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Thread started 08/20/09 4:17pm

ScarletScandal

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Kinda homeless right now....

I mean, everything was going great about a month ago. I was in the Los Angeles Job Corps for a year, and this tuesday, they basically evicted me out of the dorms. I feel like one of those aliens from District 9 right now. Been running around LA like CRAZY looking for housing, but it seems I can only get help if I'm an abused woman, meth user, have AIDS, or crazy, which I am none of. So i don't know what I'm going to do...Suggestions?
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Reply #1 posted 08/20/09 4:22pm

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Keep trying. Don't give up.

hug Hang in there.


Not suggestions by any means just sending you some positive energy!
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Reply #2 posted 08/20/09 4:27pm

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I wish I had some good advice for you. Try a church.
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Reply #3 posted 08/20/09 4:27pm

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Nothinbutjoy said:

Keep trying. Don't give up.

hug Hang in there.


Not suggestions by any means just sending you some positive energy!

Thanks. I'm staying positive and trying VERY HARD not to run back home, even though that's what they really want me to do.
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Reply #4 posted 08/20/09 4:48pm

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Do you have any friends in the area that you can stay with?
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Reply #5 posted 08/20/09 4:57pm

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ThreadCula said:

Do you have any friends in the area that you can stay with?

Nobody at all. And this wouldn't even be a problem if the program I was in did what they said they were going to do. They were supposed to give me a 2 month "transition period" where I stayed in the dorms long enough to get a job and find some work, but they just put me out for no reason at all, and when I asked, they simply told me it was "time to go", even though I was allotted to stay there up to to years and was only there for one.
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Reply #6 posted 08/20/09 5:03pm

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ScarletScandal said:

ThreadCula said:

Do you have any friends in the area that you can stay with?

Nobody at all. And this wouldn't even be a problem if the program I was in did what they said they were going to do. They were supposed to give me a 2 month "transition period" where I stayed in the dorms long enough to get a job and find some work, but they just put me out for no reason at all, and when I asked, they simply told me it was "time to go", even though I was allotted to stay there up to to years and was only there for one.



Wow. Im sorry to hear that. Maybe its best you go back home. Maybe thats where you need to be right now.
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Reply #7 posted 08/20/09 5:15pm

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ThreadCula said:

ScarletScandal said:


Nobody at all. And this wouldn't even be a problem if the program I was in did what they said they were going to do. They were supposed to give me a 2 month "transition period" where I stayed in the dorms long enough to get a job and find some work, but they just put me out for no reason at all, and when I asked, they simply told me it was "time to go", even though I was allotted to stay there up to to years and was only there for one.



Wow. Im sorry to hear that. Maybe its best you go back home. Maybe thats where you need to be right now.

This sucks. and I don't want to go back home in PA just to move back to Cali. Plus my brother and sister already moved back in with my mom so...
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Reply #8 posted 08/20/09 5:19pm

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ScarletScandal said:

I mean, everything was going great about a month ago. I was in the Los Angeles Job Corps for a year, and this tuesday, they basically evicted me out of the dorms. I feel like one of those aliens from District 9 right now. Been running around LA like CRAZY looking for housing, but it seems I can only get help if I'm an abused woman, meth user, have AIDS, or crazy, which I am none of. So i don't know what I'm going to do...Suggestions?

hug pray 4 u
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Reply #9 posted 08/20/09 6:21pm

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can u stay in a motel? They rent them out by the week i think...
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Reply #10 posted 08/20/09 6:24pm

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tinaz said:

can u stay in a motel? They rent them out by the week i think...

tomorrow I'm going to see if I can get a voucher to stay somewhere.
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Reply #11 posted 08/20/09 6:27pm

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ScarletScandal said:

tinaz said:

can u stay in a motel? They rent them out by the week i think...

tomorrow I'm going to see if I can get a voucher to stay somewhere.


I hope everything goes ok for you! hug
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Reply #12 posted 08/20/09 6:35pm

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I have not slept in 4 days. I feel like I'm going to pass out any minute...Jesus Christ this is terrible. I just need to find a place to kick it tonight, and then get the ball rolling again in the morning. All day today I was running around LA getting numbers and looking online for help and all that, but it's a little too late right now for me to call any of those numbers so I have to wait until the morning.
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Reply #13 posted 08/20/09 6:38pm

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ScarletScandal said:

I have not slept in 4 days. I feel like I'm going to pass out any minute...Jesus Christ this is terrible. I just need to find a place to kick it tonight, and then get the ball rolling again in the morning. All day today I was running around LA getting numbers and looking online for help and all that, but it's a little too late right now for me to call any of those numbers so I have to wait until the morning.


Man, if i was anywhere in cali I would help you out..seriously! maybe theres an orger who will help you! I hope! just take it one day at a time...
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Reply #14 posted 08/20/09 6:43pm

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tinaz said:

ScarletScandal said:

I have not slept in 4 days. I feel like I'm going to pass out any minute...Jesus Christ this is terrible. I just need to find a place to kick it tonight, and then get the ball rolling again in the morning. All day today I was running around LA getting numbers and looking online for help and all that, but it's a little too late right now for me to call any of those numbers so I have to wait until the morning.


Man, if i was anywhere in cali I would help you out..seriously! maybe theres an orger who will help you! I hope! just take it one day at a time...

Yeah! Where's Supa at?
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Reply #15 posted 08/20/09 6:51pm

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ScarletScandal said:

I mean, everything was going great about a month ago. I was in the Los Angeles Job Corps for a year, and this tuesday, they basically evicted me out of the dorms. I feel like one of those aliens from District 9 right now. Been running around LA like CRAZY looking for housing, but it seems I can only get help if I'm an abused woman, meth user, have AIDS, or crazy, which I am none of. So i don't know what I'm going to do...Suggestions?



Did you finish your program with Job Corp? I thought those programs were set up to help, not leave you homeless?
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Reply #16 posted 08/20/09 6:56pm

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MoniGram said:

ScarletScandal said:

I mean, everything was going great about a month ago. I was in the Los Angeles Job Corps for a year, and this tuesday, they basically evicted me out of the dorms. I feel like one of those aliens from District 9 right now. Been running around LA like CRAZY looking for housing, but it seems I can only get help if I'm an abused woman, meth user, have AIDS, or crazy, which I am none of. So i don't know what I'm going to do...Suggestions?



Did you finish your program with Job Corp? I thought those programs were set up to help, not leave you homeless?

Technically, no. I finished my training last week. After completing my training, they were supposed to give me a 2 month transitional period, which they didn't give me. I just found out 3 weeks ago that I was going to be "put out" on Tuesday. They didn't give any reason other than that it was my time to go, which doesn't make any sense. I spoke to every person I could about getting an extension, but they only gave me 2 weeks. Yet, there are people in there who misuse the program and enter and leave and enter and get put out and what not, yet the people who go there and do what they're supposed to do get the short end of the stick. So right now I'm gathering information on all the housing programs I qualify for in the LA area, since it was something they promised me and failed to do.
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Reply #17 posted 08/20/09 7:04pm

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ScarletScandal said:

MoniGram said:




Did you finish your program with Job Corp? I thought those programs were set up to help, not leave you homeless?

Technically, no. I finished my training last week. After completing my training, they were supposed to give me a 2 month transitional period, which they didn't give me. I just found out 3 weeks ago that I was going to be "put out" on Tuesday. They didn't give any reason other than that it was my time to go, which doesn't make any sense. I spoke to every person I could about getting an extension, but they only gave me 2 weeks. Yet, there are people in there who misuse the program and enter and leave and enter and get put out and what not, yet the people who go there and do what they're supposed to do get the short end of the stick. So right now I'm gathering information on all the housing programs I qualify for in the LA area, since it was something they promised me and failed to do.



That just sounds so wrong...why would a program like that, do something like that? Have you tried to talk to higher ups in this program. I really did believe the whole reason for something like this..was to better yourself and your life.

I am so sorry you are having to deal with such things. I wish you much luck.
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Reply #18 posted 08/20/09 7:05pm

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Guess I'm kicking it on the beach tonight. [Posting of personal phone numbers snip no no no! - luv4u]
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Reply #19 posted 08/20/09 7:08pm

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Contact the department of Human Services in your area also. Don't know if you contacted them but here's a main number I found 1-866-613-3777
http://dpss.lacounty.gov/...efault.cfm
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Reply #20 posted 08/20/09 8:58pm

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ScarletScandal said:

Guess I'm kicking it on the beach tonight. [Posting of personal phone numbers snip no no no! - luv4u]

Oh my rose sad
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Reply #21 posted 08/21/09 12:12am

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Positivity coming ur way hun, id help if I could but am in Australia.
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Reply #22 posted 08/21/09 12:28am

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Christ, Lonnie! sad

This is the cheapest thing I could find on Craigslist: http://losangeles.craigsl...35565.html


these are links to homeless shelter & youth outreach programs in L.A.: http://maps.google.com/ma...s&resnum=1


This is a youth hostel (beds for $15 bucks a night, but the room is not private. You may have to share the room, but you should get your own locker that's private). : http://maps.google.com/ma...tdata&sa=X

It's not a good permanent solution obviously but it can serve as a roof for a couple of nights sad


I don't live in LA and don't know anyone who has space. If it was in Tampa, I'd gladly let you stay at my house. I'm really sorry. I was kicked out of my house at 19, so I know all too well how EVERYTHING changes in an instant that way. sad

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Reply #23 posted 08/21/09 12:32am

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ScarletScandal said:

Guess I'm kicking it on the beach tonight. [Posting of personal phone numbers snip no no no! - luv4u]


much love...My prayers are with u...I have been there be4.
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Reply #24 posted 08/21/09 5:39am

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Is there someone you can complain to at the Job Corps? That seems really unfair, and if they did something against the rules, you might want to take legal action...In the meantime, maybe you could get help from one of your teachers, or classmates? Also, if there are any colleges near you with a 24 hour library you could try to hide out in there.

Lastly, if you have a family home that you can go to, please go there!

I wish I could help you out, but I'm on the other side of the country. However, I'm hoping for the best for you hug
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Reply #25 posted 08/21/09 6:20am

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thekidsgirl said:

Is there someone you can complain to at the Job Corps? That seems really unfair, and if they did something against the rules, you might want to take legal action...In the meantime, maybe you could get help from one of your teachers, or classmates? Also, if there are any colleges near you with a 24 hour library you could try to hide out in there.

Lastly, if you have a family home that you can go to, please go there!

I wish I could help you out, but I'm on the other side of the country. However, I'm hoping for the best for you hug


Something tells me there is waaaaay more to this story, and he did say that he knew this was going to happen 3 weeks ago and even though an extension was requested alternative options should have been investigated, so they really didn't just kick him out.

But regardless of how he got where he is now, I hope things work out and he finds the help he needs.

Keep asking for help...and you'll eventually find it.
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Reply #26 posted 08/21/09 7:36am

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Hope things work out for you....keep your head high and keep looking...
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Reply #27 posted 08/21/09 9:32am

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JustErin said:

thekidsgirl said:

Is there someone you can complain to at the Job Corps? That seems really unfair, and if they did something against the rules, you might want to take legal action...In the meantime, maybe you could get help from one of your teachers, or classmates? Also, if there are any colleges near you with a 24 hour library you could try to hide out in there.

Lastly, if you have a family home that you can go to, please go there!

I wish I could help you out, but I'm on the other side of the country. However, I'm hoping for the best for you hug


Something tells me there is waaaaay more to this story, and he did say that he knew this was going to happen 3 weeks ago and even though an extension was requested alternative options should have been investigated, so they really didn't just kick him out.

But regardless of how he got where he is now, I hope things work out and he finds the help he needs.

Keep asking for help...and you'll eventually find it.


That is what I was thinking too, but I didn't want to seem like I was accusing him of anything
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Reply #28 posted 08/21/09 10:00am

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thekidsgirl said:

JustErin said:



Something tells me there is waaaaay more to this story, and he did say that he knew this was going to happen 3 weeks ago and even though an extension was requested alternative options should have been investigated, so they really didn't just kick him out.

But regardless of how he got where he is now, I hope things work out and he finds the help he needs.

Keep asking for help...and you'll eventually find it.


That is what I was thinking too, but I didn't want to seem like I was accusing him of anything


Well, nor do I...but that's usually the case. shrug
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Reply #29 posted 08/21/09 10:10am

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I'm really sorry to hear this... sigh I hope things sort themselves out asap; take care. hug
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