dseann said:

That's ridiculous. Guys have no shame. I have been leered at while laying out in the park, when I have no make-up, hair in a ponytail, and sweaty from laying out. I have been cat-called at walking to class wearing sweats and my glasses.

Just because a woman looks nice doesn't mean it's open season to sexually objectifying her.

CarrieMpls said:

I want to know that too! I have been hasseled on the street, the park, at clubs/bars. Does treating women like a piece of meat actually work for some guys? "Hey, I really liked the way you sexually objectified me, wanna fuck?"


About a month ago, I was out during my lunch break and walked by this construction worker who wasleering at every woman that walked by, sucking his teeth and making comments under his breath. I got the phone number for the company off the side of the truck, and the license plate number, and called the company and complained. The guy I spoke with was not pleased when I told him what his employee was doing.

Maybe they won't get anywhere but at least they think you're hot. Isn't that good?

MuthaFunka said:

Oh dear God, you must pickup the dumbest broads on the planet w/ those shits!

if a girl "randomly" asked to suck my dick, i would be happy . even if i wouldn't actually let her do it, it's a nice gesture, imo

CalhounSq said:

Wait..."smart" women exist?

MuthaFunka said:

We do but I assure you you'll never meet one using that shit

CalhounSq said:

Ok...but WHERE are they?

MuthaFunka said:

Well hell, I can answer that if you can tell me where the smart, decent, cute guys are

CalhounSq said:

MuthaFunka said:

this is like ships passing in the night

ZombieKitten said:

MuthaFunka said:

I feel like starting a thread "see if you can pick me up!"
and if any so called line sounds like it would work on me, I'll let you know!

ZombieKitten said:

Ok, now would you REALLY admit to the line actually working though?

MuthaFunka said:

depends, it would have to be ingenious and delivered in a genuninely sexy way without being try-hard and smug Easy!

ZombieKitten said:

But that's just it - over the net it may not have the same effect, feel me?

MuthaFunka said:

of course
I mean what I say in the purest spirit of fun
seriously, over the net how can a line "work" anyway? I find the effect is totally dampened without the delivery in person!

Ace said:

Vendetta1 said:

and it's even more annoyin when they're of adult age!

CarrieMpls said:

Clothes-pin girls are wat we call them here - Squeeze their heads wit a few nice words and their legs open = clothes-pin girls!


Men can be extremely annoyin most times with their so-called pick-up lines.

jone70 said:

Men are dogs. All most men want is someplace to dip the wick. Makes me upset to even have a penis.

jone70 said:

!!

And you're absolutely right about it not mattering WHAT you look like. I was hassled last winter when I was in boots, a huge jacket, a scarf, hat and mittens. I don't know how he knew WHAT I looked like.

CarrieMpls said:

Damn, now I REALLY have to get to Minny-town.

I would never have the balls to do this, but I think they do it becasue 1/100 times it must work.

Incidently if they didn't do it we would be reading threads about how men never even TRY to hit on women.

Can't win.

I think there is a time and a place, the bus and the street is far too forward - I am too British!

I can understand why women would be upset, me personally... I'd just be glad that I still 'had it' coz I don't think I ever had it in the first place

uPtoWnNY said:

I don't think those dudes did anything wrong, really. So they thought you were cute and were bold enough to say they wanted to hang out...at least you didn't get them being vulgar with you.

And of course guys talking to random girls works....as long as the chick thinks they are hot.

Some hot dude talks to me and I'm responding for sure.

If he's ugly...I'm disgusted.

JustErin said:

Sounds about right, I think they just follow the rule that if you don't ask you won't get.

JustErin said:

That just about sums it up

Look every first approach a guy makes is going to have some element of randomness about it

and what girl is going to be interested in a guy that doesn't even have the cajones to come over and engage them in some sort of conversation

i think it's the shouting from across the road in large groups that us guys need to avoid

ZombieKitten said:

Exactly. It's very hard to pull it off via the net.

Ottensen said:

Hey, I never asked that question in this thread. What's up with that?