Soulmates? Do you believe in that stuff why or why not?

I think that there is a someone for everyone, but I wonder if there is a mission for each individual to find that person?

Paradisekiss03 said:

No.


Why would I?

Ace said:

Paradisekiss03 said:

me no, I've found so many soulmates already, that I doubt there is only ONE

No, over 6billion people in world that's too big of a haystack for me. I believe there is a type of person.

It's a beautiful idea though.

morningsong said:

the type that likes ya

Yes I absolutely believe in soulmates. They don't necessarily have to be the person you end up with either.

i also believe you can have more than one, and that it's not always a romantic linkage.

Vendetta1 said:

I believe in them, but no matter how much you believe you should be with that person, whether you find them at some point in your life or not, it doesn't mean you're going to end up with them in the long run.

sammij said:

my sister in-law's mother in-law is my soulmate

"soulmates" as a romantic concept can be tricky. Relationships require a ton of work. as a label, "soulmates" conveys to some that less or no work will be required to keep it working.

ZombieKitten said:

is that just a tricky way of saying your mom?

sammij said:

nope! my husband's sister's husband's mum

ZombieKitten said:

ahh i see

ThreadBare said:

audi

sammij said:

we totally connected in an awesome way, the master said to me later he could feel it, and he was the one that pointed out the soulmate thingie

ZombieKitten said:

i love that feeling

sammij said:

she is about 80 - it's incredible that despite a difference in generation it can happen

Nope, don't believe in it anymore.....

SHOCKADELICA1 said:

Vendetta1 said:

Thank u....

SHOCKADELICA1 said:

No matter how bad it gets, I'll never stop believing.

Some romantic bs that sets your partnership up for failure. I think we can make soul connections everyday if we're open enough. But the idea that there is 'the one' who is the other half of you somewhere is just some Mills and Boon ish designed to make you unfulfilled.

Yah of course. I see that quite a few peeps confuse a kindred spirit with a soul mate....

I didn't until i found mine. There was always something that I thought I would just have to live with that spoiled the idea in my head of a soulmate. However finding the person who's soul is aligned with your own with the same goals, dreams and ideals does not mean that they will not be things to work on or cause friction, it does however mean that you are both aligned together in working through them and staying strong.

Yes I do, and I got lucky and married mine.

I think it may be true, but were not all meant to find ours which sucks...

No. Because the very idea is ludicrous.

I DO believe people may fall in love and can't imagine there being a more perfect person out there for them, though. But that doesn't mean it was "meant to be" or that they may not have found happiness with the next person that came along.

Having been married to the same great guy (a good person) these twenty years, Yes.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soulmate

Paradisekiss03 said:

No


Out of the billions of ppl on this earth, one can have that type of connection with more than one person.

ZombieKitten said:

I agree. I think we all have a lot of soulmates and it's all about chance/fate/destiny in coming across them.