. Frankly I'm tired of the natural/straight hair debate. I don't see how her hair reaffirms straight hair being professional. Are they seeing what they want to see or just trying to make a stink to be noticed? yawn
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Reply #12 posted 09/02/09 8:26pm

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heybaby said:

oh geez. they should just let it go. She can wear her hair however the hell she wants. Frankly I'm tired of the natural/straight hair debate. I don't see how her hair reaffirms straight hair being professional. Are they seeing what they want to see or just trying to make a stink to be noticed? yawn

I have to say that ever since the campaign and even moreso after the election that EVERY time I've been to the beauty shop there's a discussion about her hair or someone (myself included) asking a stylist how to get their hair looking as healthy as hers.
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Reply #13 posted 09/02/09 8:31pm

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heybaby said:

oh geez. they should just let it go. She can wear her hair however the hell she wants. Frankly I'm tired of the natural/straight hair debate. I don't see how her hair reaffirms straight hair being professional. Are they seeing what they want to see or just trying to make a stink to be noticed? yawn

I have to say that ever since the campaign and even moreso after the election that EVERY time I've been to the beauty shop there's a discussion about her hair or someone (myself included) asking a stylist how to get their hair looking as healthy as hers.


there is nothing wrong with that. Its the nitpicking of everything she does or wears that irks me.
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heybaby said:

SCNDLS said:


I have to say that ever since the campaign and even moreso after the election that EVERY time I've been to the beauty shop there's a discussion about her hair or someone (myself included) asking a stylist how to get their hair looking as healthy as hers.


there is nothing wrong with that. Its the nitpicking of everything she does or wears that irks me.

Well, you know that ain't going nowhere. confused
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SCNDLS said:

johnart said:



I don't wanna! fit

hmmm You know, I'm starting to doubt whether you or John can actually read??? You have your kids reading and typing your posts on the Org dontcha???


confuse My kids??? lol


I read it.

People need to find more important things to worry about.

It's hair. neutral
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Reply #16 posted 09/02/09 8:49pm

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johnart said:

SCNDLS said:


hmmm You know, I'm starting to doubt whether you or John can actually read??? You have your kids reading and typing your posts on the Org dontcha???


confuse My kids??? lol


I read it.

People need to find more important things to worry about.

It's hair. neutral

Okay, your dogs. lol
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Reply #17 posted 09/02/09 8:53pm

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SCNDLS said:

johnart said:



confuse My kids??? lol


I read it.

People need to find more important things to worry about.

It's hair. neutral

Okay, your dogs. lol


Well, they are our kids, so I guess u right there. lol
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I was almost more excited aboout Michelle becoming my (yes I know, our) First Lady than about her husband becoming our President.lol

I think to put such emphasis on whether or not she chemically treats her hair and what alleged self-deprecating notion that might carry is extreme and downright insulting.

I'm all for being proud of what nature gave you, but to imply that her (or anyone's for that matter) choice of straight hair over curly is anything other than a simple preference and style choice is unnecessary.

When a White person curls their naturally straight hair we don't imply they want to be of a different race.
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johnart said:

I was almost more excited aboout Michelle becoming my (yes I know, our) First Lady than about her husband becoming our President.lol

I think to put such emphasis on whether or not she chemically treats her hair and what alleged self-deprecating notion that might carry is extreme and downright insulting.

I'm all for being proud of what nature gave you, but to imply that her (or anyone's for that matter) choice of straight hair over curly is anything other than a simple preference and style choice is unnecessary.

When a White person curls their naturally straight hair we don't imply they want to be of a different race.

I think that because of black women's complicated history with our hair it's just not that simple. Like it or not how Michelle Obama wears her hair and how America responds to her hair choices speaks to the average sista on the street in ways that non-blacks may not understand or appreciate.
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SCNDLS said:

johnart said:

I was almost more excited aboout Michelle becoming my (yes I know, our) First Lady than about her husband becoming our President.lol

I think to put such emphasis on whether or not she chemically treats her hair and what alleged self-deprecating notion that might carry is extreme and downright insulting.

I'm all for being proud of what nature gave you, but to imply that her (or anyone's for that matter) choice of straight hair over curly is anything other than a simple preference and style choice is unnecessary.

When a White person curls their naturally straight hair we don't imply they want to be of a different race.

I think that because of black women's complicated history with our hair it's just not that simple. Like it or not how Michelle Obama wears her hair and how America responds to her hair choices speaks to the average sista on the street in ways that non-blacks may not understand or appreciate.


I recognize and appreciate it. And yes Black women have a complicated history.
Minorities of all kinds often do. But I think this is one of those instances where much power really lies in the people's own choice to react one way or the other.
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Reply #21 posted 09/02/09 9:29pm

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johnart said:

SCNDLS said:


I think that because of black women's complicated history with our hair it's just not that simple. Like it or not how Michelle Obama wears her hair and how America responds to her hair choices speaks to the average sista on the street in ways that non-blacks may not understand or appreciate.


I recognize and appreciate it. And yes Black women have a complicated history.
Minorities of all kinds often do. But I think this is one of those instances where much power really lies in the people's own choice to react one way or the other.

That's partially true but the reality is that black women's hairstyles can have a direct impact on their employment in certain work environments. So it's not just about choosing to react a certain way or just choosing to wear your hair how you want. Most professional black women have to seriously consider the possible ramifications of wearing their hair in natural styles which is something a white woman who perms her hair to get curls never has to even think about.
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SCNDLS said:

johnart said:



I recognize and appreciate it. And yes Black women have a complicated history.
Minorities of all kinds often do. But I think this is one of those instances where much power really lies in the people's own choice to react one way or the other.

That's partially true but the reality is that black women's hairstyles can have a direct impact on their employment in certain work environments. So it's not just about choosing to react a certain way or just choosing to wear your hair how you want. Most professional black women have to seriously consider the possible ramifications of wearing their hair in natural styles which is something a white woman who perms her hair to get curls never has to even think about.
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I absolutely agree with you on that.
I just don't think it's necessarily fair to put that on Michelle Obama's shoulders.
What is she supposed to do? Split the 4 year (hopefully 8) term into a parade of natural hairstyles? That isn't her duty simply because she's First Lady.
She's a Black woman who has already achieved a lot (and continues to) on her own merit and intelligence. That should be enough.
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johnart said:

SCNDLS said:


That's partially true but the reality is that black women's hairstyles can have a direct impact on their employment in certain work environments. So it's not just about choosing to react a certain way or just choosing to wear your hair how you want. Most professional black women have to seriously consider the possible ramifications of wearing their hair in natural styles which is something a white woman who perms her hair to get curls never has to even think about.
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I absolutely agree with you on that.
I just don't think it's necessarily fair to put that on Michelle Obama's shoulders.
What is she supposed to do? Split the 4 year (hopefully 8) term into a parade of natural hairstyles? That isn't her duty simply because she's First Lady.
She's a Black woman who has already achieved a lot (and continues to) on her own merit and intelligence. That should be enough.

rolleyes Now you're just talking crazy. As the most visible black woman in history I think it is her American duty to represent for all the sistas. I think that she should feature a different Afro-centric hairstyle each month. I wanna see her rocking everything from a nappy ass 'fro to Dookie braids to Goddess braids to twists to locs. The White House should have a poll each month on their website so Americans can vote on different styles and the hairstyle with the most votes wins. geek
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SCNDLS said:

johnart said:



I absolutely agree with you on that.
I just don't think it's necessarily fair to put that on Michelle Obama's shoulders.
What is she supposed to do? Split the 4 year (hopefully 8) term into a parade of natural hairstyles? That isn't her duty simply because she's First Lady.
She's a Black woman who has already achieved a lot (and continues to) on her own merit and intelligence. That should be enough.

rolleyes Now you're just talking crazy. As the most visible black woman in history I think it is her American duty to represent for all the sistas. I think that she should feature a different Afro-centric hairstyle each month. I wanna see her rocking everything from a nappy ass 'fro to Dookie braids to Goddess braids to twists to locs. The White House should have a poll each month on their website so Americans can vote on different styles and the hairstyle with the most votes wins. geek


Yes. That sounds like the most sensible plan.
And there should be Commemorative Plates with her image in each of the hairstyles.lol
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Reply #25 posted 09/02/09 9:47pm

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I think this style would be hot on Shelly Boom Boom (my sister in law's name is Michelle and that's my brother's nickname for her giggle )

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johnart said:

SCNDLS said:


rolleyes Now you're just talking crazy. As the most visible black woman in history I think it is her American duty to represent for all the sistas. I think that she should feature a different Afro-centric hairstyle each month. I wanna see her rocking everything from a nappy ass 'fro to Dookie braids to Goddess braids to twists to locs. The White House should have a poll each month on their website so Americans can vote on different styles and the hairstyle with the most votes wins. geek


Yes. That sounds like the most sensible plan.
And there should be Commemorative Plates with her image in each of the hairstyles.lol

talk to the hand Don't hate cuz I be thinkin', thinkin', thinkin' . . . geek

We can put the Franklin Mint on that shit. thumbs up!
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SCNDLS said:

johnart said:



Yes. That sounds like the most sensible plan.
And there should be Commemorative Plates with her image in each of the hairstyles.lol

talk to the hand Don't hate cuz I be thinkin', thinkin', thinkin' . . . geek

We can put the Franklin Mint on that shit. thumbs up!


Hate?? I'm clearing shelves as we speak.
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Reply #28 posted 09/02/09 9:54pm

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johnart said:

SCNDLS said:


talk to the hand Don't hate cuz I be thinkin', thinkin', thinkin' . . . geek

We can put the Franklin Mint on that shit. thumbs up!


Hate?? I'm clearing shelves as we speak.

Oh, I thought you were mocking my plan as IF it's not totally viable. biggrin

How much should we charge for each plate with a stand? hmmm
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Reply #29 posted 09/02/09 9:57pm

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SCNDLS said:

johnart said:



Hate?? I'm clearing shelves as we speak.

Oh, I thought you were mocking my plan as IF it's not totally viable. biggrin

How much should we charge for each plate with a stand? hmmm


Well, mock is a strong word. boxed

But if there's gonna be commemorative plates I'm done debating!

Are we goin' QVC or those CALL WITHIN THE NEXT 4 MINUTES AND THE STAND IS FREE!!! commercials???
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