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Thread started 07/06/09 6:41pm

Paradisekiss03

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Was this mean of me?

So this weekend I was on my way to get my hair cut and styled and on my way to the shopping center this guy that had to be atleast 10+ older than me with a mini mullet ill was like, "Hey, sweetheart where you going wanna stop and talk to me?" (He seemed like a pushy car sales guy.
I say:"No thanks"
He says:"Where you going?"
I say:"I got some errands to do"
He says: "When you come back out you want to stop by and talk to me?"
I say: "No. don't think about it" walked past him without looking back.

Was I too mean?
I really like spicy food. I mostly put Jalapenos on a lot of my food.

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Una Vez Y Otra Mas!
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Reply #1 posted 07/06/09 6:42pm

CarrieMpls

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NO.

You were not too mean.

There is nothing mean about saying NO.
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Reply #2 posted 07/06/09 6:43pm

Paradisekiss03

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at first i was kinda worried that the guy would still be out there or he would be some weirdo.
I really like spicy food. I mostly put Jalapenos on a lot of my food.

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Una Vez Y Otra Mas!
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Reply #3 posted 07/06/09 6:44pm

CarrieMpls

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Paradisekiss03 said:

at first i was kinda worried that the guy would still be out there or he would be some weirdo.


I hate that. I hate that feeling and I hate knowing that all women have that feeling, like, 10 times a week.

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Reply #4 posted 07/06/09 6:47pm

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CarrieMpls said:

Paradisekiss03 said:

at first i was kinda worried that the guy would still be out there or he would be some weirdo.


I hate that. I hate that feeling and I hate knowing that all women have that feeling, like, 10 times a week.

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and that we regularly think about taking a different route back "just in case"
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Reply #5 posted 07/06/09 6:53pm

CarrieMpls

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ZombieKitten said:

CarrieMpls said:



I hate that. I hate that feeling and I hate knowing that all women have that feeling, like, 10 times a week.

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and that we regularly think about taking a different route back "just in case"


exactly.
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Reply #6 posted 07/06/09 7:04pm

Lammastide

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You could at least have given him one kiss. hmph!
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μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ
πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν
τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.”
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Reply #7 posted 07/06/09 7:04pm

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Kidding.

No. You weren't mean at all.
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Reply #8 posted 07/06/09 7:27pm

johnart

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Anyone with a mullet deserves much worse.
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Reply #9 posted 07/06/09 9:06pm

psychodelicide

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No you were not mean at all.
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Reply #10 posted 07/06/09 10:38pm

sonic

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Hell No!

he seemed pretty pushy! I would have said ..see this ring?...IM MARRIED, that would have shut him up fast~

i havent seen a mullet in years...where do you live...hicksville...lol
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Reply #11 posted 07/06/09 10:44pm

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Paradisekiss03 said:

at first i was kinda worried that the guy would still be out there or he would be some weirdo.


No you were not mean. He's a "stranger" you don't know him. And you don't know if he will try to harm you in any way.

Next time don't say anything just ignore those types and keep on walking.
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Reply #12 posted 07/07/09 1:19am

Aelis

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No
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Reply #13 posted 07/07/09 1:44am

angelcat

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absolutly not. it sounded like you were pretty polite in that you didn't completly blank him. be no harm keeping an eye out when you pass that way again to see if he works around there. alternating routes is a good idea.
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Reply #14 posted 07/07/09 2:54am

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Not mean at all, I wouldn't give it any more thought if I were you.
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Reply #15 posted 07/07/09 3:47am

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No, you weren't mean.

If you'd said 'no... And get a fuckin haircut you freaky fuckin weirdo!' that would have been mean... Funny and accurate, but mean.
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Reply #16 posted 07/07/09 4:02am

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Paradisekiss03 said:


I say: "No. don't think about it" walked past him without looking back.


I guess I'm too nice lol This is the only thing I wouldn't have said. I'd prefer, "Can't, sorry" or "Have a good day" - something to let him know it ain't happening & this convo is over, without being the slightest bit mean. I dunno, their persistence only bugs me if it's rude or lude shrug



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Reply #17 posted 07/07/09 4:07am

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CarrieMpls said:

Paradisekiss03 said:

at first i was kinda worried that the guy would still be out there or he would be some weirdo.


I hate that. I hate that feeling and I hate knowing that all women have that feeling, like, 10 times a week.

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I know. Although for me I realized that it's a U.S. thing mostly (with random men trying to stop and talk to you). No one ever says anything to me here in Holland. lol Ever.
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Reply #18 posted 07/07/09 4:13am

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ZombieKitten said:

CarrieMpls said:



I hate that. I hate that feeling and I hate knowing that all women have that feeling, like, 10 times a week.

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and that we regularly think about taking a different route back "just in case"

eek Damn, really? confused I don't feel that way very often at all, only if they're pushy or rude which is rare shrug Then again, maybe my height curbs some of that shit lol
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Reply #19 posted 07/07/09 4:27am

purplesweat

I was waiting for the "mean" part to appear and it never did lol

You weren't mean at all, just straight forward and to the point, as anyone facing a pushy bastard should be. thumbs up!
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Reply #20 posted 07/07/09 4:32am

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minneapolisgenius said:

CarrieMpls said:



I hate that. I hate that feeling and I hate knowing that all women have that feeling, like, 10 times a week.

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I know. Although for me I realized that it's a U.S. thing mostly (with random men trying to stop and talk to you). No one ever says anything to me here in Holland. lol Ever.


That's it! I'm moving!
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Reply #21 posted 07/07/09 4:34am

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CarrieMpls said:

Paradisekiss03 said:

at first i was kinda worried that the guy would still be out there or he would be some weirdo.


I hate that. I hate that feeling and I hate knowing that all women have that feeling, like, 10 times a week.

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Not all women feel that way even once a day.

Feel better now? lol
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Reply #22 posted 07/07/09 4:43am

Dayclear

No. I think it was smart and you were not nasty as a lot of women would have been I would have been annoyed and let him know it, because if I say NO the first time I don't like to be asked again!
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Reply #23 posted 07/07/09 6:45am

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CarrieMpls said:

minneapolisgenius said:


I know. Although for me I realized that it's a U.S. thing mostly (with random men trying to stop and talk to you). No one ever says anything to me here in Holland. lol Ever.


That's it! I'm moving!

lol It is kind of nice actually. Men are not extroverts here and I hardly ever hear them yelling things to women or even trying to talk to them in the street.

I guess construction workers though. I think they're the same everywhere. lol
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Reply #24 posted 07/07/09 6:46am

JustErin

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Man, you guys all have it easy. I wish dudes that harassed me were that polite and nice.
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Reply #25 posted 07/07/09 6:49am

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johnart said:

Anyone with a mullet deserves much worse.



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He deserved a kick in the bollox at the least! biggrin
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Reply #26 posted 07/07/09 9:09am

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lol You were too nice, imo. If that were me, the convo would have been more like:

Him: "Hey, sweetheart where you going wanna stop and talk to me?"
Me: Keep walking while shooting daggers from my eyes and ignoring him.
He says:"Where you going?"
I say:"Away from you, asshole."
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Reply #27 posted 07/07/09 9:54am

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Man, women are uptight. lol
It's what you make it.
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Reply #28 posted 07/07/09 10:05am

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It's a shame women have to feel like they're walking on eggshells just to walk down the street. Too many times guys get overly offended by being rejected. Seems like more and more guys feel a woman is obligated to talk to them just because.
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Reply #29 posted 07/07/09 10:26am

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morningsong said:

It's a shame women have to feel like they're walking on eggshells just to walk down the street. Too many times guys get overly offended by being rejected. Seems like more and more guys feel a woman is obligated to talk to them just because.

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