Kids are hard work and not for everyone!
Especially the ignorant! In fact if stupid people would stop breeding like wildfire I probably would have been more inclined to want kids. But, I just hate this world too much | |
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I'm married w/2 kids and still don't like other people's kids. | |
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Statuesqque said: Flo6 said: I think people generally [at least in the West] are having children later than before.
Wish you all the best with your plan. You may have to make a compromise here and there, but I'm sue it will happen if you focus on this goal hard enough. | |
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ThreadBare said: I ask singles because married/partnered folks appear halfway there. But for the folks who are single: Does your perspective on kids change with time?
I'm starting to really dislike the sound of crying/whining/tantrum-throwing children. Wasn't as bad when I was younger and would occasionally have to babysit a niece or nephew. But, these days, I can't stand the racket. And, the seasonal, recurring expensiveness of kids is starting to sink in: They're always growing and needing new clothes!!! That alone is likely to cut into the guitar budget. I hear it's different when the crying child is yours, but I'm not so sure... When our children were young and in the crying fussing whining phase, I was not bothered by it to much because I was in the process of and busy with dealing/teaching/learning as a parent ~ IN the moment(s) it did bother me some though and I just do not have the desire now to "deal" with crying fussing whinning kids - I love my grands but when they go there - it's THEIR parents turn to "deal" | |
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ZombieKitten said: sweet said: we're the same age silly I thought you were about 10 years younger than me I thought she was 3-4 yrs older than me. surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years... | |
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Here's my latest reason why NOT
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BklynBabe said: Kids are hard work and not for everyone!
Especially the ignorant! In fact if stupid people would stop breeding like wildfire I probably would have been more inclined to want kids. But, I just hate this world too much | |
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