AlexdeParis said:

That was so the wrong thing to say.

AlexdeParis said:

ok, ok....my bad

TheResurrection said:

Your description is weird.

It's just like me doing this

I'm an academy intellectual

I'm black, even though I see myself as light-skinned

My parents weren't even married for a year, let alone 7 months when they had me.

I'm a nerd

I like to talk about sex, video games, cartoons, art, movies, etc.

I use to cross dress a lot when I was a toddler and thought I was a boy.


See how weird that is? If you post your description.....
[Edited 7/8/09 14:58pm]

sextonseven said:

I'm just playin'!

NastradumasKid said:

NO, her descrition isnt weird...however YOU are very weird

chillichocaholic said:

Proud to be weird.

TheResurrection said:

The heck you are...

I reference again, Org Court, Exhibit R:



"I'm not bad, I'm just drawn this way."

Rhonda, "average" people don't get comments on their appearance like you do. Making church mothers all anxious and whatnot.

"Average... no pressure..." Whatevs.

ThreadBare said:

And, both Rhonda and Tiny are cute/good-looking women!

*grumbling* Messin' wit' me... I know pretty... rackin'-frackin' Orgers...

ThreadBare said:

I'd certainly smash. She's got a nice little body, even though she does look like Lambchop.

ThreadBare said:

Well, you're half right!

I think dating sucks for most people these days

I'm one of those people who is chronically interested in guys who aren't as in to me, or that are generally unavailable

thekidsgirl said:

I just plain don't meet single men I'm interested in. Anywhere. Earlier in the year I got to work on a project for a different department for work in a completely different buliding, all new people, etc. There was not ONE straight man over 30 who wasn't wearing a wedding ring. I paid attention. I looked high and low. I usually only look if I think the guy's cute. I started checking everyone's hand, just out of curiosity. About 80-85% of women my age were wearing them, but I swear it was 100% of the guys.

I'm an old maid!

CarrieMpls said:

Oh gawd! you sound like my best friend...She's always saying how all the good guys are either married, players, or they are looking for a boyfriend themselves

thekidsgirl said:

Very hard to believe. Are you sure they aren't swinging the other
way?

CarrieMpls said:

In Medieval times u were an old Maid or "spinster" if u werent married with children by the time u were 18...just thought I would share that

thekidsgirl said:

And that's pretty much it.

CarrieMpls said:

Carrie, I was just in a department store and I overheard a 60-ish woman say to an older man:

"Something's wrong with him... He's 35 and he's never been married..."

Being, of course, unable to help myself, I said:

"He has my sympathies. I can relate..."

They marry reeeeeal young down here in the South, apparently.

phunkdaddy said:

I don't think so I hope my gaydar isn't that far off

ThreadBare said:

And I'm 34.

CarrieMpls said:

Young'un. I'm 36...

Know how often people at work and church ask me if I have kids or a wife? I've worked in offices where I've been the only single man... sometimes the only single person...

thready and carrie...im 41. hush please...im more likely to be murdered or struck by lighting than get married at this point!!

TheResurrection said:

My Dad is 46 years old and got married a few weeks ago, if he had a chance so do you!!!

NastradumasKid said:

Notlong ago a lady got married at something lie 86 or older (I forget now ) wait just did a google search..she was 103...there is hope for EVERYONE!!!!!
http://askville.amazon.co...tId=626523
[Edited 7/9/09 0:05am]

Cinnie said:

The couple in the article didn't meet on a dating website. They were on a language studies website and getting "nailed to the mattress ", (as meow85 put it), wasn't what they were looking for. They've been together, (happily), for a couple of years now. Meeting online does not diminish their chances at a lifelong relationship any more than Mr.& Mrs. Smith who met through friends etc. Some things are just meant to be.

llvb said:

I've had my best luck dating people from hobby related sites. Somehow it gels easier when you have solid shared interests and it starts off without intense expectations of 'are we gonna fall in love or not?'. You can build the relationship on something that's mutual without the headache of worrying whether or not you connect on things. I say to heck with findsomebody.com and all the rest of 'em; book clubs, language exchange, food, art, and travel clubs are where the real action is

My problem is that I don't see what's so fascinating about what I do. I feel like my life is not that exciting and therefore not worth talking about so then it makes me seem kind of cold. Or like I'm not putting myself out there. I don't know how to look at myself differently though.

One thing's for sure. This right place at the right time shit ain't working out for me.

Ottensen said:

good points

JuliePurplehead said:

I'm with you on that