Imago said:

but at least you have clear specific goals! More than most

ZombieKitten said:

An unfortunate side effect of being a project manager

whistle said:

yes I have for 5 years...and needless to say it did not work... and I still carry a burden on my back...

Come to a mutual understanding..just don't waste each others time..but I hope it is just a phase

ZombieKitten said:

Lord, yes. what are women in unhappy marriages/relationships longing to hear? i'll go and tell her immediately!
[Edited 8/30/09 18:52pm]

Imago said:

Yes, yes and yes, although replace 'novels' with 'scripts'

ZombieKitten said:

Oooh that's an idea!!!! I once wanted to make a prison on one of the islands in Sydney Harbour and put all the Goths on it.

connorhawke said:

I had another friend that grew up on one of those little islands!

ZombieKitten said:

very similar to a prison

whistle said:

tell me!

connorhawke said:

I was picturing you say that over and over again in my mind.

1. get a new job
2. make more money
3. get back into my art
4. Be more honest with myself about myself
5. go back to school

Imago said:

Haha see my response in the "religious or profane" thread

ZombieKitten said:

I'd live on it!

the road makes being walked


it facilitated me the life these possibilities:

> develop the intuition
> be attention in the here and now
> accept the limits
> forgive but not to be foolish
> practice the compassion
> laugh
> know live with little money
> destroy the prisons
> not lost in the maze of the choice
> know to balance: yes and not
> be patient
> accept that my ex-woman will always be my children's mother
> arrange a work as therapist
> forget the arquitectura
> have my car arranged
> do an airplane trip to Turim
> have a crazy love
> begin to paint
> greets and inspiration


to facilitate the luck, here it is going my favorite mantra,for all of us that needed possibilities to improve our lives:

PHYSICALLY
I would like to improve my overall fitness, I know how to do it, I just have to do these thing:
1. find my F@#$ing ipod, so I can jump on the trampoline to a few songs each day
2. Call my friend Kelly and make her do aquarobics with me twice a week
3. buy a skipping rope and jump to a few songs each day too
I'm pretty sure if I do these things I will feel a lot better physically they aren't even HARD things!!!!

MENTALLY
This is open to debate probably, but I'm pretty happy in this area

EMOTIONALLY
Stop being such a girl and be taken hostage by my hormones and pick fights and cry during alien movies
or at least WARN those around me that this may occur twice a month so that they don't take it so personally to the extent to which they are (the latter may be a more achievable option )

FINANCIALLY
Win taxlotto

GOALS/AMBITION
Think of some.
I feel like I'm doing all the things I set out to do apart from travelling (I'd like to make a trip somewhere every year from now on - it feels like something to work towards, to look forwards to ).
Further study in my field is superfluous, NOT necessary. Grow my own business? I kind of like the flexibility of my job as a sole trader.

PARENTING
1. Talk to some parents of teenage boys, get prepared
2. Shout a lot less and count to 10 before I get furious

Oh and I still need a hobby!!!!! a passion that I could and would WANT to devote my time and energy to. I thought photography might be it, but it didn't turn out that way

More money

That's it...everything else is pretty good.

^^^
lucky you...

ZombieKitten said:

I like to have friends that know what want and... what doesn't want!
hello ZombieZombie!

-A better job (something that I'm more 'in to', with more dependable hours, and benefits)

-A more intense workout routine

-A new muffler

-Sewing and piano lessons

-World peace


or just more money would do for me as well

connorhawke said:

I am specialist! if you want help, whistles!i f it doesn't go in that way it can be of other...after all I am PT, (pedro telecommunications)
[Edited 8/30/09 19:48pm]

ZombieKitten said:

just respect a teenage boys coming of age...give them some space.
to lern 1st hand...a teenage boy can be the most stubborn and hard headed thing on the planet...as u probably already know...

Good thread BTW

Yeah and exercising too

nyse said:

I need help in teaching my guys to respect women. A friend of mine is coming to that exact dilemma at the moment. Her boys have learned from the attitude of their father she is currently shaking up her family and re-educating them that SHE IS NOT THEIR SLAVE.
I don't want that to happen to me! I need to lay some good foundations in self-sufficience NOW. Boys grow to resent and disrespect their mother if, when they come to the age where they need to differentiate themselves, they are so utterly dependent on her. Back in the olden days men had coming of age rites, and hung out with older men that taught them stuff. It's just not like that now

- more money
- decent job i don't mind going to
- finishing most of school
- a man that is into what i'm into that i can share my all with, and be ME
- getting my own place (+ studio...)
- getting my passport in check, along with a driver's license
- more working out/belly dancing **i go back the 21st! **
- i want to get a better hold on my spirituality. (note that i did not say religion.)

ZombieKitten said:

you can begin by showing them this postage http://prince.org/msg/105/315387

ingamilo said:

when they are older

- put myself before trying to always please the man in my life

- acquire the self-discipline to finish my dissertation

- budget my finances better (aka less shopping)

- develop a stricter workout regimen

Presently, I need to have a hard conversation with a relative of mine. He has no sense of loyalty. Never has. And, given all I've been dealing with lately, it's ticking me off royally today.

ZombieKitten said:

my mother spoke from Sócrates and Plato to my son when he was 2 years old; she had fear of not living the enough time until him to grow, and she said that some thing there was