SCNDLS said:

What's bof?? Am I missing something here, or just too damn old to know what you mean??

SCNDLS said:

Her mother's right. That dude is not looking for a wife, he's looking for child support to give to his baby mamas and his 6 kids. That's all that is.

Kandi better get that sugar out of her brain, and wake up. Next thing you know, she'll be writing a song about it, and sing-crying like a carbon copy of Keyshia Cole.
[Edited 7/31/09 12:36pm]

2elijah said:

Chile that's Southern speak for "both"

Oh, my GAWD!!! Watch the vid of Dwight getting his workout on. :faint"

SCNDLS said:

I thought it was an acronym for some slang word I missed out on..LMAO..

SCNDLS said:

I will have to check that out when I get home.

DesireeNevermind said:

Sheree was having a Linda Blair head-turning "I'm gonna kick-your-ass" exorcist moment...
[Edited 7/31/09 12:43pm]

2elijah said:

They have LOTS of videos including Sheree, Nene, and Kim getting it on in a restaurant.

SCNDLS said:

Oh man, that's probably next week's shows..I want to wait to see it, when it airs, so I probably won't watch it until it airs on Bravo.

morningsong said:

That's true but remember when she wrote that $67k check for the Escalade??? She came up on a fat cat and I just hate I didn't catch him in MY net first.

2elijah said:

Can't blame her, it was almost unbelievable, had to keep looking just to make sure. That roar stopped me in my tracks for a minute, like what... then I just busted up. I doubt Sheree and her ex ever had to go at it like that. He was going for all sorts of low blows, and why is what I don't get. If she wasn't important enough to give some respect to, then why was she important enough to even get involved with, if you clientale is so high post?

SCNDLS said:

You gettin'' all ahead and everything. I guess I know what I'm watching this weekend when I get a chance.

morningsong said:

For the most part they're outtakes. But yeah her mama is speaking the truth.
[Edited 7/31/09 13:03pm]

Everytime I look at Kandi this is all I see. And she looks much older than 32 IMO.

morningsong said:

What made me fall on the floor laughing is when the event planner said "I am a high-level executive"....WHAT??? ...not with that attitude bro' and, the only thing on high-level was his ego Lawd that ego was so swollen it could have taken off like a hot air balloon all by itself...

I'm trying so hard not to bust out laughing while I'm at work seeing the event planner's image in my mind with him going off like that... Lawd have mercy, somebody make it stop pleeaasssee.

Side note: Lawd, but to tell you the truth, I probably would have said the same thing Sheree said to him...LMAO!....still... ...especially when he brought Sheree's "mama" into the yelling and screaming. That's when she really was going to clock him. Now he should know the rules, you don't talk about a black man or black woman's mama, that's like committing of "Mama-ism"
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SCNDLS said:

It must be Kevin"Shakespeare"Briggs. I know him and Kandi wrote Bills,Bills,
Bills. I kind of agree with you as far as Kandi dating dude with six kids.
I can understand why her family would see a red flag but since i don't know
the details as far as whether he has a lot of baby mommas or just 1 or 2 i
just hope she's careful and happy about this big step. His daughter seems
to look up to this dude as a father figure since her biological isn't around.

phunkdaddy said:

Yeah, that's the guy that co-wrote with them.

Her fiancee's got FOUR baby mamas according to her mother and has been sued for child support already. I don't care that her daughter looks up to him cuz that could be part of his game knowing that she's craving that.

In one scene Kandi's crying because her and all the women in her family are repeating the cycle of single parenthood, no man in the house, but in the outtakes she's crying because her mother won't cosign her marrying a dude that's left four women and six children in his wake.

Regardless of whether or not he takes cared of kids it's quite obvious that he doesn't learn from his mistakes and is quick to hop in the bed and into a relationship. But Kandi thinks she's somehow different and special and is exposing her impressionable daughter to this dude. Dumb broads abound.

Beef with Bloggersphere

TV personality and former Xscape singer Kandi Burruss has had it with bloggers talking mess about her fiancée Ashley “AJ” Jewel and her upcoming involvement on The Real Housewives of Atlanta, among other things. So much so that she told Essence her upcoming album (which features a song with her former group mate Tiny) will be called B.L.O.G. (B–ches Love Online Gossip).

“I came up with the concept based on things that were going that were relevant to what’s going on in my life now including the show and what things have been written about me and my fiancée by bloggers,” she said. “The whole album isn’t about the show but there are definitely songs inspired from the show like ‘Fly Above,’ and ‘It Must Be Good.’”

I don’t understand folks who whine and complain about what people have to say when they willingly thrust themselves into public view!

Kandi also told Essence:

“I was supposed to be on the ‘Tiny & Toya’ show along with our friend Joy, Lyfe Jennings’s ex-fiancée,” and explained that it fell through. “I was disappointed because I was looking forward to getting into reality television, but the next week I was approached to join the cast of ‘The Real Housewives of Atlanta,’ so it all worked out.”

So let me get this straight, you try multiple times to get down with the reality TV circuit that’s going to blast the details of your life but get mad when people talk about the details of your life? Not that anyone deserves to be trash talked but if you can’t stand the heat… Plus what would reality personalities and er, washed up celebrities from yesteryear really be without the blogs and gossips reporting on them and thus making them even remotely relevant in the celebrity world? I’mjustsayin.

Yep, it's a wrap Kandi ain't too bright. She said herself that her mother thinks she's a smart girl but ain't got NO common sense and after reading this Essence interview I'm all the way down with mama. This chile need to ditch that zero cuz word on the streets is that he's a former drug dealer using fake pay stubs to avoid child support.

Real Housewives of Atlanta' Season Two Premiere: Kandi Burruss

Love 'em or hate 'em, folks can't stop gabbing about the cast of "The Real Housewives of Atlanta." For some the show has become an addiction and others just another abhorrent melodrama that marks the impending death of quality TV. But for Kandi Burruss, the newest ATL housewife, it's simply surreal. Before joining the infamous Georgia Peaches, the former Xscape member was a bonafide couch potato and die-hard "RHOA" fan, making sure to TIVO every episode of Bravo's southern installment. Now the Grammy-winning singer and songwriter stands on the frontlines with the cast waiting to live excerpts of her life in front of millions. ESSENCE.com caught up with the single mom to talk about her sudden engagement, her fiancé's critics and her beef with NeNe Leakes.

ESSENCE.COM: Welcome to the show. How's it been going?
KANDI BURRUSS: it's been fun for the most part. But, to be honest, when it was first announced that I would be a part of the show the blogs really dogged my fiancé. At first I was upset that they were saying he has all these kids and he cheats and that the lovin' must be so good that it makes me want to stay. It was just crazy, but it has made for some good song material.

ESSENCE.COM: It's tough living under a microscope, but we've read that your mom has been equally critical of your relationship with Ashley "AJ" Jewel. How have you and your mom been getting along?
BURRUSS: It's gotten worse and we deal with some of our issues on camera. Our engagement is fairly new. We met last July and got engaged in January. It's been hurtful to him because he has kids old enough to read this, and really I expected that people would have things to say about me, not my fiancé. When he read what they were saying he was like, I wish you weren't doing the show, but it was too late because we'd already signed the contracts. So we're going to ride it out.

ESSENCE.COM: Unfortunately, living in the spotlight of dramality TV, this level of public scrutiny is to be expected. Why have so many people accused him of not being employed?
BURRUSS: People were accusing him of being a street pharmacist, but AJ has his own music production company and he also does other things outside of music. I recognize some people don't like dating people with children but I'm a single mom of a 6-year-old, and now I also have AJ's twin 12-year-old daughters living with us, and we're all adjusting as a blended family. My daughter enjoys them and I enjoy being able to experience the [tween] years.

ESSENCE.COM: Well, there's talk that you and NeNe have beef. Is that true?
BURRUSS: It started off cool, and as taping went on me and NeNe, well, I'll just say things got stressful. We have words and we a'ight now. We at least tolerate each other. It's kind of funny because I was a big fan of hers, but it's one thing to think when you watch people on television and they seem larger than life and you think it's cute and funny, but when you meet that person in real life and that same attitude is directed at you it ain't so funny no more.

ESSENCE.COM: Does this mean we can expect catfights?
BURRUSS: I'm not a person who's going to back down and will tell you in a second that you can't talk to me any old kind of way. So I'll just say there will be a lot of big disagreements and a lot of drama on the show.

EXCLUSIVE: New ATL Housewife Kandi Burruss Has Skeletons In Her Bed!

We’ve got some exclusive dish about Kandi Burruss and what you will…and won’t see…on this season of “The Real Housewives Of Atlanta”. Kandi is newly engaged–which her publicist has confirmed to TheYBF.com. But get this: We’ve found out that she’s actually engaged to a well known ATL “street pharmacist” named Ashley Jewell, b.k.a. A.J. And he has 6 kids that he allegedly hasn’t been taking care of. Wack ass baby daddy drama Take 1…

A source very close to one of A.J.’s baby moms tells TheYBF.com that A.J. is extremely trifling and it’s a shame that Kandi is even dealing with him–let alone marrying him. Kandi and A.J. just bought a house together in Buckhead, ATL. But A.J. pays no support to his baby moms/ex-wife/former R&B singer Danah . Allegedly, he doesn’t pay her alimony and even took Danah’s truck when they divorced. Danah and A.J. were married in 2005 and divorced in 2008.

Oh, but there’s more. We’re told this A.J. character used to date Kandi’s BFF Tameka “Tiny” Cottle! He and T.I. have supposedly had some beef in the past–like when they got into it at a Benihanas and T.I. ended up throwing a chair at him. Why? Because back when A.J. was married to Danah, he tried to get back with Tiny! Scandalous!

Kandi’s publicist confirmed to YBF that Kandi’s fiance will indeed be on the show. But Danah is extra pissy because she knows A.J.’s about to be on there frontin’. Sounds like an “ATL Housewife” theme.

Danah’s very good friend tells TheYBF.com that all of A.J.’s kids are on welfare except the youngest little boy–Danah’s son. Kandi also has a 6 yr old little girl named Riley with Block from Block Entertainment. Deshawn Snow said she was getting replaced because Bravo wanted more drama–and it’s here…

why??

nonetheless I'm going to be right there watching every minute of this trainwreck. :shame:


Poor OC wives unless they start setting each others houses on fire they ain't got a snowballs chance in hell at all this insanity.

SCNDLS said:

the hell??

this is beyond hot ghetto mess. this is hot ghettoz all my chirren!!


I know there aint no men in the ATL but i be damned if I hook up wit a nucca got 6 kids and don take care of em. On top of that he usta bang my homegirl? lawd jeebus make it stop.

morningsong said:

Damn, me too.

OC is soooo boring even before ATL the OC dames annoyed me.

SCNDLS said:

Oh my goodness, didn't I just say something similar, in an earlier post, that she will probably write a song about her man/relationship? (post #121 if you will)Lawd, now how did I guess that?
[Edited 7/31/09 17:03pm]

SCNDLS said:

OC aint been the same since that spicy Latina Jo De La Rosa de la joya or wuteva her name wuz left. she made the show interesting....then it all went to hell in a juicer.

I am so damn ready.

SCNDLS said:

Did somebody say Dwight?!

SCNDLS said:

The camera guys were basically shooing her away..

morningsong:

Well, they said she got a new wig..

SCNDLS said:

True, I can't stand the lady on that show that goes "Whoo Hoo!" and she's always walking into something and falling. Very clumsy indeed.
[Edited 7/31/09 17:12pm]