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Printableis it possible for 2 women who both have a lot of sex partners to be viewed differently?
thats the point. not how many they do .... just the reasoning behind all that they do... one could be fucked up beyond comprehension and one could be living within her personal means | |
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ZombieKitten said: LeCram said: That's not entirely true. If you know something about chemistry. The male sperm and the womans moist have different acidity. It's minor but technically the sperm is not good for the female body. except if you want kids offcourse  those 2 fluids don't usually mix if folks are doing it safe! absolutely positive | |
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LeCram said: There is no damage done to a woman's body by having multiple partners or frequent sex. None.
That's not entirely true. If you know something about chemistry. The male sperm and the womans moist have different acidity. It's minor but technically the sperm is not good for the female body. except if you want kids offcourse Er, that's what bathing is for. I do NOT mean douching. Just standard washing and the body's own natural cleansing mechanisms will take care of that li'l issue. It's not like sperm stays up there forever.  "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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JustErin said: This is about women being looked down on for being sexually liberated and confident - like men are without even a second glance.
I've never understood how having multiple partners ties in with being sexually liberated and confident... it's just having multiple partners 
Clarify please. I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh | |
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JayJai said: JustErin said: This is about women being looked down on for being sexually liberated and confident - like men are without even a second glance.
I've never understood how having multiple partners ties in with being sexually liberated and confident... it's just having multiple partners
Clarify please. Actually, I never said it ties together, in fact I said it doesn't automatically mean promiscuity. Go back and read all that I have said. This whole conversation between that funkyandy dude happened because I said that men who treat women differently depending on whether they want to be with them long term or not were laughable, he then called me a slut and that's when I brought up confidence and liberalism. But that said, having multiple partners can absolutely tie in with it, just as choosing to be with very few can. | |
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Fury said: if a guy bangs 12 different chicks in one year, that's in the "normal range"..if a chick bangs 12 guys in one year, she's a slut/ho...do you agree with this? if a guy has two kids by two different baby mamas, that's unattractive. if a chick has two baby daddies...well you get the picture.
double standard? I've actually given this a good deal of thought. I think that there is a varying age of accountability. When we are young and curious about sexualtity we look for the answers...When we know we want and need love...we look for a sexual partnership. Some of our promiscuous behavior is based on just needing attention. That can become our greatest regrets, especially if we want to go toward an altar of true and faithful love. As far as a man in general being different from a woman in that way of thinking...I honestly believe it is because men put themselves inside of a woman...and I think that makes her more vulnerable for some reason and a man less connected to committment for some reason. When both a woman and a man have reached a level of spiritual understanding they will be willing to make pleasure sacrifices until it is in God's domain of marriage. We all have to forgive the places human animal nature can take us, but there is peaceful rest inside of a good love.  "The Lion Sleeps Tonight... | |
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Live your life on your terms.. for good/bad, live and learn/move on. I know there was a period of my life for which I wasn't looking for "love" and definitely not COMMITMENT. I was simply curious/interested in knowing how some men moved in bed, period. My five rules where, a strict commitment to birth control, discretion, everyone knowing the bases of the relationship so there would be not hurt feelings or misunderstanding and the biggest one of them all (advice that my late father gave me) never have sex with someone you don't like/respect. There were no feeling of trying prove anything nor make any type of statement... my life, my choices. Whether others agree are not I could frankly give a damn. (Needless to say I'm speaking of consenting adults) Nor do I care what choices male or females make about regarding their choices regarding their sexuality/personal live. Take responsibility for your choices and never feel you have explain or seek approval from others because they don't share your views or values, and vice/versa.
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