Let's twist general society's perspective and look at it from this perspective:

I wonder why there's a stigma where women are concerned?
Aren't the men that throw the lines and get the women easy jus the same?

I mean, they throw the lines at a female passin by,
both of them may not even kno each other,
some women fall for it
(alot of women use that as a way to get the guy too - pretendin to "fall" for the line ),
jus like that u get into bed (or bush or wherever) wit someone u jus met.

But why do women generally get talked down and men get and praised

If u wanna call her a whore/slut afterward, you're on the same boat stupid!

Back to my questions:
Why there's a stigma where 'easy' women are concerned?
Aren't the men that throw the lines easy jus the same?

It’s the madonna/whore thing. There are the women to sex up and the women to marry and never the ‘twain shall meet.

CarrieMpls said:

I'm BOTH damnit

Mach said:

So is my Missus

many a man dont know how to behave thats what it is...
peeps expect a female to be all hott and shitt when they dont relally know what to do...and then when they do meet a true freak..they talk shit and gossip and spread rumers and speak bad and backstab some nice females..that s not how I roll cuz you gotta appreshiate when girls are down for whatever in these times of crisis...peeps gottta celebrate and have some fun..like James Brown and Bambataa used to say back in the day...PEACE UNITY LOVE and HAVING FUN..

That s what it all boils down to..fuck the economy man...shit was bad under Jimmy Carter, too...

most dudes dont know what to do...how to treat a lady right...they just lazy and expect...greedy mofos better step their game up ....these days yuo gots to show what you can do..

Dudes is bithces too...they more slutty then the females sometimes butt folks kinda programed into thinking it s different with men..

they the ones who dont know how to generate HEAT !





its cuz yuo gotta unleash the freek in em ..you gotta bring it out of her.don´t just excpect shitt to happen BE AbOUT it...fuckk her reall HARD..grab an spanKK that azz an dont forget 2 slap it evry once in a while and then some more til it turns red...increase the bllood flow in her azz and her pussy delta..slap gently then ruffer and ruffer whille you be fuckkin her good an deep and keep telling her what you gon na do to her...and then really DO IT and dont jjust tallk.

let your cock do the talkin ..grab her azz and pump pump pump man..



and if ehr pussy s good then lick it and keep fukin again man..let her FEEL that you a freakk and that shes af reekk...SMOKe tha buddha

lick her while she be smoknig a phatty....lick her while shes inhaling DEEP..thats gon put her inthe mood slowly, surely butt inevitably....she gon get HOTT ...and then bring out the freak in her ..freak her ruff..watch a couple of porn flics while you fukkin so she can see she aint the only nasty freak out there..watch some justin Slayer pipe layer shitt...that gets lots of chikcs reall wet and horny and hott in a heartbeat man...just give it a shot and see for yoself.and dont you talk no weird shitt...keep it real..do what you say N say what you do...you get the point...
I once read this book where one of the portaggonists said sumfin likke: put your finger in your girls mouth while you be sexxin her an d see if she suckss on it..if she does..then shes a TRUE FREAK..she pure..pure freek..nasty..

and tell her about this little story from the book BEFORE you Give it to her and fuckk her and remind her..she gonna feel so dirty.cuz she knoww she´d like to suck on it while getting it..HA HA lol lick he r a bit in betwween your thrusts let her know you got the HOTTS for her pussy..make her feeel like she got the sweetest pussy even if it aint so..that how you unleash the beast in her..Fuckk away her shame her inhibishions..her feers...make her feel LIKE A NATURAL WOMAN...likke that chacka kahn song.HAHAH

ask her whether she´d likke her pussy eaten by some girl youknow..tell her that youknow she into some kinky Shitt...bring another girl just to take care of her

whisper shitt while bonin her..an keep spankinh that azz

youll be surprised how quick she gon warm up to not just Dirty talk but lots of other kkinky shitt...nasty.. HA H aH A HA HA

butt dontß forget to smoke that budda man

shitt is more relaxed when you good.

ha

As long as we have fun i dont care bout her reputashion, i dont give a shit about what he say she say....life is short mawfukkcas...CELEBRATE !!
Spank it...touch it ...rub it....kiss..it..lick it...and then spank it again..

and make her spank you back.
I like women who know what they want ..what the y feel ..and you gotta make thenm feel comfortable ..nice...and comfortabel..they gotta feel that just like them, you down for whatever...aint no shame in my game..aint nuttin better than maxin and relaxin inthis life cuz life is short..

why waste time and energy gossiping about females when you could be their best friedn?
that s just stupid..


butt you know ,,hypocrisy rules these days

Heres some interesiting read that puts what i wroote in a nutshell

kinda long though...butt nice read anyway...

dont yuo worry bout them ignoreant fools..soon, folks will realize we living in foolish times..the light is near ..ha haha





Stereotypes that just won't go away

By Arielle Angel
Krop High School

A high school student who has already slept with 10 people enters a new school. What people will say about this person's sexual experiences depends on one factor: gender.
If this person is a male, he will be admired by his fellow males, and perhaps even desired by females. Guys will respect him and girls will be impressed by his experience. He is generally referred to as "the player."
However, if this person is a girl she will most likely be subjected to ridicule and disrespect by her peers. Males will try to use her, hoping that they can get her into bed, and females will despise her out of disgust, or in some cases, jealousy. She is generally referred to as "the slut."
"It's a huge double standard. If you're a guy and you sleep with everyone you're automatically cool. If you're a girl and you sleep with everyone you're automatically a slut," said Bianca Penaloza, a senior at Coral Gables High in South Miami.
This player vs. slut philosophy is familiar to most students, and although no one girl deserves to be treated cheaply, the media repeatedly emits messages that this dangerous double standard is correct and should not be challenged.
"What the media is trying to tell us is that if girls are 'bad' or sexually promiscuous it's OK to punish them," said Kim Walsh-Childers, a professor of journalism at the University of Florida who studies the portrayal of women in the media. "They're saying, 'we have no sympathy for you.' "
Although the media want women to be pure, they also want them to be sexy. Advertisements, television shows and movies often only feature overly thin, impossibly beautiful women to promote their product or program. In a 1986 study by Silverstein, Peterson, Perdue and Kelly, 69 percent of female television characters are thin and only 5 percent are overweight. These contradictory images leave some teenage girls confused about which path is the norm, and how each girl should behave.
Men translate only one message from the media: you are not cool if you don't have sex.
"I cannot think of one male hero or main character who is not sexually active," Walsh-Childers said. "Except if the character is a nerd. They want you to think that the only boys not having sex are the nerds who cannot get anyone to sleep with them."
Therefore, it is no wonder that men are praised for their sexual achievements. "Everybody has a fantasy about having all the girls, so other guys look up to guys who sleep around," said Bill Ferrara, senior at Gulf Breeze High .
Women still cannot win. With two pictures of how a woman should behave -- seductive or chaste - teenage girls are set up to feel shameful no matter which image they choose to mimic.
For example, Bill, the same teenager that just related that guys look up to the "player" figure in school, said, "Every guy wants a girl who's pure."
Kim Davis, a junior at Gulf Breeze High, said, "In school, people look down on girls who are considered trashy. But girls also get ragged on for being too much of a prude. Guys will say, 'Oh, why can't you just loosen up and have a little fun.'"
The 1996 slasher film parody, Scream, is a prime example of the attitudes towards women that people deem "slutty." Tatum, the provocative and sexually promiscuous best-friend character, is one of the first to be murdered by a pair of psychotic teenage killers.
As Randy, another Scream character points out, to survive a typical slasher movie a girl should never have sex. Only the virgin survives. This theme is also carried out through other horror movies like Halloween.
Meanwhile, the supposed Scream "good girl" survivor and virgin, Sidney, is a model of beauty and sexiness. Her dress is at times revealing and she fits the American beauty standard. She keeps her boyfriend in sexual frustration while never actually giving up her virginity.
Ironically, the same purity that women are expected to posses is also what potentially makes them unattractive and boring.
James Bond films also illustrate the difference between sexually active men and sexually active women. The plot of many Bond films center around the fact that he sleeps with six or seven different women throughout the film. "He is rewarded for this behavior, not punished," Walsh-Childers said.
The media also sends other double standards into the minds of women. When one pictures the physical appearance of the so-called perfect woman, there are not a great deal of physical characteristics to choose from, Walsh-Childers said. The media only sends women one type of woman to aspire to look like. They send the supermodel image; tall, thin, with flawless skin and hair.
Men, on the other hand, can look any number of ways and still fit into the male beauty standard because the media does not send audiences only one type of man, Walsh-Childers said. "There is a broader range of what is accepted to be a sex symbol as a male. You can be older, heavier, or bald."
Many young women believe older men such as Robert Redford, Sean Connery, and Richard Gere are viable sex symbols. It is not as common for men to find sexual appeal in older women.
Music videos are a very common place where women are objectified while men are heroes. In music videos by male artists, they depict a story which is commonly a male fantasy. In the video, the singer always gets the girl. Moreover, the women are not presented as much more than sexual objects. They are always willing and interested in sex, and that is the only function they serve. They never reject the male, "no matter how unattractive they are, no matter how much of a jerk they are," said Walsh-Childers.
Television has an enormous influence on men and women perceptions in society. In soap operas, the seductive women are often also the villains. The audience is drawn to be attracted to her, but at the same time, hate her for her enticing qualities. Other studies show that there are more employed male personas on television than there are women.
The thoughts and ideas transmitted through television, movies, music videos and advertisements are designed to be easily soaked up by the minds of Americans everywhere, especially teens. Walsh-Childers said these double standards -- which have been blamed for damaging female self-esteem and self-image -- did not originate in the media, but the media reinforces them.
"Women are no longer going to have any self-esteem, which could lead to things like drugs and suicide. Girls may end up having sex for all the wrong reasons," said junior Krista Cole of Bloomingdale High School in Valrico.
[Edited 7/6/09 13:37pm]
[Edited 7/6/09 14:02pm]

JayJai said:

ignorant peeps just tooo uptight that s all ..thats what it is..



see what Ron JEremy has to say:



Credo: Ron Jeremy, porn star, 56

Interview by Adam Jacques

Sunday, 5 July 2009



Jeremy says: 'My biggest fear is that I'll be in a scene and I'll suck, and people will say, 'Just look at that flaccid noodle.''

ROBERT YAGER

Jeremy says: 'My biggest fear is that I'll be in a scene and I'll suck, and people will say, 'Just look at that flaccid noodle.''



I believe...

There's a lot of pressure to perform when you're the best-known [porn] actor in the world; my biggest fear is that I'll be in a scene and I'll suck, and people will say, "Just look at that flaccid noodle." I'm getting older and it feels more of a strain, but I'm still enjoying doing the scenes.

Humans were not designed to be physically monogamous. In Greek and Roman times they weren't; it's a Judaeo-Christian thing. But I do believe we're meant to be emotionally monogamous.

I wanted to act in theatre, but it's difficult to make a living off that sort of work. I got approached to do adult films and the money was good, the travel was amazing, and, of course, let's not forget the lovely ladies...

There's recreational sex and there's making love. One is having fun. The other is emotionally involved; caressing, holding, cuddling. Guys like recreational sex because we're dogs, but women are catching up – toy boys didn't exist when I started out.

Being in porn is tough on a relationship. Girls I date have to be able to separate sex from romance and understand that the girls I sleep with don't mean anything. But it goes both ways; I'll say you can mess around with whoever you want while I'm out of town, as long as there's no walking through parks holding hands or candlelight dinners.

Cherry [my pet tortoise] is very much like my daughter; I'm very close with her. I've had her eight years. She's not the brightest, but she knows me and we cuddle.

If you have a dream, go chase it, but make sure you have something else to fall back on – I got a teaching licence in case the acting didn't work out.

'One-Eyed Monster' (18), Ron Jeremy's latest mainstream film, is out on DVD now



See ? monogammy is whats messing with most dudes heads..

RudyIsBackForGood said:

Ahh that old classic.....I can't!!!!!

BS, you don't want to.