ZombieKitten said:

I see what you're saying. This is actually not too different from what I'm suggesting. When you're younger you recover much quicker.

So whatever the cause, he's just not recovered enough when he's doing Erin (which I have imagined a whole lot these past two days, now)

JustErin said:

that would solve the problem! he'd be out of your life

TrickyChristopher1990 said:

I try but I guess its not good enough. He recently asked to video me but I think he just wanted it to have to jerk off to.

I made him delete it.
[Edited 7/22/09 17:14pm]

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

he only comes over for the booty call, right? you don't spend so much time together outside of that, or even talk?

JustErin said:

especially what you have to do to actually push him over the edge

ZombieKitten said:

That's right. We used to be pretty good friends but we now only hook up and do not hang out at all anymore.

JustErin said:

WEll of course he wanted it to jerk off too - but was he in the video or just you? If it was just you... not that that wouldn't be hot... but not getting in on the action is way too big a tease.

Sounds to me like he might be overthinking it. Overthinking causes a lot of problems. Have you just got into it, no pressure?

NDRU said:

It's hard work, I tell you!

JustErin said:

and he doesn't know far in advance when you guys might get together?

TrickyChristopher1990 said:

Parts of him were in it.

I don't think he's thinking about it at all...it's me fixating over it.

NDRU said:

Yes, he does. We see each other pretty much the same time each week.

JustErin said:

Well, as kinky as you sound, it's also possible that you've run the limit on kink, or need to even step it up a notch (if that's possible) - and if it's just booty call, then there's not the emotional connection. Man, there are a ton of reasons. In truth, this is one of the only times I've ever heard a girl complain about this. It's usually the guy trying to figure out how to get the girl off.

JustErin said:

gotcha well, that makes it easier. To beat a dead horse (yes, a pun) he should prepare.

Hell, porn stars & sperm donors have to abstain two days before action. He should, too. If he has premature ejaculation, it'll be a nice change, at least.

TrickyChristopher1990 said:

NDRU said:

I've already told him to chill out on the jerking off...hopefully he will listen.

JustErin said:

I do agree, jerking off is good to keep stamina, but too much can be "too much" - unless he's jerking it with your help, tell him to cut down to twice a week maybe. Or get kinkier.

TrickyChristopher1990 said:

I don't think I can get any kinkier!

JustErin said:

Ha! Don't sell yourself short! Sure you can!

TrickyChristopher1990 said:

JustErin said:

uh,yeah,like making a video?If he's a voyuer(u ever ask him?) your body is what he'll be masterbating to everyday.Object of his desire..when it's booty call time.his visual fantasy become reality.He's probably pressured because he knows you're frustrated and that makes it worse.you're lucky he's gets one nutt out.Also you're looking for a comfortable excuse with older guy thing.30 isn't old,that's not going to fly.some men take time to recover some are even one and done.youre so worried about the second nutt,I hope you appreciate the first.Viagra(just a half) could solve that problem.I need to bill you or invite you into my office...lol

SavonOsco said:

Where did all this second nut talk come from? It's taking me 5 million hours to get the first one.

JustErin said:

My bad Im out and about on this damn phone and read it wrong,but what I said still applies to the first nutt.Stimulate him girl,if he's a voyuer, make the video.That gif is hot,did u send it to his phone?When u call him that gif should show on his phone.I sense a pattern starting with your men..When I finish this second Margarita,I might tell u what it is.

Oh oh...

JustErin said:

but you can't be SURE it's the first, can you?

ZombieKitten said:

The first with me.

ZombieKitten said:

I did read it right(I'm not drunk yet,yea!)This would be his second of that day because of the something about Mary theory ,that we all acknowledge is what he probably does.

SavonOsco said:

I'm waiting for him to get online so I can ask him about it.

JustErin said:

tell him we are all waiting with bated breath