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Printablejohnart said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: SOMETIMES!?! It might have been the more humane action  I was trying to err on the side of...oh who am I kidding? That kid's probably an asshole.
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Genesia said: johnart said: I was trying to err on the side of...oh who am I kidding? That kid's probably an asshole.
Gawd, I love you. I hated the kid too  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Genesia said:
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Genesia said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: I hated the kid too At least that's something  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Genesia said: At least that's something Don't get too excited. I was wearing gloves. 
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Genesia said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: At least that's something Don't get too excited. I was wearing gloves.
That's how I always get fingered  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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sinisterpentatonic said: if this has already been posted, my bad, but yeah, WTF?
 she's evil. kids belong in kennels at home, not on leashes in stores. | |
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Looks like the child was being stubborn or something. If you have to put a child on a leash to keep the child under control something is wrong. | |
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 Damn.
Um,,I mean,,,damn   | |
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Harlepolis said: Damn.
Um,,I mean,,,damn That was my reaction too, but I didn't want to post it until I had someone on my side I graduated bitches!!! 12-19-09   | |
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johnart said: mcmeekle said: Unless there's more footage, clearer footage or more information available elsewhere, I'd be less inclined to judge. God knows what's going on in that blurry, seconds-long footage.
 I completely agree. I've known a child or two that are downright  .
And sometimes out of control kids grow to be out of control teens/adults. I know this, my cousin is a prime example and now she's on an actual restraining order from her own mother. No way I'm judging that footage without more info. [Edited 8/13/09 16:27pm] NO adult should ever drag any child like that for any reason, if the child is out of control, you as an adult must not lose control. The adult should behave smarter than the child, not go tat for tat and stay angry. When you are a lowsy parent, you do crap like this. I have kids and my kids never do this, why, because I am consistent with my behavior, and I remove the child from the situation and just take the child home before I get to this point. Its not how the child acts, its how the adult reacts to bad behavior. All these little bad ass kids around me do not mess with me, they behave. Kids know who to do this to. | |
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paintedlady said: johnart said: I completely agree. I've known a child or two that are downright .
And sometimes out of control kids grow to be out of control teens/adults. I know this, my cousin is a prime example and now she's on an actual restraining order from her own mother. No way I'm judging that footage without more info. [Edited 8/13/09 16:27pm] NO adult should ever drag any child like that for any reason, if the child is out of control, you as an adult must not lose control. The adult should behave smarter than the child, not go tat for tat and stay angry. When you are a lowsy parent, you do crap like this. I have kids and my kids never do this, why, because I am consistent with my behavior, and I remove the child from the situation and just take the child home before I get to this point. Its not how the child acts, its how the adult reacts to bad behavior. All these little bad ass kids around me do not mess with me, they behave. Kids know who to do this to. She seemed to be in full control.  The Most Important Thing In Life Is Sincerity....Once You Can Fake That, You Can Fake Anything. |
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lazycrockett said: paintedlady said: NO adult should ever drag any child like that for any reason, if the child is out of control, you as an adult must not lose control. The adult should behave smarter than the child, not go tat for tat and stay angry. When you are a lowsy parent, you do crap like this. I have kids and my kids never do this, why, because I am consistent with my behavior, and I remove the child from the situation and just take the child home before I get to this point. Its not how the child acts, its how the adult reacts to bad behavior. All these little bad ass kids around me do not mess with me, they behave. Kids know who to do this to. She seemed to be in full control.
she sure showed that badass kid! Hope she dragged him down an escalator too! | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Genesia said: Don't get too excited. I was wearing gloves.
That's how I always get fingered I love you bitches. | |
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paintedlady said: johnart said: I completely agree. I've known a child or two that are downright .
And sometimes out of control kids grow to be out of control teens/adults. I know this, my cousin is a prime example and now she's on an actual restraining order from her own mother. No way I'm judging that footage without more info. [Edited 8/13/09 16:27pm] NO adult should ever drag any child like that for any reason, if the child is out of control, you as an adult must not lose control. The adult should behave smarter than the child, not go tat for tat and stay angry. When you are a lowsy parent, you do crap like this. I have kids and my kids never do this, why, because I am consistent with my behavior, and I remove the child from the situation and just take the child home before I get to this point. Its not how the child acts, its how the adult reacts to bad behavior. All these little bad ass kids around me do not mess with me, they behave. Kids know who to do this to. I'm sure you're an awesome mom. But those tactics don't work with every kid. My cousin got nothing but what you've described, and as I mentioned before, she is currently on a Restraining Order from my aunt. If I'm ready to go. I am ready to go. That child is coming along one way or another. And I assure you, as Lazy put it, I'd be in full control.
Our nieces and nephew (one in particular) pull all kinds of hateful disrespectful and even hurtful/mean at home with their grandmother (the mom barely disciplines). They know how to behave when they come here. Uncle Ron and Auntie John don't play that bullshit. Uh-uh. | |
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johnart said: paintedlady said: NO adult should ever drag any child like that for any reason, if the child is out of control, you as an adult must not lose control. The adult should behave smarter than the child, not go tat for tat and stay angry. When you are a lowsy parent, you do crap like this. I have kids and my kids never do this, why, because I am consistent with my behavior, and I remove the child from the situation and just take the child home before I get to this point. Its not how the child acts, its how the adult reacts to bad behavior. All these little bad ass kids around me do not mess with me, they behave. Kids know who to do this to. I'm sure you're an awesome mom. But those tactics don't work with every kid. My cousin got nothing but what you've described, and as I mentioned before, she is currently on a Restraining Order from my aunt. If I'm ready to go. I am ready to go. That child is coming along one way or another. And I assure you, as Lazy put it, I'd be in full control.
Our nieces and nephew (one in particular) pull all kinds of hateful disrespectful and even hurtful/mean at home with their grandmother (the mom barely disciplines). They know how to behave when they come here. Uncle Ron and Auntie John don't play that bullshit. Uh-uh. see, they know not to mess with you that's why. Most kids are very sharp, they know who to push and who to behave with.
poor nana  | |
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mama was like "u aint goin no where ya damn lil shit" | |
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paintedlady said: johnart said: I'm sure you're an awesome mom. But those tactics don't work with every kid. My cousin got nothing but what you've described, and as I mentioned before, she is currently on a Restraining Order from my aunt. If I'm ready to go. I am ready to go. That child is coming along one way or another. And I assure you, as Lazy put it, I'd be in full control.
Our nieces and nephew (one in particular) pull all kinds of hateful disrespectful and even hurtful/mean at home with their grandmother (the mom barely disciplines). They know how to behave when they come here. Uncle Ron and Auntie John don't play that bullshit. Uh-uh. see, they know not to mess with you that's why. Most kids are very sharp, they know who to push and who to behave with.
poor nana Yeah, my mother in law can be trying at times (to me ) but it's undeserved. She's doing a good thing by keeping a roof over hubby's Sis and her kids and that's the payback she gets.
The one is purposely hurtful, calls her things like old, and fat and ugly. And outright says "I don't have to listen to you, just to my mother." Terrible. | |
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Leashes for children attach to a harness around the chest or to a wrist, not to a child's neck.
Yeah, some kids are terrible, but this is just wrong. That kid was still small enough to pick up and carry. "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"-Dr Seuss
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I think I'll post this video on the "single people who DONT want kids" thread   I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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CalhounSq said: I think I'll post this video on the "single people who DONT want kids" thread
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It looks pretty bad since it's done in public, but is it really worse than what many, many parents do to their children at home? | |
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I love holding my childrens hands.
It's such a beautiful feeling Children respond to Love She's lucky I wasn't there - I would of stuck that leash oround her neck! | |
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heybaby said: Looks like the child was being stubborn or something. If you have to put a child on a leash to keep the child under control something is wrong.
Yep...
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johnart said: paintedlady said: NO adult should ever drag any child like that for any reason, if the child is out of control, you as an adult must not lose control. The adult should behave smarter than the child, not go tat for tat and stay angry. When you are a lowsy parent, you do crap like this. I have kids and my kids never do this, why, because I am consistent with my behavior, and I remove the child from the situation and just take the child home before I get to this point. Its not how the child acts, its how the adult reacts to bad behavior. All these little bad ass kids around me do not mess with me, they behave. Kids know who to do this to. I'm sure you're an awesome mom. But those tactics don't work with every kid. My cousin got nothing but what you've described, and as I mentioned before, she is currently on a Restraining Order from my aunt. If I'm ready to go. I am ready to go. That child is coming along one way or another. And I assure you, as Lazy put it, I'd be in full control.
Our nieces and nephew (one in particular) pull all kinds of hateful disrespectful and even hurtful/mean at home with their grandmother (the mom barely disciplines). They know how to behave when they come here. Uncle Ron and Auntie John don't play that bullshit. Uh-uh. <--- is lucky both arms are still attached after certain childhood shopping experiences  We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: DesireeNevermind said: I looked at it again. Did that kid's head hit the wall?
Another lesson learned | |
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It does seem a little harsh but, if for example I had said to my son...
"WE are going soon and no you are not going to have chocolate before your dinner" "I don't want to go" "We we are going even if i have to drag you out of the shop" *thinks, oh shit, if he doesn't come now i am going to have to go through with this, for failure to do so will undermine my authority as his parent and he will loose all respect - next time it will be worse. "NO! i am not going" drag ensues.....
Even when i write it like this i find it hard to imagine a good justification but you can see the point. Are the child reins round his neck? Who knows, difficult to say. But public parenting as a show of strength (if thats what it is) are much better than seeing parents feeding and pacifying their kids constantly with food and toys just so they can shop. Power to the lady - as long as she is not being cruel. Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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johnart said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: SOMETIMES!?! It might have been the more humane action I was trying to err on the side of...oh who am I kidding? That kid's probably an asshole.
[Edited 8/13/09 16:29pm] | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Genesia said:
Gawd, I love you. I hated the kid too | |
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Some replies in here surprise me. A total lack of control of a public situation shouldn't force one to resort to abuse of power. Especially if you're the one that decided to bear the child, which means the responibility is always there. You can also pick the child up and walk out.
The first four years of a child's life are crucial. I know this is this just a small clip, but think about it, if this happens in public then what happens in private? [Edited 8/14/09 6:45am] | |
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