CarrieLee said:

There is a lot to be said for that

Sowhat said:

And that’s what I’m talkin’ about.

PunkMistress said:

Hell yeah!!

Something like that...all trust is gone.
If a gun wasn't put to your head to force u into anything...it's over.
I can forgive over-time, but trust never comes back.
Without trust, a relationship makes no sense.

I can't deal wit being paranoid about if u really going where u say u're going etc...
I'll be miserable in my paranoia, therefore makin u miserable wit my constant interrogation...
not a relationship worth stayin in at all imo.

thekidsgirl said:

Sweetheart....I would never leave you!

Mach said:

is someone trying to move in on my boo?

i have two rules...

No dates, No sleeping next to someone other than me.

One thing I love about the org...from time to time we get a thread that makes us think.

Absofuckinglutely deal breaker , not acceptable in any way shape or form .

Maybe Im just old fashioned but if you gonna put it around elsewhere at least have the decency and honesty not to mention respect for your partner to break it off with them first

If any one of my parents had affairs then it up to them to forgive or not. What transpires in their relationship is none of my business. If they get divorced because of it, I'm sure there were more issues involved than just the cheating. What they do with their lives ... they do with their lives. I have mine to live.

Ace said:

When it comes to pussy, then yeah we are.

dseann said:

Well said!!

Ace said:

God I love you.

And to answer the question: Cheating is the dealbreaker for me. There is no second chance.

If another woman decides she wants to forgive her man, good on her.

In the case of the governor that got caught cheating, I think in his particular case, his wife is a stupid bitch. You are not going to ask me if you can go to Argentina to be with your side piece.

thekidsgirl said:

That just makes the shit worse. Just no,no, and no.

It depends on the understanding they have with their s.o. If both people are on the same page (e.g. open relationship, what constitutes "cheating", etc.) then I don't think they can be upset if the other one has an affair. (Is it called an affair if you know about it, or is an affair always carried out secretly?)

For me, personally, it's a dealbreaker, and I make that 100% clear from the beginning.

MoniGram said:

Thank you.

thekidsgirl said:

This, is pretty much it for me. If you're in a relationship with someone and you're feeling compelled to cheat then let the person go. It's the lying and sneaking around that I don't understand. I swear I don't get it. I mean, I understand that it's difficult to end relationships and not wanting to hurt anyone, blah, blah, blah... but ultimately, why sneak and cheat when you can simply be single and see and sleep with whomever you wish?

What's so difficult about that?

Sowhat said:

CarrieLee said:

Cheating is not a deal breaker for me, but the aftermath of dealing with one person's dishonesty (over anything) is what usually tears two people apart. I just would find it hard to not be suspicious of him, I mean that 'what if' is always there in a relationship, but the 'what if again' is much harder to get past.

But him fucking someone else, I could get over that.


And it really depends on the way the relationship was going before the infidelity. I do think some couples can move past cheating.

JustErin said:

I definitely agree with this. I think it's possible to move past it and have a happy and healthy relationship after, for some people at least.

And even for myself, I don't think I'd know until I was actually in that situation. (Which I have been, but then, every relationship is different...) But I'm 99% sure it's not something I could get over.