I'm fairly cute, nice tits, my ass is a little small for the brothas...I can put a sentence together.

Why am I single?

I need suggestions on how to "catch" a man!!



I'm so crackin' up as I write this out but damn it, there's a lotta hoes and pimps on the Org and I need some help!!!

i'm in the same boat gurl...goin' on 5 years of single!!

from what i've been told ...put yourself out there (??) and be approachable (??)...yet i've also been told i won't meet a 'good guy' in a bar, so now i'm hanging out in the frozen food section of the supermarket!! we'll see how that works out for me!!

just be yourself...join some new activities...beg your friends to set u up...


if u get any good advice...let me know!!!

Rhondab said:

Okay, how big R your tits? , small asses could B cool 2 tho, at least it could leave a lot of room for a brotha's inner thigh's when U do it from behind!!! LMAO!!!

Higher yourself a Gigolo or a pimp, :I:'ve been known 2 cater 4 both (well, the 4mer at least!)

'dre

Rhondab said:

It's maybe not the size of your tits that is the problem but more the height of your IQ. The air is thin up there you know.
[This message was edited Wed Dec 18 3:59:46 PST 2002 by ajd]

Rhondab said:

If I only lived in Indianapolis... or you lived here...

ajd said:

WOW, are you assuming I'm not an intelligent person. Interesting assumption.

Rhonadab and Lillith, you're both cute ladies, and I can't explain why you are both single either? Maybe the right person just hasn't come along yet?

I'm single too, and that's what I think will happen for me. They say the right person comes along when you least expect it.

Rhondab said:

NO WAY! It was meant the other way round. YOU are there where the air is thinner. But now that you asked back I maybe have to revise my first assumption.

ajd said:

Doh!

She could have a kinda cute, chubby cheeked Jill Scott thing going on. I love woman with cute cheeks like that, like my baby has.

I would say: enjoy being single as long as it lasts...

Uhm, hunny. If you have to ask it's an insecurity matter.

PURRR

I am asking myself the same question, but in the process of getting over it.

Life should be fun becuz of YOU, not becuz of the man yer with, right?

I tell this to myself EVERY day. Then cuddle the cats and go to slpee, LOL.

ALONE.

Rhondab said:

Checked your profile.

Delete; fairly.
Insert INMENSELY.

And your posts always want to make me cuddle you. As they are profoundly smart and witty and straight to the point.
But HEY, I am gay!
All I can offer is Sex And The City-wisdom.

Maybe if I was straight I wanted you with bigger tits as well. Most men are shallow that way, but there are some good ones out there. And in my experience they are always STRAIGHT, so...

I can tell you my fave here on the org, if you want to...

no insecurities...this is just for fun.

sawatdiikhrap said:

laughin' very hard...lol

Rhondab said:

UHU. "The only thing I am sure of are my insecurities..."
[This message was edited Wed Dec 18 4:27:04 PST 2002 by gooeythehamster]

I'll tell U what, I know your a "with it sista" that has her head on straight. But its when U never think 2 look is when U'll find that right date.

Everything's 4 a reason so have faith & know good things do come 2 those who wait, no matter the season. Love finds all when its U'r time & fate. So trust that angel whos by your side who works deep within U & helps guide. With that beautiful glow the right man will know, and as 2 souls become one then 2gether in harmony you'll flow~

Thou being alone isn't fun during the Xmas season, Its better then being with some fool 4 all the wrong reasons. But in these times U must stay strong, If U look 2 the sky you'll never go wrong.

Rhondab said:

girl please, u must have brotha's falling over themselves knocking at yo door.
if not they is something definitely wrong wit tha boys in yo town.

but if they are not stimulating enough, then u need to look into those corners.
its only in the darkness that one can see light.
check out those corners, u never know what u may find

then, i say

walk on ova to tha brotha and lay it straight. if he runs away then he too scared to play anyway.
and if he stays make that mf do the work, first. then see if he qualifies.

but if u want to save yourself hassle and bother
ma number is


...

Rhondab don't sweat it. I was single for a few years and then finally found somebody who was right under my nose for a long time.

It will come when you least expect it. Enjoy your single life because it won't be like that forever!

You know you the shit, rhondab.

I'm sure you've had relationships that didn't work, we all have. That's the problem. NOT YOU.

Keeping a relationship is the problem. How do 2 people learn to get along together?

I feel the same way.

7779311 said:

I live in Indianapolis--but I'm married.

Rhonda, as for being single, I know this probably isn't much consolation... but enjoy your freedom. I'm not saying I regret being in a committed relationship since 1997 (which became a marriage three years later), but I do recognize that a loss of freedom is part of the price I had to pay.

BTW, we finally moved out of that apartment near your old office.

mmm...BOOBIES

Rhondab said:

:OMG: Ajd

Because, my dear, we have yet to meet.

Same boat, girlie - ain't it a bitch?

I think I either live in the wrong town or just don't hang out enough (the latter is definitely true)...

I have the perfect answer for all the women out there with this same question ... all the good men are already taken

I am single for almost 2 years. The only advise I can give you is: stop searching for a partner!! Enjoy your life, have fun, do the things you always wanted to do, be happy with your single life!!! You will find a partner sooner or later, and when you do you will be stuck again. So live life to the fullest!

If you were on the West Coast.Me and Bad could show you love.But then we're Badboys and you want a Good Man so i guess it goes both ways .

Jasper said:

amen! DO NOT SETTLE, just to get a man, holidays just make people weird. Enjoy being healthy and not stuck in a dead end relationship with someone you do not love. Don't get with some creep just to tell your friends and family that you are 'seeing' someone. The right one will come along out of the blue and knock you off your feet. You will be so happy and you deserve it.

Hey Rhonda, don't knock it... being single is great! I'm married now but I remember that I really enjoyed my time living a selfish bachelor existence - enjoy it while you can!

I can appreciate though, that it can be hard to meet decent people. As I get older I find that my circle of friends has become restricted to the friends who I've known for over 10 years already, as well as workmates, ex-workmates etc. Hard to meet potential mates like that I guess.

I agree with Jasper, enjoy your freedom and independence, and don't get too hung up on finding a partner.