ZombieKitten said:

I agree. I think we all have a lot of soulmates and it's all about chance/fate/destiny in coming across them.

As in one pre-destined person for each human being on earth?

Poppycock.

Deep soul connections that feel more amazing and beautiful than anything you could have ever imagined, sometimes with more than one person over a lifetime?

Absolutely.

My husband and I met in a completely unexpected way, and whether it was fated or not doesn't really matter to me. All I know is, every day I really and truly cannot wait to get home to him, and I feel like the luckiest broad on earth.

Either you cling or you don't, sometimes you cling even better, most of the time nüt at all, and in very very few cases you cling together so very well that everything gets better with time, not worse.

Why need a definition for someone like that? Of all the people in the world there may be a few you could spend the rest of your life with, but there is no such thing as a 'soulmate'. You can call them so, but they will always remain individuals with their own body and mind. You may complete each other in a very positive way, but that also requires mutual respect, love, sensitiveness and ambitions. It doesn't just happen.

Dave1992 said:

I agree with this.

PunkMistress said:

So, am I cute now?

As in one pre-destined person for each human being on earth?

Poppycock.

Deep soul connections that feel more amazing and beautiful than anything you could have ever imagined, sometimes with more than one person over a lifetime?

Absolutely.

My husband and I met in a completely unexpected way, and whether it was fated or not doesn't really matter to me. All I know is, every day I really and truly cannot wait to get home to him, and I feel like the luckiest broad on earth.

PunkMistress said:

I agree and feel the same way


still

24+ yrs and counting ...

Dave1992 said:

Nah.

PunkMistress said:

As in one pre-destined person for each human being on earth?

Poppycock.

Deep soul connections that feel more amazing and beautiful than anything you could have ever imagined, sometimes with more than one person over a lifetime?

Absolutely.

My husband and I met in a completely unexpected way, and whether it was fated or not doesn't really matter to me. All I know is, every day I really and truly cannot wait to get home to him, and I feel like the luckiest broad on earth.

Soulmates maybe, but just one soulmate that is "the one"? nah...

Tremolina said:

I tend to agree. And I don't think there's necessarily a romantic -- or even a benevolent -- bond between these people. I've met certain lovers, platonic friends and rivals (nemeses, I guess) with whom I've shared way uncanny pairings.
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Lammastide said:

So, they could be soulmates, according to your theory...

Yah of course. I see that quite a few peeps confuse a kindred spirit with a soul mate....

Paradisekiss03 said:

...this is how it goes...everyone gets 4chances to find ur match..it has to do with the elements..water,fire,air,earth...of the 4..3are soulmates and one is the twin-flame....what i know about this subject is this...the soulmates are basically jerks..i mean u will be put to hell with the soulmates...either u go through hell with them or they themselves put u through it...but the twin-flame is a bit different...that person is you and you are that person..now it can be easy to tell the difference...sometimes u look the same..like in the face..even though u physically are total opposites...like he can be 6ft tall and she is 5ft tall.....the concept is like when twinz are born....u are in the same"womb" persay..but then when u are "born"...u become long-lost...and u have to find each other...the ONLY WAY u find each other...is if u both are looking at the same time....if both the twin-flames are on the same mission u will find each other...and only if the twin-flame is NOT with the other 3 soul-mates..
.
...look it is very complex..but very simple..an oxymoron...
..it is also a long process...and u really have to be mentally connected to find each other..because u are already spiritually connected..but in the spirit world time doesn't exist...so i yr here is like a sec there...
.
..i can honestly say i have already found the 3soul-mates..they are easier to meet...but i know the difference and they ARE NOT my twin-flame..
...i want my twin-flame..
..mzsexybaby

PunkMistress said:

..i'm not a dude and yes i am serious...that was one of the 1st things i ever studied..something that i wanted to know about..
..mzsexybaby'DO U MIND?'

Paradisekiss03 said:

...this is how it goes...everyone gets 4chances to find ur match..it has to do with the elements..water,fire,air,earth...of the 4..3are soulmates and one is the twin-flame....what i know about this subject is this...the soulmates are basically jerks..i mean u will be put to hell with the soulmates...either u go through hell with them or they themselves put u through it...but the twin-flame is a bit different...that person is you and you are that person..now it can be easy to tell the difference...sometimes u look the same..like in the face..even though u physically are total opposites...like he can be 6ft tall and she is 5ft tall.....the concept is like when twinz are born....u are in the same"womb" persay..but then when u are "born"...u become long-lost...and u have to find each other...the ONLY WAY u find each other...is if u both are looking at the same time....if both the twin-flames are on the same mission u will find each other...and only if the twin-flame is NOT with the other 3 soul-mates..
.
...look it is very complex..but very simple..an oxymoron...
..it is also a long process...and u really have to be mentally connected to find each other..because u are already spiritually connected..but in the spirit world time doesn't exist...so i yr here is like a sec there...
.
..i can honestly say i have already found the 3soul-mates..they are easier to meet...but i know the difference and they ARE NOT my twin-flame..
...i want my twin-flame..
..mzsexybaby

I believe in soulmates but not in the romantic sense. To me a soulmate is someone with whom you have a very strong kinship and all the qualities you each posess seem to compliment each other. Your soulmate could be a friend, lover, relative. Its about extreme compatibility that's all. Putting a romantic spin on it is kind of silly since romance in and of itself is more a construct than a reality and is often skewed by lust and therefore fleeting with time.