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Thread started 06/25/09 1:40am

purplesweat

Why Does Perez Hilton Get A Pass on Misogyny?

Everyone from Jezebel contributor Rich Juzwiak to GLAAD is taking Perez Hilton to task for calling Will.I.Am a "faggot" and well they should. But where has this outrage been over the years that Perez has spent crudely slamming women?

Perez says he called Will.I.Am a faggot during an altercation because it "was the worst possible thing that thug would ever want to hear."

GLAAD's Rashad Robinson responds:

For someone in our own community to use it to attack another person by saying that it is 'The worst possible thing that thug would ever want to hear,' is incredibly dangerous. It legitimizes use of a slur that is often linked to violence against our community. And it sends a message that it is OK to attempt to dehumanize people by exploiting antigay attitudes.

Robinson's absolutely right, and we applaud everyone who's criticizing Perez for using a slur in a decidedly non-reclaiming way. However, Perez has also spent his entire career dehumanizing women by exploiting sexist attitudes with little repercussions. We used to tackle his bullshit in Missdemeanors, but that's on hiatus, so Intern Katy looked through Perez's posts from the last seven days and came up with these examples of his crimes against womanity:

Calling Katie Price old, and an alcoholic: "The former glamor model pAArtied the night away at Boho nightclub in a gold lamé onesie, looking like the hot mess of the century. Remember: you're 31, not 21!"

Calling Nicole Kidman old, and a ho: "The ice queen turns 60 today, and in celebration of her natal feat day, check out THIS pHOto gallery of the Botox beauty." Capitalizing letters to say rude things is so witty — if you're in eighth grade.

Mocking Brooke Hogan (and, implicitly, Britney): "What's the first thing a famewhore does when she goes to Los Angeles? Hunt for paparazzi on Robertson! Shop at Kiston! Show some vadge!"

Describing LeAnn Rimes as a "homewrecking ho" (what, no HOmewrecking?) and a "country hoochie." He also draws a big X over her face, thus stooping to second-grade wit levels.

Blaming Aubrey O'Day for getting robbed, and she is a "dumb blonde" who had the nerve to enter an alleyway.


And Katy says this has been a pretty tame week for Perez, perhaps because he's on good behavior after the Will.I.Am incident. His behavior was far from good, however, throughout his feud with Carrie Prejean. After she was stripped of her Miss California crown, for instance, he called her a "dumb bitch" and drew a dick shooting cum on her face. Presumably, Perez is aware that his site looks like a middle school health book marked up by sharpie-wielding twelve-year-olds, but why hasn't anybody thought to call him on his slut-shaming, "vadge"-dropping, generally intelligent-insulting misogyny?

Andrew Sullivan seems to maybe sort of try, but he gets it very wrong:

The gay language police are after Hilton. It does strike me as rich that someone who called a woman a "dumb bitch" because she respectfully offered an evangelical view of marriage equality should use the word "faggot" in lambasting an assailant.


Really, Perez's behavior isn't inconsistent. His views on gay marriage (which, for the record, support actual equality as opposed to "an evangelical view of marriage equality") don't preclude him from being a thoughtless jerk who uses crude language to demean people. And what Sullivan calls "the gay language police" (aka people who fight against hate speech directed at historically persecuted groups) are very right to criticize Perez. We just wish the feminist language police had gotten on his case a lot earlier.

Why didn't they? Why did NOW speak out against Letterman when he made fun of Sarah Palin, but never against Perez? Maybe because serious feminists don't want to be seen as stooping to his level (it is tough to argue with a guy whose idea of political critique is drawing a dick on someone's face). Or maybe because we're so used to misogyny in the gossip world that we barely notice it anymore. Even non-dick-drawing gossip-mongers like the tabloids present women as little more than bodies to be endlessly critiqued for their imperfections, or as characters in a sexual morality play whose actions are fair game for our judgment. Maybe we've just accepted that to people like Perez, women are dumb sluts who exist so we can look at their vadges. But the longer we accept this from Perez and his ilk, the longer we'll live in a world where it's okay to call a woman a bitch when you don't agree with her, and to call her a ho whenever you feel like it. And that world sucks not just for celebrities, not even just for women, but for everybody.


http://jezebel.com/530115...n-misogyny

A lot of interesting points there. I was actually hoping that the things he says about women, and, relevant to the incident, lesbians would be critiqued as well when the news first broke but it didn't happen...

I'm not hearing from any media sources about the fact that in his crying video he lashed out at Fergie calling her a "fugly bitch" simply because she's friends with will.i.am.

Some of you might think all the Perez stuff doesn't matter but he gets millions of hits every day and his target demographic is teenagers. I've seen many people my age begin to read his site then slowly start talking about celebrities/people in general the same way he does, it's gross.
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Reply #1 posted 06/25/09 2:07am

Ottensen

purplesweat said:

Everyone from Jezebel contributor Rich Juzwiak to GLAAD is taking Perez Hilton to task for calling Will.I.Am a "faggot" and well they should. But where has this outrage been over the years that Perez has spent crudely slamming women?

Perez says he called Will.I.Am a faggot during an altercation because it "was the worst possible thing that thug would ever want to hear."

GLAAD's Rashad Robinson responds:

For someone in our own community to use it to attack another person by saying that it is 'The worst possible thing that thug would ever want to hear,' is incredibly dangerous. It legitimizes use of a slur that is often linked to violence against our community. And it sends a message that it is OK to attempt to dehumanize people by exploiting antigay attitudes.

Robinson's absolutely right, and we applaud everyone who's criticizing Perez for using a slur in a decidedly non-reclaiming way. However, Perez has also spent his entire career dehumanizing women by exploiting sexist attitudes with little repercussions. We used to tackle his bullshit in Missdemeanors, but that's on hiatus, so Intern Katy looked through Perez's posts from the last seven days and came up with these examples of his crimes against womanity:

Calling Katie Price old, and an alcoholic: "The former glamor model pAArtied the night away at Boho nightclub in a gold lamé onesie, looking like the hot mess of the century. Remember: you're 31, not 21!"

Calling Nicole Kidman old, and a ho: "The ice queen turns 60 today, and in celebration of her natal feat day, check out THIS pHOto gallery of the Botox beauty." Capitalizing letters to say rude things is so witty — if you're in eighth grade.

Mocking Brooke Hogan (and, implicitly, Britney): "What's the first thing a famewhore does when she goes to Los Angeles? Hunt for paparazzi on Robertson! Shop at Kiston! Show some vadge!"

Describing LeAnn Rimes as a "homewrecking ho" (what, no HOmewrecking?) and a "country hoochie." He also draws a big X over her face, thus stooping to second-grade wit levels.

Blaming Aubrey O'Day for getting robbed, and she is a "dumb blonde" who had the nerve to enter an alleyway.


And Katy says this has been a pretty tame week for Perez, perhaps because he's on good behavior after the Will.I.Am incident. His behavior was far from good, however, throughout his feud with Carrie Prejean. After she was stripped of her Miss California crown, for instance, he called her a "dumb bitch" and drew a dick shooting cum on her face. Presumably, Perez is aware that his site looks like a middle school health book marked up by sharpie-wielding twelve-year-olds, but why hasn't anybody thought to call him on his slut-shaming, "vadge"-dropping, generally intelligent-insulting misogyny?

Andrew Sullivan seems to maybe sort of try, but he gets it very wrong:

The gay language police are after Hilton. It does strike me as rich that someone who called a woman a "dumb bitch" because she respectfully offered an evangelical view of marriage equality should use the word "faggot" in lambasting an assailant.


Really, Perez's behavior isn't inconsistent. His views on gay marriage (which, for the record, support actual equality as opposed to "an evangelical view of marriage equality") don't preclude him from being a thoughtless jerk who uses crude language to demean people. And what Sullivan calls "the gay language police" (aka people who fight against hate speech directed at historically persecuted groups) are very right to criticize Perez. We just wish the feminist language police had gotten on his case a lot earlier.

Why didn't they? Why did NOW speak out against Letterman when he made fun of Sarah Palin, but never against Perez? Maybe because serious feminists don't want to be seen as stooping to his level (it is tough to argue with a guy whose idea of political critique is drawing a dick on someone's face). Or maybe because we're so used to misogyny in the gossip world that we barely notice it anymore. Even non-dick-drawing gossip-mongers like the tabloids present women as little more than bodies to be endlessly critiqued for their imperfections, or as characters in a sexual morality play whose actions are fair game for our judgment. Maybe we've just accepted that to people like Perez, women are dumb sluts who exist so we can look at their vadges. But the longer we accept this from Perez and his ilk, the longer we'll live in a world where it's okay to call a woman a bitch when you don't agree with her, and to call her a ho whenever you feel like it. And that world sucks not just for celebrities, not even just for women, but for everybody.


http://jezebel.com/530115...n-misogyny

A lot of interesting points there. I was actually hoping that the things he says about women, and, relevant to the incident, lesbians would be critiqued as well when the news first broke but it didn't happen...

I'm not hearing from any media sources about the fact that in his crying video he lashed out at Fergie calling her a "fugly bitch" simply because she's friends with will.i.am.

Some of you might think all the Perez stuff doesn't matter but he gets millions of hits every day and his target demographic is teenagers. I've seen many people my age begin to read his site then slowly start talking about celebrities/people in general the same way he does, it's gross.



I've always been confused why he's so hard on the lesbian community (unless they're power players like Rosie or Ellen) and he's never been calledto task for it. Oddly enough his game and antics remind me a bit of Karrine Steffans aka Supahead.
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Reply #2 posted 06/25/09 2:34am

purplesweat

Ottensen said:




I've always been confused why he's so hard on the lesbian community (unless they're power players like Rosie or Ellen) and he's never been calledto task for it. Oddly enough his game and antics remind me a bit of Karrine Steffans aka Supahead.


He's said horrid things about Rosie. Ellen, I think is too lovable for anyone to want to attack her lol
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Reply #3 posted 06/25/09 3:11am

Pochacco

Face it , he just a bitter old queen hellbent on self promotion when all he good at is gossip

EPIC FAIL
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Reply #4 posted 06/25/09 4:18am

purplesweat

Pochacco said:

Face it , he just a bitter old queen hellbent on self promotion when all he good at is gossip

EPIC FAIL


He also gets a 6 figure sum every year for what he does.
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Reply #5 posted 06/25/09 5:01am

Dayclear

Pochacco said:

Face it , he just a bitter old queen hellbent on self promotion when all he good at is gossip

EPIC FAIL

I agree, I'm not into Perez Hilton but I do know he's got some major mental problems going on. Just a nobody that's trying way to hard to fit in and be thought of as a somebody. He ought to get his ass kicked more often.
nod fuck the money, there are a lot of overpaid people out here from politicians to hookers!
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Reply #6 posted 06/25/09 6:45am

CarrieLee

I hope that this whole incident really turns people on him. I'm tired of seeing these losers make money and get famous on hurting celebrities.

I'm a fan of dlisted but you don't see Michael K parading around thinking he's holier than thou....he's just a funny bastard!
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Reply #7 posted 06/25/09 6:55am

Pochacco

CarrieLee said:

I hope that this whole incident really turns people on him. I'm tired of seeing these losers make money and get famous on hurting celebrities.

I'm a fan of dlisted but you don't see Michael K parading around thinking he's holier than thou....he's just a funny bastard!


yay! dlisted is the best isnt it , way funnier than Perez
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Reply #8 posted 06/25/09 7:01am

CarrieLee

Pochacco said:

CarrieLee said:

I hope that this whole incident really turns people on him. I'm tired of seeing these losers make money and get famous on hurting celebrities.

I'm a fan of dlisted but you don't see Michael K parading around thinking he's holier than thou....he's just a funny bastard!


yay! dlisted is the best isnt it , way funnier than Perez



Yeah but unfortunately he's not always up on the latest gossip!
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Reply #9 posted 06/25/09 10:54am

LadyLuvSexxy

I think I will have to talk out of the side of my neck for this one. I cannot stand Perez. Sadly, I go to his site. I don't know why. It just happens to be one of those "things" that I do while online. I need to quit cold turkey. I see the same thing some of you see--a bitter old queen with nothing better to do than gossip. What little humility he has for "worthy causes" (meaning the short little posts he makes about charities and what have you.) are overshadowed by a lot of the nasty things he says in general. And a LOT of it is aimed at the women of the celebrity world. He reminds me of a teenager. Not all of them, mind you. I'm talking about the ones with the bad attitudes who have nothing to do but talk crap about other people to get other insecure people to agree with him. He makes a lot of money doing it, sure. But while he's up on that pedestal with fans stroking his ego, doesn't he ever stop and think about what COULD happen to him?

Hell, it HAS happened. He got whooped.

There's nothing witty about Perez at all. Somewhere in his life, OBVIOUSLY, he was met with a lot of anger and probably not a lot of acceptance. And now he has the "power" to twist and contort words to sway the masses that believe in him. He's popular so of course he gets away with it despite many organizations calling foul on him. There are too many people in this world willing to accept his drivel.

I know one thing, he sure is obsessed over Lady GaGa. eek
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Reply #10 posted 06/25/09 11:37am

ehuffnsd

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i've been perez free for two years i hope his time is up.
You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
authentic power is service- Pope Francis
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Reply #11 posted 06/25/09 11:47am

johnart

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I'm not a fan, but I'm sorry "pAArtied" made me chuckle. boxed
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Reply #12 posted 06/25/09 11:48am

matthewgrant

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ehuffnsd said:

i've been perez free for two years i hope his time is up.

clapping good job

I can't stand his drawing on photos like a 3 year old. I get my celeb news and gossip elsewhere and I urge my friends to do the same. He's brought trash to a new low. nod
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P*$$y so bad, if u throw it into da air, it would turn into sunshine!!! whistle
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Reply #13 posted 06/25/09 11:56am

endymion

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Fortunately this guy has zero profile in the UK so he is easily avoided biggrin
What you don't remember never happened
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Reply #14 posted 06/25/09 12:06pm

DesireeNevermi
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He hates women cuz he's mad that he isn't one. If he were a woman, he'd be all the vile things he accuses them of being. Fuck that fartface! hmph!
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Reply #15 posted 06/25/09 12:26pm

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What a waste of matter.
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