SCNDLS said:

See reply #88.

Graycap23 said:

And he was blinded by her ass shaking on the court. You get what you pay for.

SCNDLS said:

No rebates?

Graycap23 said:

No but her price has been drastically reduced.

And it gets worse

Graycap23 said:

Hello!

the more I look at her, SHE aint evan all that cute.

He dumped her by email, but he didn't leave her at the altar. They broke up days before the wedding, but they didn't bother to tell their guests


I'm thinking the secret bf was having a hissy fit about his man getting married So Jefferson dumped old girl and paid her off.

Just my theory


Smooches;)

I wonder whats going to happen when the Spurs play at the Nets this year..she's still a cheerleader for them right?..I wonder which Silver Dancer(spurs cheerleaders) he'll have his eye on this year...

Vendors don't return deposits...he'll be payin for a while..

pippet said:

Better a loss of deposits rather than the whole $2 mill right? My opinion is this:

I agree whole heartedly in the calling off of the wedding...though I do believe that he didn't just up and decided this the night before, he'd been feeling that way for a while. Could had been cold feet, could had been another woman, could had been that he still hasn't sowed his royal oats....whatever the case is, he was smart in this aspect. But...

It was trifling in how he went about calling off the wedding. I mean emails? That a cowardly lion way of doing it. Whatever happened to face-to-face conversations? And the way the guests were notified was just awful. Some took the time to get dressed, wasted gas, time and money to arrive at the church only to be told that the wedding was off...I would had been pissed. But then gotten over it after getting a refund from the wedding gift.

Anywho, it was better he called off the wedding no matter the timing, because divorces cost a whole hell of a lot more.

So take your pick:

Loss of funds from Deposits

or

Loss of funds from Lawyers, court fees, alimony, palimony, child support, garnished wages, missed time from work, etc.

missfee said:

AMEN!

I mean, I've seen too many marriages go through painful divorces in under 3 years of marriage all because someone was too prideful to say, "i'm not ready", or "I really don't want to get married", or "we should take more time before marrying". And i've heard the excuse too many times "well we already had/have too much money spent on the wedding to call it off now" & "what would people think?"... Money is money, but the emotional breakdown and heartache is priceless. Which is better: depressed and unhappy with empty pockets, or having peace of mind with some funds lost?
[Edited 7/17/09 10:23am]

SCNDLS said:

if you read the story again he broke it off the weekend before. he didn't HIS guests until a few hours before, HER guests were told the weekend before it happened and didn't show up.

ehuffnsd said:

This info came out later. The initial story said he did it the day before the ceremony, and last I heard it was 3 days before. Regardless, my point is, that they were engaged for TWO years and he spent $2 million on the wedding already. Why all of a sudden are you cancelling, by e-mail, no less???

missfee said:

A little common sense would solve a lot of these problems.

SCNDLS said:

hearts change.

ehuffnsd said:

Who said they don't? My problem is with his timing and method. Whatever issues that caused him to do this were undoubtedly present way before now. The way he did this is spineless and full of bitchassness IMO.

SCNDLS said:

people dont' communicate anymore.

ehuffnsd said:

Some people. I've cancelled two engagements and had ZERO problems communicating that shit the minute I saw the warning signs. That's why I'll never excuse anyone who does this shit the day or week of a wedding that's been months if not years in the planning. You gotta know when to pump ya brakes.
[Edited 7/17/09 13:50pm]

missfee said:

But then why propose in the first place? I mean if he was liking the way things were, and she was liking the way things were then why not let things be? And if she had to push for the marriage then you know its doomed cuz you shouldn't have to ask some guy to ask you to marry him.


Ima roll with "HE LIKE SALAMI BETTER THAN SCALLOPS!"

DesireeNevermind said:

SCNDLS said:

what up gurl?

DesireeNevermind said:

The scallops reminded me of Painted's homey with a pants full o' clams.

SCNDLS said:

Just when I had forgot about that rank mofo. why scndls why?




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