CarrieMpls said:

The red hair and the glasses do it for me.

luv4u said:

sorry, I didn't realize that was you!! :blush:

JustErin said:

I hear what you’re saying. Kind of. But I still don’t like it. It could be the “hottest” man I’ve ever seen, if he’s yelling at me from across the street I’m gonna find it gross and tacky. And the bus guy was super sleazy as well.

I think it adds another dimension as well when the guys are in groups and I am alone. There’s an intimidation factor that’s downright creepy.

I just don’t think being left alone is asking too much.

endymion said:

Exactly.

A 'Hey. love your hair' or whatever is kinda cute to me. "I wanna fuck your hot pussy' is obviously not cute at all.

CarrieMpls said:

But you'd stand there and wait for him while he crossed the street to come talk to you, wouldn't you?

MuthaFunka said:

It all depends on what they are saying/yelling.

MuthaFunka said:

Actually, no. But that could just be me.

JustErin said:

If a hot dude was saying "Hey! Damn! You're fine as fuck! Great-ass body, too! Let me come over there and talk to you for a bit!"

MuthaFunka said:

Not attractive.

Fail.

JustErin said:

MuthaFunka said:

I'd rather wait out for hot and not gross personality wise. Hot guys are everywhere, you don't have to just jump on the first one that comes along.
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JustErin said:

Ok, cool enough. Women do see it a different way.

JustErin said:

Exactly.


If anything, Ace's approach is most apt to work. Ask me about something I'm reading.

Although even then, if the guy's not cute I'll be annoyed I was bothered and if he is it won't matter 'cause I'm shy and won't be able to talk anyway.


There's a reason I'm single, folks.

CarrieMpls said:

I think it has to relate in some way (the line that is) to the person or situation

If you are just gonna roll out some line you always use it's gonna come off insincere

We all want to feel a bit unique and if you feel like this is the 19th time the line has been used that day it's not happening

There are quite a few men who actually do think like: Hey, if I try it a hundred times surely one of those chicks would fall for it! And they are probably right, if they would try a hundred times. I couldn't even begin to try five.

I don't have any pick up lines, never have, never will. I tried a couple when I was a teenager but I just felt like an idiot. Usually I take a look first to see what she might like to talk about or I just start a random conversation, crack a joke or make a compliment.

And sometimes I look a girl down to check if she can handle that. Usually they can't, but some can. Those are the best.

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I agree with some people here. Some ladies will fall for it. SO I guess men are like "hey why not try"

When i was 19, a guy came into my job and just walked up to me and handed me his phone and told me to put my number in it. I guess he was expecting me to say no because he's tried it before and got turned down. But I took the phone and put my REAL number in it. He looked at me and said "for real" . I think its because I always find a guy with a little confidence (not cockiness) cute!

Too bad when he called me he asked for the wrong girl but

DanceWme said:

Eh, semantics.

MuthaFunka said:

DanceWme said:

MuthaFunka said:

You are so right!

I don't really understand what "falling for it" means?

Women fall for what?

JustErin said:

some guys will try to run game.
like some of them have certain lines they'd say. and certain ways they will say it to make it seem believable to the lady..u know like she's something special.
something different from every other woman they hit on.

CarrieMpls said:

Maybe you should start out as friends with a guy first. Which never works for me, but it might for you.

Dayclear said:

DanceWme said:

Yep.

sextonseven said:

That's how I got together with my first serious boyfriend.

And that might work again if I knew any straight men. Wanna be my friend?

DanceWme said:

I don't think women fall for anything to be honest. They just make the choice to play along, that's all.

MuthaFunka said:

dont make no damn sense

but then there's the lady who will laugh and smile. Keep it shorty and breezy. And keep it movin' . Thats the woman who is hip to the shit men like to talk.

Then there is the woman who's gonna check the man out from head to toe. See what kinda clothes he got on. What kinda shoes he's wearin'. Trynna estimate in her head how much money she can work out of him. Thats the golddigger

Then its the woman thats either hip to the game or not hip to it. Either way he just made her feel special so..... lol



Now thats a 2 out of 3 chance he's gonna get some play

JustErin said:

No, SOME women DO fall for anything and it's not them "just playing along". Trust me.

CarrieMpls said:

How would we handle this very long distance between us?