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Printablejohnart said: 2freaky4church1 said: Did he know how fine you are? Was he gay? lol hugs.
Umm... I'm gay and I would've totally shown up for her. If nothing else to talk hair and shit. 
Next time he stands you up, let me call him. 
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JustErin said: ThreadBare said: When they've left you with that impression, they know it's worked... Sorry? "He doesn't put that much thought into me." The nonchalance or rudeness, when it's effected, is done with that goal in mind. You knew that already, though. Now, if the dude's just unreliable, that's another story. You seem to think that's what's behind it. | |
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ZombieKitten said: johnart said: Umm... I'm gay and I would've totally shown up for her. If nothing else to talk hair and shit.
Next time he stands you up, let me call him.
and mix drinks We could drunk-dial him.  | |
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johnart said: ZombieKitten said: and mix drinks We could drunk-dial him. hello is Mr Wall there? are there ANY Walls there? | |
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ZombieKitten said: johnart said: We could drunk-dial him. hello is Mr Wall there? are there ANY Walls there? Hello? Mr. George? This is your Conscience Motherfucker!!! | |
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never stood up nyone .. sad lil man .. n a babe like je to .. | |
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JustErin said: sextonseven said: That's because you're too hot. Or she's never had a date.  I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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I've never got stood up but that's only because I've never actually been on a date.....I didn't think people actually did that. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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whistle said: i know men who do this stuff on purpose because they say it's always best to keep a woman guessing. if he did this to drive you crazy and keep him in your mind, it apparently worked.
i'm just saying... But it's still cruel and un-gentleman like, and very childish for certain men to do that, if that's the case. He should of called her anyway had he not been able to show up. It's called a cellphone.  If he knows how to disappear, then he knows how to use the damn phone.  I bet you he wouldn't like that if he end up the one being stood up. If he can't call, fine...atleast a text message would do.
Sorry to hear you got stood up, JustErin. I think it's time you go look for some who will totally respect you and treat you better.  | |
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CarrieMpls said: sextonseven said: He's just not that into you. I don't care how sick I was. If I had a hot date and couldn't make it, I'd find some way to let her know and apologize profusely. 
 sorry, erin, but it's totally true.My point exactly. He's just making excuses to cover why he stood you up. Which means he's not digging you like he should. I say you should ditch him and find someone who can be responsible and respectable enough to you to let you know that he couldn't make it, and makes up for it by setting another date with you. | |
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Missy said: CarrieMpls said:
sorry, erin, but it's totally true.My point exactly. He's just making excuses to cover why he stood you up. Which means he's not digging you like he should. I say you should ditch him and find someone who can be responsible and respectable enough to you to let you know that he couldn't make it, and makes up for it by setting another date with you.Maybe he didn't like your perfume, however I'm sure he liked your baht  1 U.S. Dollar = 34 Bahts
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Missy said: But it's still cruel and un-gentleman like, and very childish for certain men to do that, if that's the case. He should of called her anyway had he not been able to show up. It's called a cellphone.
If he knows how to disappear, then he knows how to use the damn phone. I bet you he wouldn't like that if he end up the one being stood up. If he can't call, fine...atleast a text message would do.
Sorry to hear you got stood up, JustErin. I think it's time you go look for some who will totally respect you and treat you better. in my experience, women say they want a thoughtful, caring man, but it's only lip service. women are bored to death by good guys. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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whistle said: Missy said: But it's still cruel and un-gentleman like, and very childish for certain men to do that, if that's the case. He should of called her anyway had he not been able to show up. It's called a cellphone.
If he knows how to disappear, then he knows how to use the damn phone. I bet you he wouldn't like that if he end up the one being stood up. If he can't call, fine...atleast a text message would do.
Sorry to hear you got stood up, JustErin. I think it's time you go look for some who will totally respect you and treat you better. in my experience, women say they want a thoughtful, caring man, but it's only lip service. women are bored to death by good guys. Well, not all women are bored of good guys. I think it's just rare to find a good guy these days, considering there are too many guys who aren't as serious or sincere enough about the women in their lives because they let their "macho" egos and pride get in the way (bad boys). Like some say, you can only date a bad boy once, only to find out that good guys are better, in my experience. | |
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heybaby said: If he doesn't put that much thought into you why even bother?
 The challenge? | |
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ZombieKitten said: JustErin said:
Yes, he's really not that into me...at all. I'm like super duper last on his list. But again, he is a friend and I do care about him. that sounds awfully familiar  | |
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ThreadBare said: JustErin said: Sorry? "He doesn't put that much thought into me." The nonchalance or rudeness, when it's effected, is done with that goal in mind. You knew that already, though. Now, if the dude's just unreliable, that's another story. You seem to think that's what's behind it. Is his goal to make me just go away? | |
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TotalANXiousNESS said: I've never got stood up but that's only because I've never actually been on a date.....I didn't think people actually did that.
You never go to the movies with a friend? | |
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Missy said: whistle said: i know men who do this stuff on purpose because they say it's always best to keep a woman guessing. if he did this to drive you crazy and keep him in your mind, it apparently worked.
i'm just saying... But it's still cruel and un-gentleman like, and very childish for certain men to do that, if that's the case. He should of called her anyway had he not been able to show up. It's called a cellphone. If he knows how to disappear, then he knows how to use the damn phone. I bet you he wouldn't like that if he end up the one being stood up. If he can't call, fine...atleast a text message would do.
Sorry to hear you got stood up, JustErin. I think it's time you go look for some who will totally respect you and treat you better. Hey, I'm always on the lookout for something new and exciting! | |
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Missy said: CarrieMpls said:
sorry, erin, but it's totally true.My point exactly. He's just making excuses to cover why he stood you up. Which means he's not digging you like he should. I say you should ditch him and find someone who can be responsible and respectable enough to you to let you know that he couldn't make it, and makes up for it by setting another date with you.I'm not upset that we didn't go out - I know he is legitimately sick, I'm just pissed about the not letting me know and the not even apologizing for it or even mentioning it the next day – until I said something. | |
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whistle said: Missy said: But it's still cruel and un-gentleman like, and very childish for certain men to do that, if that's the case. He should of called her anyway had he not been able to show up. It's called a cellphone.
If he knows how to disappear, then he knows how to use the damn phone. I bet you he wouldn't like that if he end up the one being stood up. If he can't call, fine...atleast a text message would do.
Sorry to hear you got stood up, JustErin. I think it's time you go look for some who will totally respect you and treat you better. in my experience, women say they want a thoughtful, caring man, but it's only lip service. women are bored to death by good guys. I'm one of those women. Pathetic, I know. | |
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JustErin said: whistle said: in my experience, women say they want a thoughtful, caring man, but it's only lip service. women are bored to death by good guys. I'm one of those women. You have a lot of company. And, y'all are helping to keep me single, too. I agree with whistle. | |
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JustErin said: whistle said: in my experience, women say they want a thoughtful, caring man, but it's only lip service. women are bored to death by good guys. I'm one of those women. Pathetic, I know. the sad thing is that even if we nice men know this, we can't even pretend to be bad to get more attention. it's an undefinable quality. you've either got it or you don't. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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whistle said: JustErin said: I'm one of those women. Pathetic, I know. the sad thing is that even if we nice men know this, we can't even pretend to be bad to get more attention. it's an undefinable quality. you've either got it or you don't. Actually, it's not that I don't want a nice guy, I do. I just haven't found a nice dude that wasn't too nice. | |
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JustErin said: Actually, it's not that I don't want a nice guy, I do. I just haven't found a nice dude that wasn't too nice.
i'm not mad at women for this. it's no different for us. if a women gets all needy and starts smothering us, we run for the hills too. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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Happened to me for the first time three weeks ago.
Well, I did ask her on a date after meeting her at a club, so it wasn't really that big a deal. I was stupid enough to stand at the spot for 30 minutes or so, though. | |
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novabrkr said: Happened to me for the first time three weeks ago.
Well, I did ask her on a date after meeting her at a club, so it wasn't really that big a deal. I was stupid enough to stand at the spot for 30 minutes or so, though. Ugh. | |
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I just remember it happened to me once. I completely forgot about it. It was a long time ago and he was interested in me and I wasn't interested in him, but we met from time to time without anything going on. One time he just didn't show up where we should have met which was in front of the cathedral of my hometown. After waiting for some minutes a stranger invited me for a drink to a fancy restaurant and I was so pissed that I agreed. After about half an hour I left and went home  .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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I'd show up for JustErin  | |
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I stood someone up once, and I feel karma has already got me back in a few different ways | |
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Cinnie said: I'd show up for JustErin
Pretty much every orger would I guess With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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