I don't know, maybe... from what you share, it seems there is some mutual sexual attraction missing. Can you get a little bit more specific? Is there still enough sexual attraction? Does his/their dick still ever get hard just by seeing you, or hearing you say something nasty to him or touching his dick, letting him know you want to fuck him/them? Or perhabs more importantly even, do you still get off on them?

He's totally good to go at first and claims that the things I do are amazing...but it takes so much fucking work to get him off. It never used to be that way...years ago.

OK, so... Have you talked about it already? You say one masturbates too much, but exactly how much is too much masturbation and didn't he masturbate that much before then? I mean if it never used to be that way, he must have noticed it and thought about it too right?

What did I miss??

OK, so... Have you talked about it already? You say one masturbates too much, but exactly how much is too much masturbation and didn't he masturbate that much before then? I mean if it never used to be that way, he must have noticed it and thought about it too right?

OK, so... Have you talked about it already? You say one masturbates too much, but exactly how much is too much masturbation and didn't he masturbate that much before then? I mean if it never used to be that way, he must have noticed it and thought about it too right?

He said he does it every day. I dunno if he did it that much back then. I'll ask him about it when I see him next.

I just thought maybe he was getting old and things were harder to do. Or maybe I just don't do it for him like I used to.

He said he does it every day. I dunno if he did it that much back then. I'll ask him about it when I see him next.

I just thought maybe he was getting old and things were harder to do. Or maybe I just don't do it for him like I used to.

He said he does it every day. I dunno if he did it that much back then. I'll ask him about it when I see him next.

I just thought maybe he was getting old and things were harder to do. Or maybe I just don't do it for him like I used to.

it ought to get back on track again when you tell us how your little talk with him goes!

you need a younger man then

He said he does it every day. I dunno if he did it that much back then. I'll ask him about it when I see him next.

I just thought maybe he was getting old and things were harder to do. Or maybe I just don't do it for him like I used to.

It sounds like maybeyou just solved your own riddle..is this the same guy you was concerned about in the other thread?The guy that won't open up with you?If so you might be a "convenience hump" with respect to history.If not, then you must talk to this one also and see if there's a problem.If u eat right and excercise could help also stress level plays into it.All men are different.

He is probably experience premature ejaculation, so before visiting you he rubs one out. Simple!

Interesting....

I think that is something that might become more common as a guy ages(? set me straight here, those in the know)
He doesn't want to embarrass himself, and wants to last longer, so he probably does this?
Anyway, just an idea

Interesting....

I think that is a possible scenario, except I expect that it is more likely that he thought that helped when he was younger (the Something About Mary theory) and maybe has continued to do something to keep himself under control (and that he likes) when it's not necessary anymore.

But now that he's older he should probably just save himself for actual sex.

you need a younger man then

I had a friend whose husband with a premature ejaculation problem, so when he was younger, he would always come twice during sex, but then when he was older, the second time was near impossible. So things got very strained and in the end she wanted a divorce - he'd been rejected her advances in bed because he was so embarrassed about not being able to last longer than a couple of minutes.

I had a friend whose husband with a premature ejaculation problem, so when he was younger, he would always come twice during sex, but then when he was older, the second time was near impossible. So things got very strained and in the end she wanted a divorce - he'd been rejected her advances in bed because he was so embarrassed about not being able to last longer than a couple of minutes.

Hot

that you?

I definitely don't deny that that is a potential problem.

I just wonder since that seems to be the opposite of Erin's issue. She hasn't mentioned that he came too quickly even once.