Depends on what's important to them.

1) no interest in faithfull relationship
2) mainly intersted in sex
3) disrespect for women
4) not being treated the way they
want in the relationship
5) mislead by woman's real intention

This is true for women as well.

i've never been unfaithful...never will...to risk what i have now would make me a fool

MrBliss said:

Damn man...you are in fuckin LOVE!!! Its a beautiful thang.

Ultimately people are true to themselves first. There are many reasons both men and woman 'cheat'--and they may not be the same, but it feels the same way and it always sucks.
It could be because many people want the magic they had when they first meet someone, or the challenge of the hunt and/or the chase(depending on which end you're on), or many people don't feel secure enough with themselves and need someone constantly fawning over them, or it could be that's all they know from their mother or father's behavior.
If you check with the true numbers of people who choose infedelity you'll find both sexes cheat equally.

It is my belief people choose their mates for certain reasons. Isn't it odd some people always get cheated on? Is it them, or is it the 'men'(or women) they find? Healthy people find healthy people, screw balls find screw balls.

Any way you look at it, a relationship outside of our 'exclusive' one is really just being true to our own feelings, so it's not cheating, it's reality...which is always the hardest pill to swallow.

Because they find WOMEN to cheat with.

Cracula said:

well thats stupid...


not all men go after taken women

DORA said:

Not all women go after taken me

Cracula said:

your taken..?

DORA said:

Only by YOU.

They cheat because they're looking for change in their lives.

DigitalLisa said:

What a pile of bull !!!

'dre

Umm, don't get me wrong but I think woman cheat 2 as U say U know. But cheating is cheating & 2 think that men are the only ones 2 do it the worse or 4 weaker reasons of the flesh...is not true. Let's not sugar coat the truth, woman can surprise 2, and (((bigtime)))...ok Men more likey over Woman...

Unless U know every man & woman in this world U can't say whos truly worse. Media or a talk show can say "men", but doing a poll of say 500 peeps is still only 500 peeps and that don't represend "ALL".

Like 4 years they just talked about dead beat Dads! Men once again...and yes there are some sorry ass fathers around. But being real I see sorry ass moms that are no better. So being a certain gender got nada-damn thang 2 do with it. U make it sound like well, when men cheat its such a (((BAD MESSED UP THING))) but when woman Cheat its oh a soft light 4 a better reason...OooLala...Please it don't matter who does it...its ALL A BAD MESSED UP THANG. feel me...
Check please~

UsexyMF said:

I think it's a result of the talk show phenomena in this country. Show after show of women who's 'husbands who weren't there for them' and then strayed...opposite shows where men are pigs and nothing more. Sally Jesse Raphael/Jenny Jones/Ricky Lake were the queens of this type of one sided, biased bullshit.
Obviously the author of this thread has been watching a little too much daytime crap shows.

I think it was said best by Eddie Murphy"men r put on earth to capture & conquer as much pussy as they possibly can,so it is in their nature & essintially not their fault." Eddie Murphy-Raw(1987)

ThaHumanBody said:

Not very helpful for the broken-hearted tho', is it!

"BECAUSE WE EAT WHUT WE LIKE"
Oh Shit!!!
i'm trippin, i thought this was about 'APPLEJACKS'
nevermind...

ThaHumanBody said:

"Oh that Ed sure is funny,..." can we talk about something else now?

Cheating helps you win the game. It's okay to cheat, if you don't get caught. If you are caught, then you are penalized for it. Those are the rules.

Curiousity killed the

chickengrease said:

That's interesting... What game is that then?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

LOL...I remember a friend of mine saying that all men cheat because "they have testicles"

Therapy said:

It's the game of love.

As Ray Parker Jr. once sang...

"Now, I know the rules of the game
You hit it once,then break away clean"

Unfortunately it IS seen as different... by women anyway. As MrChristian points out, its all a one-sided cop out.
If a guy is unfaithful, he is a bastard and the lady should dump him and move on.
If the lady is unfaithful, the guy is a bastard because he didnt give enough attention to her and she should dump him and move on. This is the crap filling womens magazines and talk shows on a daily basis. The fact that DigitalLisa said the quoted phrase without flinching shows how ingrained the ridiculous notion of it being "different" for girls really is.

It is my experience that women cheat far more often than men... they simply manage to get away with it.

TheSkinMechanic said:

I think,for the most part, men and women look at relationships in different ways.Women tend to be more "emotional",while for many men,it's all about sex.At least it's been this way for many of my friends in their relationships.As someone pointed out,men think about sex every two minutes.A man could have the finest lady in the world and STILL cheat on her (just ask Eric Benet...lol).It's strictly "a dick thing" with many men(I heard that line in some movie but I can't remember the film).

But I'm NOT trying to stereotype anybody.I'm just talking about the things I have seen with my own friends and their relationships.

DavidEye said:

Do tell about Eric Benet...I haven't heard TOO many of the rumors!

alexnvrmnd said:

Supposedly,he cheated on his BEAUTIFUL wife Halle Berry many times.He has entered a sex addiction clinic to get help and they are still together.Now,if YOU were married to someone as gorgeous as Halle,would you be messing around with other women? What's his problem?! He's lucky that she didn't kick his ass out.Lord knows she could have any man she wanted.

DavidEye said:

I'm being terrible right now fueling rumors, but I used to hear the stuff she did w/ David Justice & supposedly she's a pain in the ass. If her man is not paying attention to her 24/7, she'll bug out. David couldn't even watch a game w/o her turning off the TV & yelling @ him - that shit is neurotic & gets unbearable real fast, folks feel like they can't breathe. But that's just hearsay... that I'm helping spread

Also, the "dick thang" quote is something Bleek (Denzel) said to Clark (Cynda Williams) in Mo Betta Blues...






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[This message was edited Thu Dec 19 5:27:28 PST 2002 by CalhounSq]

"Mo Better Blues"! That's where I heard that quote

I was thinking they said it in "Boomerang".