Someone was sexually abused for years as a child.

Now the pain won't go away?

It depends on what you mean by "OK"... Certainly it's tragic no matter what the situation. And there is always hope. And counseling.

While I believe that one can survive childhood sexual abuse, I would certainly understand if the pain was too much.

its kind of hard to say, definitely an individual choice, i'm not sure if it would be mine but i havent been there. i do have a pretty tough life in other aspects.

NMuzakNSoul said:

Vendetta1 said:

thanks 4 the hug.

I would never judge such a situation but I truly believe in hope.

johnart said:

My exact sentiment

johnart said:

Wonderful choice of words

No, If you or someone you know is thinking of committing suicide please seek help. There is help to ease the pain.

Please.... talk to someone and tell someone and keep telling until someone listens.


Now: my view on suicide. It should not be legal to kill yourself or assist or knowingly make available to suicidal person the means to do so.

The reason is this--for one there are almost always other victims. Also, if assisted suicide was legal then it would allow for a person to talk another into taking their life. So if my mother became such a hassle for me to deal with I could legally convince herself to take her own life. That would lead to murder by guilt.

johnart said:

If you are the one that is suicidal it is not about judging. it is about seeking someone that can help you through the pain. When in the depths of such pain it may seem like the only way but there is always another light.

Now if you know someone that is suicidal and you do nothing... I would not be so kind. If you know someone take action. If it is you...talk to someone.

Many people will ignore you... but not everyone. Someone will listen and offer the strength you need to make it another day.

OnlyNDaUsa said:

I mean that I would not judge as in I can't personally relate to the specifics that are driving this person to such a brink. I've experienced molestation, but not continued or to the point where I ever felt suicidal from it.
Also suicide is often dismissed by people (who can't relate) as "an easy way out". I would never pass that sort of judgment because I have experienced/dealt with someone close feeling ready to end their (physical) pain.

Yes, if realm, if you know of someone on the brink, reach out to them.
If it is you, reach out. There are many many people out there living with painful pasts. As corny as it sounds...you (or they) are not alone.