johnart said:

and mix drinks

JustErin said:

"He doesn't put that much thought into me." The nonchalance or rudeness, when it's effected, is done with that goal in mind. You knew that already, though.

Now, if the dude's just unreliable, that's another story. You seem to think that's what's behind it.

ZombieKitten said:

We could drunk-dial him.

johnart said:

hello is Mr Wall there? are there ANY Walls there?

ZombieKitten said:

Hello? Mr. George?
This is your Conscience Motherfucker!!!

never stood up nyone .. sad lil man .. n a babe like je to ..

JustErin said:

I've never got stood up but that's only because I've never actually been on a date.....I didn't think people actually did that.

whistle said:

But it's still cruel and un-gentleman like, and very childish for certain men to do that, if that's the case. He should of called her anyway had he not been able to show up. It's called a cellphone. If he knows how to disappear, then he knows how to use the damn phone. I bet you he wouldn't like that if he end up the one being stood up. If he can't call, fine...atleast a text message would do.


Sorry to hear you got stood up, JustErin. I think it's time you go look for some who will totally respect you and treat you better.

CarrieMpls said:

My point exactly. He's just making excuses to cover why he stood you up. Which means he's not digging you like he should. I say you should ditch him and find someone who can be responsible and respectable enough to you to let you know that he couldn't make it, and makes up for it by setting another date with you.

Missy said:

Maybe he didn't like your perfume, however I'm sure he liked your baht

Missy said:

in my experience, women say they want a thoughtful, caring man, but it's only lip service. women are bored to death by good guys.

whistle said:

Well, not all women are bored of good guys. I think it's just rare to find a good guy these days, considering there are too many guys who aren't as serious or sincere enough about the women in their lives because they let their "macho" egos and pride get in the way (bad boys). Like some say, you can only date a bad boy once, only to find out that good guys are better, in my experience.

heybaby said:

The challenge?

ZombieKitten said:

ThreadBare said:

Is his goal to make me just go away?

TotalANXiousNESS said:

You never go to the movies with a friend?

Missy said:

Hey, I'm always on the lookout for something new and exciting!

Missy said:

I'm not upset that we didn't go out - I know he is legitimately sick, I'm just pissed about the not letting me know and the not even apologizing for it or even mentioning it the next day – until I said something.

whistle said:

I'm one of those women.

Pathetic, I know.

JustErin said:

You have a lot of company. And, y'all are helping to keep me single, too. I agree with whistle.

JustErin said:

the sad thing is that even if we nice men know this, we can't even
pretend to be bad to get more attention. it's an undefinable quality. you've either got it or you don't.

whistle said:

Actually, it's not that I don't want a nice guy, I do. I just haven't found a nice dude that wasn't too nice.

JustErin said:

i'm not mad at women for this. it's no different for us. if a women gets all needy and starts smothering us, we run for the hills too.

Happened to me for the first time three weeks ago.

Well, I did ask her on a date after meeting her at a club, so it wasn't really that big a deal. I was stupid enough to stand at the spot for 30 minutes or so, though.

novabrkr said:

Ugh.

I just remember it happened to me once. I completely forgot about it. It was a long time ago and he was interested in me and I wasn't interested in him, but we met from time to time without anything going on. One time he just didn't show up where we should have met which was in front of the cathedral of my hometown. After waiting for some minutes a stranger invited me for a drink to a fancy restaurant and I was so pissed that I agreed. After about half an hour I left and went home .

I'd show up for JustErin

I stood someone up once, and I feel karma has already got me back in a few different ways

Cinnie said:

Pretty much every orger would I guess