Does this happen?

Would this represent a peculiar form of progress?

What would it be for, an air of mystery or perhaps a display of open-mindedness? In what social circles might it happen?

Most of the "bi" guys I know are actually gay. They just don't want to come out

But I *do* live in México, so...

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Alej said:

That's understandable. So being 'bi' in that case is just taking a step towards being out? Makes sense.

Fauxie said:

Yeah, idk, though

The first 2 bi-men I met was in the military.

The first was just a ho. Actually the second one too.
I never saw the second with a guy, ever. I mean, ever.

And the first one made a pass at me, but I wasn't really into it.
But I never really saw him with a guy either, other than the pass he
made at me.


I know a lot of bis who I suspect are just plain old gay.
Nothing wrong with that of course.


But from my experience with gay men, and I am completely generalizing
here, they think almost exactly like women...emotionally and everything.
I've never met a gay man that was truly "masculine" in that regard.
Sure you can control the swinging of your wrist, the bounce of your walk,
the facial expressions that make you look...like a woman.
But that doesn't mean you're "masculine". They're like girls.
Only more cute, and a willingness to breed like cockroaches.
With the self-admitted "bi's", I still get that sense from them too,
only with a certain, cute layer of repression on top of it all.

But I've known a few bi males and they're all true alpha-males,
and very sexually charged....and for some reason, extremely smart.



But let me just say, I'm a terrible observer of such things. I think all
british men sound and appear gay. And after this last week in Bangkok,
I sense a certain gheyness to the ENTIRE thai male population. I honestly
think that most Thai men would mess around with other Thai men just for fun.

Men falsely claiming bisexuality to be trendy doesn't happen very much. If anything, it's the opposite. Plenty of guys who could more accurately be described as bi identify as just gay or just straight instead.

Fellas, regardless of which way you swing, it's a real man who can stand up and admit it. There's no pride in picking a different label just to fit in.

Imago said:

Interesting. I remember you saying some of this stuff before. So it seems a lot of bi guys are just 'straight' gay then?

lol @ the part about Thai men. I'd have to know more Thai men to feel I could say anything about it with any confidence, but I wouldn't disagree with that last line based on what I have seen.

meow85 said:

Bi identifying as gay, for simplicity? Or just from a stronger, but not exclusive preference for men?

And bi as straight is the closeted thing again, right?

:trendy:

Fauxie said:

Correct on both bolded points, at least as far as the men I've come across go.

I've also run into a few guys who, like many straight and gay people, plain don't believe in bisexuality. (as if we're talking about UFO's or unicorns...) And because it doesn't exist to their line of thinking, obviously that's not what they are.

this thread topic seems to be quite trendy lately in GD. wanna make a bi sticky already?

meow85 said:

Yeah, I've heard that too. That ignorance must get old real quick!

Cinnie said:

Fauxie said:

Guess not, since it's such a popular idea.

meow85 said:

You indentify as 'just straight' when you are in the mood to be with women. That way you can actually get some sweet sweet poontang.

cause if you tell a woman you're bi, she'll run for the hills thinking your just a represed ghey, then the sweet sweet poontang is forever lost.


I imagine maybe it works in a similar fashion if you admit to being gay but are really bi. Funkmistress called herself gay before she got some of Jerseykrs's sweet sweet mantang.

meow85 said:

Please use the Bi sticky.

Imago said:

I knew 'the lesbian whisperer' would come up at some point in this topic.

Fauxie said:

Look, if you met Chris in real life, you'd want him to slap your face with his cock a few times too.


He's on fiya

Imago said:

I have a feeling it'd make me pretty damned trendy too, after the Summer of JerseyKRS and all that.

Fauxie said:

Jerseykrs is completely straight though.

I took him to G-Bar in tampa, and here we are surrounded by gorgeous gay latin men with their shirts off, and Chris didn't even get a rise in his levis.

Believe me, I was checking for it.

Imago said:

Said women are freaking idiots. It's been my experience that bisexual men are less inhibited and all around more fun in the sack than straight men.

meow85 said:

Word.

I don't know about guys, but I swear nearly half the women I know claim to be bi. And for most of them I think that means they're willing to make out with one of their friends in a club.....to attract guys.

Imago said:

I'm completely gay and about as butch as I can get, in the way I talk, the way I think, the way I act (except when there's a cock somewhere in me - and sometimes the way I dress).

The only thing that would make me more masculine is if I was a car mechanic or a contruction worker, or something like that.

all the bi men i've meant except for one turned out to be gay... using bi as a step to saying they were gay or claiming bi because they thought that was hotter and would get them more tricks.

ehuffnsd said:

But don't you run in mostly gay male circles? True bi men generally aren't welcome, so it stands to reason that many bi men you would personally run into were just easing their way out of the closet.

Imago said:

Ok, whatever at the bolded part

I know quite a few 100% gay men who are naturally masculine, no silly straight-acting pose at all.

garganta said:

They're lying to you!!
They're probably just straight men pretending to be gay to score poppers!

ok, seriously not trying to offend anyone, and I'm only speaking from personal experience.

But what I mean by being 'masculine' isn't about the way they move or act or talk. It's the way they react to something. The way the see the world. It's very difficult to convey what I'm saying though. It's just that speaking to a straight male friend and speaking to a woman or gay man, about the same event we witness or see, I get very very different takes on what was 'experienced'.

Again, it's only from personal experience. And it wasn't a criticism or complaint.

I like it when gay men get cute and girly sometimes.

Imago said:

They must be! It´s ok Imago, I still like you
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