He better be in the hospital or some shit.

Ever have that happen to you?

Ugh.

JustErin said:

Nope!

PunkMistress said:

Well, it sucks.

It happened to me once! By my ex--we had already broken up and were just friends at the time, but I should have known to be prepared for that after dating her.

PunkMistress said:

That's because you're too hot.

That fucking blows...

and this is not with someone new with me as well, it's someone I know really well.

But now I am too stubborn to send a text or call him about it.

Fuckface.

sextonseven said:

Or she's never had a date.

JustErin said:

I never thought that would happen to you either. Hot chix don't get stood up. There had to have been a real emergency and because he knew you well, he thought you'd understand if he didn't have time to call.

He couldn't have simply forgotten, right?

JustErin said:

sextonseven said:

Well, I'm not as hot as Erin.

He did say that he was not feeling well around 4:30 but that he was hoping that he would be better in a few hours. So I told him to just let me know either way. By 8pm I sent a text saying, "so I guess tonight is off...?"

and nothing.....

still nothing.
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JustErin said:

Why?

If for nothing else, he should know that he was in bad form, regardless of where and what you two decide is the next step after this. Half the time people behave like fuckfaces because no one eeeeever had the guts to tell them they behave like fuckfaces. Not that you have to get all gangster on him, but at least let him know his manners are fucked up so he has food for thought. Peopleonly get away with a much as ya let 'em.

JustErin said:

That sux

and nope

Ottensen said:

Ya I know.

I'll give him today to let me know what happened, then it will bother me too much and I'll probably text him.

friggin' spelling mistakes today!
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JustErin said:

If you cared about him, you'd be worried that he didn't show up because something bad happened. And in that case, you would have already called him.

RodeoSchro said:

Ya, I tried that last night and did not get a response.

Not sure how many times I am supposed to try and see if he is ok...especially when it might be a case of him just blowing me off. How am I supposed to know?

"If I cared about him...".

JustErin said:

Aren't you worried even more that he didn't respond?

I would be.

JustErin said:

Call the cops and have them break into his place.

sextonseven said:

Yes, I'll file a missing person report.

RodeoSchro said:

Maybe if I didn't know him as well as I do.

JustErin said:

If he's stood you up many times before, then I don't understand why you'd be mad now.

RodeoSchro said:

Actually, he hasn't stood me up before, but he's not the most reliable person in general.

He's hot, though!

JustErin said:

I hope he's OK. Let us know.

RodeoSchro said:

I will!


But I still wanna feel better about myself by hearing it has happened to others as well.

JustErin said:

OK. Well, it's happened to me. Once.

It totally sucks.

I've never stood anyone up, though.

I've never stood up anyone either!

Even when I didn't even want to go at all.

JustErin said:

I got stood up before for a movie date with this guy

...When I talked to him the next day, his excuse was that he was waiting for me to call him first to tell him when I'd be available to meet up

WTF?

thekidsgirl said:

So did you stop talking to him?

Mine was a movie date too.

JustErin said:

Well, we were friends attempting to start dating so we kept in contact, but didn't try going out again for months.
The whole thing was pretty pathetic and now we only communicate occasionally through facebook

ignoring you, won't show up. ..what a jerk.

go to byrons page on relationship types and find yourself another guy.

i know men who do this stuff on purpose because they say it's always best to keep a woman guessing. if he did this to drive you crazy and keep him in your mind, it apparently worked.

i'm just saying...