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PrintableDesireeNevermind said: paintedlady said: And TY d for the compliment.... you are the bestest
 Oh ur so welcome girl. I meant it. You are too pretty for him. Too smart too and you can and will do so much better. Dude will be okay you'll see. He met you for a reason. The reason is to fix his damn dick cuz he been going on like that for too friggin long. Then he will meet someone and it will all be good.  I would leave his ass and never think of him again!!!! DON'T MAKE ANYMORE MISTAKES LIKE THAT   | |
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paintedlady said: NastradumasKid said: Don't bother with dude.....  I feel to guilty just cutting him off completely. Shit, maybe I am too nice. 
I just feel like if he has someone to "hold his hand through this" that he'll finally get his dick situation in order. my small contribution to humanity... making dicks prettier... one dick at a time.  Sounds whorish no offense.... | |
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paintedlady said: NastradumasKid said: Don't bother with dude..... I feel to guilty just cutting him off completely. Shit, maybe I am too nice.
I just feel like if he has someone to "hold his hand through this" that he'll finally get his dick situation in order. my small contribution to humanity... making dicks prettier... one dick at a time. that will sho nuff get you into heaven. | |
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Crazy. | |
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Weirdo penis aside, you two seem quite differently invested in the relationship. And he's proven that he communicates, thinks, operates in a way that best serves him... even if it means screwing you over (no pun intended).
Cut it off. IF you can pull it off, tell him you can remain friends -- Platonic friends -- but that there will be NOTHING more. If at any time it feels all weird and awkward (and it very likely will) just taper off contact completely -- not to be mean, but to save both of you the stress. [Edited 7/11/09 14:31pm] Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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NMuzakNSoul said:  dude had this for a while i'm sure he's like 50? and then he calls back and says he'll get treated for his condition? either he's sprung on you sandra or desperate as hell. i find it kinda weird. surely you ain't the first one that suggested to him to get it checked out? a condition like that period it shouldn't take any other person to convince him. if he don't want his dick to fall off he should've visited a doctor when it first showed.I spoke to him about just that. asked him has any other women ever told him that he had a condition. He mentioned that he tried to pull it back, but that it would hurt too much, but that he didn't think anything was THAT wrong. He didn't even know the name of the condition. I am surprised his doctor never took the time to educate him about it. We spoke about possible symptoms if he leaves himself untreated. But it seems like not being able to not have sex with me was his "breaking point". I don't understand this at all.
he told me that no woman before me ever spoke to him in this way and was as open about it. A real shame too, you would think his wife would of had that convo with him years ago. IMHO, I think shame kept him like that all these years. | |
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Lammastide said: Weirdo penis aside, you two seem quite differently invested in the relationship. And he's proven that he communicates in a way that best serves him... even if it means screwing you over (no pun intended).
Cut it off. IF you can pull it off, tell him you can remain friends -- Platonic friends -- but that there will be NOTHING more. If at any time it feels all weird and awkward (and it very likely will) just cut off contact completely -- not to be mean, but to save both of you the stress. [Edited 7/11/09 14:28pm] You're right... it could only end in a negative way, he knows I won't touch him, but somehow I am sure he thinks he will be able to after he gets fixed. | |
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NastradumasKid said: paintedlady said: sigh:
I feel to guilty just cutting him off completely. Shit, maybe I am too nice.
I just feel like if he has someone to "hold his hand through this" that he'll finally get his dick situation in order. my small contribution to humanity... making dicks prettier... one dick at a time. Sounds whorish no offense.... It does... not offended at all. | |
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DesireeNevermind said: paintedlady said: sigh:
I feel to guilty just cutting him off completely. Shit, maybe I am too nice.
I just feel like if he has someone to "hold his hand through this" that he'll finally get his dick situation in order. my small contribution to humanity... making dicks prettier... one dick at a time. that will sho nuff get you into heaven.  I know dude will be in heaven once he knows he can have sex without fear of grossing someone out over his penis. | |
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paintedlady said: NMuzakNSoul said: dude had this for a while i'm sure he's like 50? and then he calls back and says he'll get treated for his condition? either he's sprung on you sandra or desperate as hell. i find it kinda weird. surely you ain't the first one that suggested to him to get it checked out? a condition like that period it shouldn't take any other person to convince him. if he don't want his dick to fall off he should've visited a doctor when it first showed.I spoke to him about just that. asked him has any other women ever told him that he had a condition. He mentioned that he tried to pull it back, but that it would hurt too much, but that he didn't think anything was THAT wrong. He didn't even know the name of the condition. I am surprised his doctor never took the time to educate him about it. We spoke about possible symptoms if he leaves himself untreated. But it seems like not being able to not have sex with me was his "breaking point". I don't understand this at all.
he told me that no woman before me ever spoke to him in this way and was as open about it. A real shame too, you would think his wife would of had that convo with him years ago. IMHO, I think shame kept him like that all these years. What The HELL!!!!  He's Sprung over you man  and sho is UG-LY!!!! | |
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paintedlady said: Lammastide said: Weirdo penis aside, you two seem quite differently invested in the relationship. And he's proven that he communicates in a way that best serves him... even if it means screwing you over (no pun intended).
Cut it off. IF you can pull it off, tell him you can remain friends -- Platonic friends -- but that there will be NOTHING more. If at any time it feels all weird and awkward (and it very likely will) just cut off contact completely -- not to be mean, but to save both of you the stress. [Edited 7/11/09 14:28pm] You're right... it could only end in a negative way, he knows I won't touch him, but somehow I am sure he thinks he will be able to after he gets fixed. Don't give him that impression, damn girl you better tell him even after this dick fixing you leave his old ugly ass. | |
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paintedlady said: NMuzakNSoul said: dude had this for a while i'm sure he's like 50? and then he calls back and says he'll get treated for his condition? either he's sprung on you sandra or desperate as hell. i find it kinda weird. surely you ain't the first one that suggested to him to get it checked out? a condition like that period it shouldn't take any other person to convince him. if he don't want his dick to fall off he should've visited a doctor when it first showed.I spoke to him about just that. asked him has any other women ever told him that he had a condition. He mentioned that he tried to pull it back, but that it would hurt too much, but that he didn't think anything was THAT wrong. He didn't even know the name of the condition. I am surprised his doctor never took the time to educate him about it. We spoke about possible symptoms if he leaves himself untreated. But it seems like not being able to not have sex with me was his "breaking point". I don't understand this at all.
he told me that no woman before me ever spoke to him in this way and was as open about it. A real shame too, you would think his wife would of had that convo with him years ago. IMHO, I think shame kept him like that all these years. I mean I don't get the breaking point either. He should've made up his mind long ago about it. There's no excuse because any unusual amount of pain for longer periods of time anywhere in the body should be looked into. It's called taking care of yourself. As for me personally I can move the skin around and it doesn't hurt, although when I was very little it would, when it was not used to it. But that is more common, above age 5 is where it should become easier, pulling the foreskin back and washing like I said before is required. But to me that is just part of hygiene. | |
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paintedlady said: Lammastide said: Weirdo penis aside, you two seem quite differently invested in the relationship. And he's proven that he communicates in a way that best serves him... even if it means screwing you over (no pun intended).
Cut it off. IF you can pull it off, tell him you can remain friends -- Platonic friends -- but that there will be NOTHING more. If at any time it feels all weird and awkward (and it very likely will) just cut off contact completely -- not to be mean, but to save both of you the stress. [Edited 7/11/09 14:28pm] You're right... it could only end in a negative way, he knows I won't touch him, but somehow I am sure he thinks he will be able to after he gets fixed. Then I'm inclined to say taper it completely off now. He doesn't need to be teasing himself like that, and you don't need the constant badgering and guilty feelings. Don't be nasty, but do it. He's a big boy. He'll be OK. [Edited 7/11/09 14:44pm] Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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I hope his dick looks better after the surgery or whatever. At least for his sake.
 maybe his wife had pussy phimosis and that's why she never noticed his fucked up dick? maybe they matched. | |
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NMuzakNSoul said: paintedlady said: I spoke to him about just that. asked him has any other women ever told him that he had a condition. He mentioned that he tried to pull it back, but that it would hurt too much, but that he didn't think anything was THAT wrong. He didn't even know the name of the condition. I am surprised his doctor never took the time to educate him about it. We spoke about possible symptoms if he leaves himself untreated. But it seems like not being able to not have sex with me was his "breaking point". I don't understand this at all.
he told me that no woman before me ever spoke to him in this way and was as open about it. A real shame too, you would think his wife would of had that convo with him years ago. IMHO, I think shame kept him like that all these years. I mean I don't get the breaking point either. He should've made up his mind long ago about it. There's no excuse because any unusual amount of pain for longer periods of time anywhere in the body should be looked into. It's called taking care of yourself. As for me personally I can move the skin around and it doesn't hurt, although when I was very little it would, when it was not used to it. But that is more common, above age 5 is where it should become easier, pulling the foreskin back and washing like I said before is required. But to me that is just part of hygiene. I'm glad you take proper care of yourself, dude is 50 something years old and can't keep his dick together. And now he wants some choocie after it's fixed??? [Edited 7/11/09 14:45pm] | |
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DesireeNevermind said: I hope his dick looks better after the surgery or whatever. At least for his sake.
maybe his wife had pussy phimosis and that's why she never noticed his fucked up dick? maybe they matched.Maybe she felt bad for him,  I don't know it's still gross even after it's fix you first impressions last forever, | |
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paintedlady said: DesireeNevermind said: SAY WHAT?????    He told me that he would do the conditional thing..... we had a long discussion. I think it was on of the craziest conversations I ever had with any man. I am in total disbelief. Painted, I'm thru witchu gurl. He ain't got no damn NECK and a pants full o' CLAMS!!!!  Why in the hell is you answering the phone??? | |
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paintedlady said: DesireeNevermind said: oh lord are you going back to him?  he just tryna sweet talk you into getting them draws. He a phimosis playa! Don't do it gurl!! Run!!!!No, he knows I won't touch him with that condition. I left him a detailed message. He told me that he would do anything for me.... he told me that he scheduled an appointment to see the Dr. about his condition. He also said that he is cool with the fact that I didn't want to have sex with him in that condition.... this is why he looking into fixing it.
WTH do I do now? I feel like a heel if I diss completely. The man said he would do a taffy pull on his dick to please me. What about the hump on his back? Bitch, you crazy. Did I not teach you nuffin??? | |
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paintedlady said: DesireeNevermind said: Dayum! Girl how this mofo fall in love like that? Well, if I were you I would be a friend to him while he has the procedure because it can't possibly be easy to deal with. The fact still remains that he had a long time and ample opportunity to fix it. Who knows, maybe you are worth fixing it for. I still wouldn't take him as a boyfriend. You are too pretty and can do better. Be his friend and that's it. 
If the dick look pretty down the road and if he's still being a gentleman about it and if you haven't found the Denzel that you deserve then maybe you could try him out. Maybe. shit I don't know. I couldn't fuck a broken dick or even a once broken dick unless I never knew about it in the first place. but that's just my silly azz. I'm thinking the same thing... I will help design his garden and go to the wine/jazz thing he has scheduled for August for wine tasting. But he knows I won't have sex with him. I think I lost my desire for him completely, but I will still support him during his "transformation". Who knows, maybe in the future I can get him a new girlfriend. I know plenty of women that wouldn't mind helping him spend his money. Wait . . . he got money? | |
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NMuzakNSoul said: dude had this for a while i'm sure he's like 50? and then he calls back and says he'll get treated for his condition? either he's sprung on you sandra or desperate as hell. i find it kinda weird. surely you ain't the first one that suggested to him to get it checked out? a condition like that period it shouldn't take any other person to convince him. if he don't want his dick to fall off he should've visited a doctor when it first showed. All that's the double-truf, Ruf! | |
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paintedlady said: NastradumasKid said: Don't bother with dude..... I feel to guilty just cutting him off completely. Shit, maybe I am too nice.
I just feel like if he has someone to "hold his hand through this" that he'll finally get his dick situation in order. my small contribution to humanity... making dicks prettier... one dick at a time. Sorry, but David Copperfield and Criss Angel working on the case 24/7 could never make that shit "pretty" I say run for the hills cuz he's obviously got urshers.  | |
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DesireeNevermind said: I hope his dick looks better after the surgery or whatever. At least for his sake.
maybe his wife had pussy phimosis and that's why she never noticed his fucked up dick? maybe they matched. | |
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Lammastide said: paintedlady said: You're right... it could only end in a negative way, he knows I won't touch him, but somehow I am sure he thinks he will be able to after he gets fixed. Then I'm inclined to say taper it completely off now. He doesn't need to be teasing himself like that, and you don't need the constant badgering and guilty feelings. Don't be nasty, but do it. He's a big boy. He'll be OK. [Edited 7/11/09 14:44pm] I agree. TY | |
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NMuzakNSoul said: paintedlady said: I spoke to him about just that. asked him has any other women ever told him that he had a condition. He mentioned that he tried to pull it back, but that it would hurt too much, but that he didn't think anything was THAT wrong. He didn't even know the name of the condition. I am surprised his doctor never took the time to educate him about it. We spoke about possible symptoms if he leaves himself untreated. But it seems like not being able to not have sex with me was his "breaking point". I don't understand this at all.
he told me that no woman before me ever spoke to him in this way and was as open about it. A real shame too, you would think his wife would of had that convo with him years ago. IMHO, I think shame kept him like that all these years. I mean I don't get the breaking point either. He should've made up his mind long ago about it. There's no excuse because any unusual amount of pain for longer periods of time anywhere in the body should be looked into. It's called taking care of yourself. As for me personally I can move the skin around and it doesn't hurt, although when I was very little it would, when it was not used to it. But that is more common, above age 5 is where it should become easier, pulling the foreskin back and washing like I said before is required. But to me that is just part of hygiene. Exactly. See, if you got issues, then take care of them. What is so hard about that? My goodness! so good to know that many men care about thiers bodies that ones that don't. shit, he wouldn't appreciate me coming at him with a coochie full of stinky cheese, he'd probably want to bitch slap me and call the police. | |
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SCNDLS said: paintedlady said: sigh:
I feel to guilty just cutting him off completely. Shit, maybe I am too nice.
I just feel like if he has someone to "hold his hand through this" that he'll finally get his dick situation in order. my small contribution to humanity... making dicks prettier... one dick at a time. Sorry, but David Copperfield and Criss Angel working on the case 24/7 could never make that shit "pretty" I say run for the hills cuz he's obviously got urshers.  | |
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SCNDLS said: paintedlady said: He told me that he would do the conditional thing..... we had a long discussion. I think it was on of the craziest conversations I ever had with any man. I am in total disbelief. Painted, I'm thru witchu gurl. He ain't got no damn NECK and a pants full o' CLAMS!!!! Why in the hell is you answering the phone??? I was curious. | |
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SCNDLS said: paintedlady said: No, he knows I won't touch him with that condition. I left him a detailed message. He told me that he would do anything for me.... he told me that he scheduled an appointment to see the Dr. about his condition. He also said that he is cool with the fact that I didn't want to have sex with him in that condition.... this is why he looking into fixing it.
WTH do I do now? I feel like a heel if I diss completely. The man said he would do a taffy pull on his dick to please me. What about the hump on his back? Bitch, you crazy. Did I not teach you nuffin??? | |
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paintedlady said: NMuzakNSoul said: I mean I don't get the breaking point either. He should've made up his mind long ago about it. There's no excuse because any unusual amount of pain for longer periods of time anywhere in the body should be looked into. It's called taking care of yourself. As for me personally I can move the skin around and it doesn't hurt, although when I was very little it would, when it was not used to it. But that is more common, above age 5 is where it should become easier, pulling the foreskin back and washing like I said before is required. But to me that is just part of hygiene. Exactly. See, if you got issues, then take care of them. What is so hard about that? My goodness! so good to know that many men care about thiers bodies that ones that don't. shit, he wouldn't appreciate me coming at him with a coochie full of stinky cheese, he'd probably want to bitch slap me and call the police. Nah. He probably like it and ask "do chili fries go wit dat cheese?" | |
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SCNDLS said: paintedlady said: I'm thinking the same thing... I will help design his garden and go to the wine/jazz thing he has scheduled for August for wine tasting. But he knows I won't have sex with him. I think I lost my desire for him completely, but I will still support him during his "transformation". Who knows, maybe in the future I can get him a new girlfriend. I know plenty of women that wouldn't mind helping him spend his money. Wait . . . he got money? STOP IT!!!!! I can't breathe I'm laughing so hard! LMAO!!! | |
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paintedlady said: SCNDLS said: Painted, I'm thru witchu gurl. He ain't got no damn NECK and a pants full o' CLAMS!!!! Why in the hell is you answering the phone??? I was curious.Once again, clearly posted warning signs that you're ignoring. If you had stopped with the neck and hunchback you wouldn't have never known about the madness in his boxer briefs.
Don't get yer  killed trynna be curious.  | |
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