Genesia said: If you hate people staring at you, quit giving them a reason.
In certain instances I agree with this. Like, if you find it offensive that a dude stares at your tits, don't wear a damn barely there top, with a different color bra with the straps purposely showing (a bad look to begin with). If you don't want someone eying your ass like it's got 3 cheeks, quit wearing played out trendy shit with PINK (or some other name) written across it. If you don't want "perv" dudes staring at your underage daughter, don't let her come out the house lookin like she's "Open for Business". ...stuff like that. | |
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onenitealone said: Alej said: I hate that shit. The other day I had to yell at this one dude who kept following me around in a store
It was intense and funny cause he probably didn't know what I said God, you're brave. It's extremely annoying . [Edited 8/10/09 11:38am] | |
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JustErin said: I am definitely confident in my ability to function as a productive, intelligent adult but I am not confident when it comes to how I look.
Maybe that's where I'm going wrong! As for the last part, I - along with many other Orgers - would say you're an extremely attractive woman. Although I know my opinion won't change how you feel, and I get that. Very much so. In my case, I was brought up to be 'seen and not heard'; by my father, anyway. When something like that is ingrained in you from an early age, it's kinda hard to shake off - and it rears its' head, sometimes. | |
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johnart said: Genesia said: If you hate people staring at you, quit giving them a reason.
In certain instances I agree with this. Like, if you find it offensive that a dude stares at your tits, don't wear a damn barely there top, with a different color bra with the straps purposely showing (a bad look to begin with). If you don't want someone eying your ass like it's got 3 cheeks, quit wearing played out trendy shit with PINK (or some other name) written across it. If you don't want "perv" dudes staring at your underage daughter, don't let her come out the house lookin like she's "Open for Business". ...stuff like that. You get me. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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I get stares all the time. Well I look unique. Most of the stares are from guys.. a lot of them are black guys. Act like they have never seen a white female with a body like mine. Some of them with their mouths wide open | |
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BoOTyLiCioUs said: I get stares all the time. Well I look unique. Most of the stares are from guys.. a lot of them are black guys. Act like they have never seen a white female with a body like mine. Some of them with their mouths wide open
It's the same for me. Just that I look unique in a different way than you do. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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