NDRU said:

he wrote back "Deal baby! I love you!!"
omg is that all I had to do all this time

ZombieKitten said:

that's my Leo, what a sweetie!

NDRU said:

I don't want to be his mummy!

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

I know but that shouldn't excuse him from responsibility

(but wasn't that pretty clever: "cook" & "stew?")

NDRU said:

you are very clever, that is why I love you

ZombieKitten said:

And if I was leo every night would be date night (after I cooked & cleaned, of course!)

NDRU said:

can you ring him up and tell him that?

ZombieKitten said:

I'm sure that would get him on track!

NDRU said:

thanks man

So, anyway: I need ideas for DATE NIGHT IN, SUNDAYS

ZombieKitten said:

all you really need is your one best friend. Doesn't have to be a party, could just be shopping, dinner, maybe a drink (or 4)
or a guy friend...but that could cause issues...unless he's gay.

Shorty said:

I actually don't have a one best girlfriend
what about a guy that could pretend he's gay?

ZombieKitten said:

We usually run our errands together, so we can steal some time in the car or just walking around a store together without the kids.

Every day after work we shut the door to our bedroom and spend some kid-free time talking about our days and just decompressing for a while. Kids are asked not to knock unless someone is bleeding or choking.

We rent movies. We watch Jeopardy every night and Intervention every Monday. We cook and eat together. We have sex. We lay around near each other and read magazines. We like going to concerts and out with friends, but most of our together time is just built into our lives. I like it that way.

ZombieKitten said:

that's kinda sad. You should get one. You never had a best friend (girl)? what about a sister? or cousin?

Shorty said:

nope to all, I have a sister, but we really don't get along. My 4 cousins all live in different countries. All my friends growing up were always boys.

ZombieKitten said:

That's what happens when you grow up liking robots.

sextonseven said:

I didn't start liking them until I was an adult
I played with Barbies and dollhouses when I was a kid, although matchbox cars lived in my dollhouse

ZombieKitten said:

It sounds like you would have loved Transformers toys when you were younger.

sextonseven said:

if only my baby ferrari could have transformed



I'm not a real girl

ZombieKitten said:

Mine too. My dad insisted that I play with Matchbox cars and learn all of the makes and models of cars, including classic cars.
Yes, he really, really, really wanted a boy.

MrsMdiver said:

I don't know how I got started with them

ZombieKitten said:

So cute!

ZombieKitten said:

I was very tomboyish growing up too, played with trucks and all that stuff. Had lots of guy friends all the time but still managed to have a few girl friends. I think you really NEED a friend....be it boy or girl, to go out with from time to time. Does WONDERS for the spirit!

Shorty said:

yes! I want one!!!!

ZombieKitten said:

too bad we live so far apart, I'd hang out with ya and talk undies and stuff.

Shorty said:

I was thinking the same thing. Since moving to a new country, I still have not found a close girlfriend like I had in the states.
My best girlfriend in the states does not have a computer so it is hard to keep in touch. I call her once a month to catch up.
I miss going to lunch and the movies with her.

MrsMdiver said:

I kind of use the org as this kind of outlet but it isn't the same as "I'll meet you at the pub in 5, I'm going crazy in here!!!!"

Shorty, you're so sweet

so anyway, date night for Sunday has already been sabotaged
that lasted all of one week