endymion said:

hide and seek but when u find me u gotta fuck me immediately


i dont know

DanceWme said:

yeah ok, try that simple shit wit me. we done had enough walks for you to know what sah be bout. i needs me some stimulation...

Lammastide said:

I think he may be not comfortable talking to You Erin about it

As you don't need me to tell you men are fragile creatures underneath the bluster

You Erin obviously know what and how you like it and i would guess are no shrinking violet in the boffing department.

Because of this he probably thinks a) your gonna roll your eyes at his suggetion

or b) think what he suggests is a bit lame or maybe not 'hot' enough to mention.

I know you don't see it like that and only want to make the whole experience hotter

Maybe you could just vary it up and see how he reacts rather than actually asking

The good news is not all men are like this, but most just like blowjobs boffing doggystyle and talking dirty but I am sure you know this

DanceWme said:

Ahhh, well as long as it involves my dick going in something i am fine

DanceWme said:

hide and go git it!

catch a girl, freak a girl

so many names...so many memories

SirPsycho said:

:jack and coke:

JustErin said:

um...im dealing wit the same thing babes.

either you take him by the hand or accept that he's more comfortable NOT exploring his innermost perversions.


quit bein lazy

DanceWme said:

try blues music and a cigarette

SirPsycho said:

Oh sorry.

That blows.

Cinnie said:

do u like to be in control? or would u rather im in control?
up against the wall? in the shower? on the chair? wanna play hide and fuck?


u know.....

SirPsycho said:

mojitos and PATH train

endymion said:

This is an interesting take.

I'm pretty sure I've asked him about it when not in a sexual situation. I think he was just like, "it's great just the way it is".

DanceWme said:

but maybe "what do you like" isn't the way to ask, because it sounds like you're digging for preferences or "upright chair fucking" fetishes.

I think the better way to get him to try something is to ask "where do you want to..." implying a new location at the very least. and even if he misinterprets what you mean and says "in the butt", well there you go.

DanceWme said:

but maybe "what do you like" isn't the way to ask, because it sounds like you're digging for preferences or "upright chair fucking" fetishes.

I think the better way to get him to try something is to ask "where do you want to..." implying a new location at the very least. and even if he misinterprets what you mean and says "in the butt", well there you go.

DanceWme said:

2 cold caprisuns

Yes, I know you're all huge studs with huge cocks that know how to drive the ladies wild but read this and tell me if this is common with dudes.

This guy I like…like really like and have known for years is a good friend of mine and we've been fuck buddies off and on for about 6 years. Well, the very first time we slept together I asked him what he liked (totally normal thing to do, right?), and he got all awkward and answered, "I dunno, no one ever asked me that". I was shocked but whatever, I just did what I thought he would like. Well, I guess he liked it enough to stick around for all this time..hooked on the sex I suppose. However, things didn't really progress all that much in bed....don't get me wrong, he definitely knows what he's doing for sure, has lots of experience with different girls...but I think it could have gotten way hotter if he just opened up a little. He's admitted in the past that I intimidate him...but come on...how many times do we have to do it for you to let loose a little??

Anyway, we stopped sleeping together (and pretty much even seeing each other) about a year and a half ago because he is seeing someone but we went out last weekend and of course ending up having sex. It had been a while and so I asked him again what he wanted and AGAIN he said, "I dunno". I was like wtf?? Haven't you been with a gf for a year and a half and still 'I dunno'???

So I'm talking to my friend and she recently met this dude and slept with him for the first time and she asked him what he liked. He answered with, "I dunno" as well.

Ok, so seriously...is this common? Do most guys end up with girls that don't care what he wants? Like, there is no communication at all when it comes to sex? And can a guy really not know what they like/want? Or are they just holding back for some reason?

And I'm totally making it my mission to make this dude a filthy, filthy boy.

SirPsycho said:

omg

them shits still sittin there probably

Lammastide said:

But I'm not looking for him to right an essay on it. Just let me in a little.

As for the gf...ya, well...he wants out...that's for him to work out. I don't care.

Cinnie said:

ok fine.

cinnie, u want head at a mos def concert?

It's like you are probing for fetishes or special acts.

How specific do you need him to be?

DanceWme said:

but that's the premise of basically everything?

Maybe he just likes the basics and doesn't really give a damn what position or whatever details.

Cinnie said:

do u like to be in control? or would u rather im in control?
up against the wall? in the shower? on the chair? wanna play hide and fuck?


u know.....

DanceWme said:

JustErin said:

Why don't you start by telling him what you like, what makes you hot. Maybe share your fantasies. And then do stuff to him and ask him how he likes it..is it better like this..or shall I...and ladidadidadida and so on.

I've never had issues telling guys what I like or what I don't like. Maybe some straight guys get shy if a girrrl is more forward than they expect? Dunno, just guessing..

DanceWme said:

Do you like it when I do this? Do you prefer that? Hard, fast, slow? I refuse to believe that it's all just ok...or no feedback when something is a bit better that something else.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

But are lots of dudes like this?

SirPsycho said:

im gonna go to the store now

DanceWme said:

Do you like it when I do this? Do you prefer that? Hard, fast, slow? I refuse to believe that it's all just ok...or no feedback when something is a bit better that something else.

JustErin said:

MAYBE HE LIKES IT WHEN YOU AREN'T TALKING

JustErin said:

I couldn't really tell you. Let's just say that the men I hook up with don't have a problem with telling me what they like or don't like.

I think it's just a man's insecurity talking. "What if she thinks I'm a freak.." etc.

I think more men should let it all hang out. It would really help some relationships.