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JustErin..here's a normal straight answer from a straight guy...if you're interested. I'm in my mid 30's but due to genetics look early 20's...(not that I care about looking young)...I've noticed no difference in 'performance' since my 20's but this is because I've always exercised, eat right and taken natural supplements like Maca to keep my testosterone at normal levels... My arousal tends to come from my overactive imagination...I'm extremely sexual but it's under control...even though I have a cute girlfriend with a magnificent ass, that I get stuck into daily... For those interested, I've been told I look like Bobby Cannavale, but I only know him from OZ where he played some gay guy. When my gay friends take me clubbing for some reason I get attention and guys try it on with me..if I'm in the mood I let 'em sit on my lap while I hold them...end of. I'm from the UK. Just Erin...does this answer your question? (Hi sammij x) peace | |
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JustErin said: thekidsgirl said: So is there a guy in this age range that you're interested in?  No, but I am sleeping with a a dude that is 32 and one that is 31 (yes, they are younger than me, but I still consider that 'older'). But I was just asking in general. 31 is 'older' 
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funkyandy said: Lord have mercy...all right already, gaylords!...
JustErin..here's a normal straight answer from a straight guy...if you're interested. I'm in my mid 30's but due to genetics look early 20's...(not that I care about looking young)...I've noticed no difference in 'performance' since my 20's but this is because I've always exercised, eat right and taken natural supplements like Maca to keep my testosterone at normal levels... My arousal tends to come from my overactive imagination...I'm extremely sexual but it's under control...even though I have a cute girlfriend with a magnificent ass, that I get stuck into daily... For those interested, I've been told I look like Bobby Cannavale, but I only know him from OZ where he played some gay guy. When my gay friends take me clubbing for some reason I get attention and guys try it on with me..if I'm in the mood I let 'em sit on my lap while I hold them...end of. I'm from the UK. Just Erin...does this answer your question? (Hi sammij x) peace Well, that's for your personal ad in my thread. | |
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thekidsgirl said: JustErin said: No, but I am sleeping with a a dude that is 32 and one that is 31 (yes, they are younger than me, but I still consider that 'older'). But I was just asking in general. 31 is 'older'
You are too much Yes, to me it is. I miss screwing 20 somethings.  | |
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JustErin said: Is it harder to get off when you're older?
I don't mean, you can make it last longer, I know you can. You're more in control, that's awesome. But what I mean is...do you need real stimulation to get off. Maybe this still isn't coming out right. Let me try again. Do you need to get off by just doing something yourself, like jerking it or maybe having something done to you that really, really turns you on? Instead of just getting off during intercourse or head? I don't know if I'm considered an older dude. I'll be 38 tomorrow. But friction always made me come. When I was a teenager and in my twenty's I rebounded a little quicker than I do now, but the same thing turns me on now as it did back then. A woman who is willing to take her clothes off and jump in bed/the bushes/the water/the closet/the garage/the back-seat etc. with me. | |
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Anxiety said: all i need is a big glass of metamucil and a fresh colostomy bag.
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The 2 men who were in that age group who I have been with didn't have any problems at all. 2nd or 3rd times weren't a problem either. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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MrsMdiver said: sextonseven said: I'm old. I'm exactly the type of guy Erin wants to answer this question. I would need proof of that in order to agree. Your profile just says that you are older than me. I hardly believe that for a damn minute. You do not look old. Oh and she was asking "older" dudes, that is not very specific, come to think of it. So, what's your answer then???? He is younger than I am  .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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funkyandy said: Lord have mercy...all right already, gaylords!...
JustErin..here's a normal straight answer from a straight guy...if you're interested. I'm in my mid 30's but due to genetics look early 20's...(not that I care about looking young)...I've noticed no difference in 'performance' since my 20's but this is because I've always exercised, eat right and taken natural supplements like Maca to keep my testosterone at normal levels... My arousal tends to come from my overactive imagination...I'm extremely sexual but it's under control...even though I have a cute girlfriend with a magnificent ass, that I get stuck into daily... For those interested, I've been told I look like Bobby Cannavale, but I only know him from OZ where he played some gay guy. When my gay friends take me clubbing for some reason I get attention and guys try it on with me..if I'm in the mood I let 'em sit on my lap while I hold them...end of. I'm from the UK. Just Erin...does this answer your question? (Hi sammij x) peace Please tell me your a figment of Imago's imagination.  | |
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JustErin said: uPtoWnNY said: All I need for stimulation is a big, beautiful ass in front of me and I'm fine. Oh ya? You just blow at the sight? No, but I'm at attention.  |
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Erin, my answer would be (I'm almost 40) that yes, it is easier to get off when something you really enjoy or that turns you on is being done to you, but that's more to do with settling into your "ways" with age. I'll try (and have) just about anything once (or twice, or 3 times  ) but at this point, I know what I like and if I just want to get off and go on about my day, that's where I'm aiming.
That's not to say I won't switch things up from time to time. But I'm at a point where I don't have a problem with a certain amount of "routine" either. I hope my answer made sense. [Edited 7/21/09 11:12am] | |
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thekidsgirl said: JustErin said: No, but I am sleeping with a a dude that is 32 and one that is 31 (yes, they are younger than me, but I still consider that 'older'). But I was just asking in general. 31 is 'older'
You are too much For real.  The 34 year old I was seeing is easily aroused and has mad stamina, and generally could last longer than I could. That man could rock me to sleep with one go....a very long, extended go, but if I wasn't always so dead crushed and exausted afterwards it seems like he can jump into a 2nd wind quite easily. | |
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fingertips said: come over n find out the answers ..
Well now... | |
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JustErin said: Is it harder to get off when you're older?
I don't mean, you can make it last longer, I know you can. You're more in control, that's awesome. But what I mean is...do you need real stimulation to get off. Maybe this still isn't coming out right. Let me try again. Do you need to get off by just doing something yourself, like jerking it or maybe having something done to you that really, really turns you on? Instead of just getting off during intercourse or head? No (although, I rarely ever nutted from head). |
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Ok, so I think some of the problem may lie in excessive beating off on a daily basis.
The bastard needs to give it a rest.
But I do also think that men need more mental stimulation as they get older. I dunno about the 31 year old. I'll have to investigate further (again and again and again and again....). The last time we were together on a semi-reg basis he was 29. | |
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johnart said: Erin, my answer would be (I'm almost 40) that yes, it is easier to get off when something you really enjoy or that turns you on is being done to you, but that's more to do with settling into your "ways" with age. I'll try (and have) just about anything once (or twice, or 3 times
) but at this point, I know what I like and if I just want to get off and go on about my day, that's where I'm aiming.
That's not to say I won't switch things up from time to time. But I'm at a point where I don't have a problem with a certain amount of "routine" either. I hope my answer made sense. [Edited 7/21/09 11:12am] Made sense! | |
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My husband is 47, he is so not an older dude...bless his heart he is as hot and yummy as he was when we were in our teens.  | |
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Ace said: JustErin said: Is it harder to get off when you're older?
I don't mean, you can make it last longer, I know you can. You're more in control, that's awesome. But what I mean is...do you need real stimulation to get off. Maybe this still isn't coming out right. Let me try again. Do you need to get off by just doing something yourself, like jerking it or maybe having something done to you that really, really turns you on? Instead of just getting off during intercourse or head? No (although, I rarely ever nutted from head).  | |
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PaisleyPark5083 said: My husband is 47, he is so not an older dude...bless his heart he is as hot and yummy as he was when we were in our teens.
That's awesome! He's still old to me though. | |
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johnart said: funkyandy said: Lord have mercy...all right already, gaylords!...
JustErin..here's a normal straight answer from a straight guy...if you're interested. I'm in my mid 30's but due to genetics look early 20's...(not that I care about looking young)...I've noticed no difference in 'performance' since my 20's but this is because I've always exercised, eat right and taken natural supplements like Maca to keep my testosterone at normal levels... My arousal tends to come from my overactive imagination...I'm extremely sexual but it's under control...even though I have a cute girlfriend with a magnificent ass, that I get stuck into daily... For those interested, I've been told I look like Bobby Cannavale, but I only know him from OZ where he played some gay guy. When my gay friends take me clubbing for some reason I get attention and guys try it on with me..if I'm in the mood I let 'em sit on my lap while I hold them...end of. I'm from the UK. Just Erin...does this answer your question? (Hi sammij x) peace Please tell me your a figment of Imago's imagination. LOL!...perhaps I should've expected these kinds of reactions when u enter gay occupied threads...no straight answers allowed! Maybe it'll be 3rd time lucky... | |
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funkyandy said: johnart said: Please tell me your a figment of Imago's imagination. LOL!...perhaps I should've expected these kinds of reactions when u enter gay occupied threads...no straight answers allowed! Maybe it'll be 3rd time lucky... Are you serious? So not true at all. The reaction couldn't have less to do with it coming from a straight person. | |
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sextonseven said: MrsMdiver said: I would need proof of that in order to agree. Your profile just says that you are older than me. I hardly believe that for a damn minute. You do not look old. Oh and she was asking "older" dudes, that is not very specific, come to think of it. So, what's your answer then???? If you were born in the 60s like me then I think that qualifies as "older".
As for my answer, it doesn't take anything extra to get me off the first time. The problem is the second time--it takes longer to recharge my batteries it seems. If I wouldn't know that I can trust you 100% I'd think you told Erin about our conversation and that inspired her thread .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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funkyandy said: johnart said: Please tell me your a figment of Imago's imagination. LOL!...perhaps I should've expected these kinds of reactions when u enter gay occupied threads...no straight answers allowed! Maybe it'll be 3rd time lucky... 
look into it. | |
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hmm i read your post a few times and i kinda thought you answered your own question at first ... but heres my .02 ...
i am 44 . oh my . i am old . Kinda like you said - it is easier to control yourself as you get older ... i always thought that was more because you get used to yourself and know what turns you on etc ... kinda like if you got a new drill right away - never used one ...and learned over a few weeks how to use it ... (good analogy?) i do think it is tougher to get aroused with the same ole boring stuff ... like porn for example . No - it is not tougher if some gal is in front of me showin me her body etc ... kinda like when you were 15 and some hot teacher was up in front of class and you pitched a tent ! now , at 44 - wouldnt happen ... especially since when i was 15 it was happnin with MRS consertively-dressed teacher ... and NOT the gal from the Van Halen video .... (hot for teacher etc) ... just my .02 ... Colonel Angus may be smelly. colonel angus may be a little rough . but deep down ... Colonel angus is very sweet. |
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JustErin said: PaisleyPark5083 said: My husband is 47, he is so not an older dude...bless his heart he is as hot and yummy as he was when we were in our teens.
That's awesome! He's still old to me though. Well hell Erin, I am 43..so I must be an old bitch in your eyes too. 
Actually, we have been with each other since I was 16 and he 20, so we are just right for another, getting older together is awesome. | |
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PaisleyPark5083 said: JustErin said: That's awesome! He's still old to me though. Well hell Erin, I am 43..so I must be an old bitch in your eyes too.
Actually, we have been with each other since I was 16 and he 20, so we are just right for another, getting older together is awesome. 
I have not noticed a slow down or a need for more stimulation for my old man to get off. 
Though I am old too I guess so what do I know? I must admit that I do not notice any difference from when I was with a man in his 20's. I do not think a man that is 37 (almost 38) is old. | |
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ColAngus said: hmm i read your post a few times and i kinda thought you answered your own question at first ... but heres my .02 ...
i am 44 . oh my . i am old . Kinda like you said - it is easier to control yourself as you get older ... i always thought that was more because you get used to yourself and know what turns you on etc ... kinda like if you got a new drill right away - never used one ...and learned over a few weeks how to use it ... (good analogy?) i do think it is tougher to get aroused with the same ole boring stuff ... like porn for example . No - it is not tougher if some gal is in front of me showin me her body etc ... kinda like when you were 15 and some hot teacher was up in front of class and you pitched a tent ! now , at 44 - wouldnt happen ... especially since when i was 15 it was happnin with MRS consertively-dressed teacher ... and NOT the gal from the Van Halen video .... (hot for teacher etc) ... just my .02 ... I think you just called me boring. | |
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JustErin said: PaisleyPark5083 said: My husband is 47, he is so not an older dude...bless his heart he is as hot and yummy as he was when we were in our teens.
That's awesome! He's still old to me though. |
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