Imago said:

A-hole.

For the record, I have never had any complaints in the breath department! I was always very self conscious after smoking and always had mints or gum after I smoked!

Same goes after eating ass.

Hello! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. It is amazing! We are both very GGG, and it is by far the best sexual relationship I have ever had. But there is one thing that has been bugging me, and it's the only thing I feel like I can't share with him. My boyfriend really enjoys tossing my salad. I enjoy it! We love it! Here's the problem: He kisses me when he is done.

Now I am not one of these people who is grossed out about sex-related things. I love it messy and sloppy. If he kisses me after eating my pussy, I'm fine with that. But kissing me after he eats my ass? I hate it! It tastes awful! It ruins the rest of the sex for me! I've heard the old "Well, imagine what it tastes like for him" adage, but he really does enjoy it, and I do, too... just not the kissing after. I'm not sure what to do about this. I am afraid that telling him would offend him and that he will stop doing it. (I do like having my salad tossed!) Am I being selfish? Should I tell him? Suck it up?

—Bad Taste In My Mouth

One never permits one's boyfriend—or one's youth pastor or one's president—to place his tongue in one's butt if it isn't clean and fresh. Because when one allows one's boyfriend to stick his tongue in one's butt, BTIMM, one is vouching for the edibility of one's ass. When one consents to having one's salad tossed—are people referring to anilingus in that way again?—one is saying to one's partner, "My ass is clean enough for your mouth. Have at it."

It is entirely reasonable for one's boyfriend—or one's youth pastor or one's president—to assume that if one's butt is clean enough to receive his tongue, his tongue is clean enough, post-salad-tossing, to be received in the mouth of the person whose salad he has just tossed.

So are you are being selfish? Perhaps you are. But we are, each of us, allowed a hang-up or two. You should inform the boyfriend that you're not into kissing after anal-oral contact. But you must present this news to him as your problem, not his, as a hang-up of yours. If he likes you well enough, and enjoys eating your ass as much as he seems to, he may be willing to take a few extra steps—mouthwash on the nightstand? A quick swipe with a warm washcloth?—to accommodate your squeamishness.

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Imago said:

A-hole.

For the record, I have never had any complaints in the breath department! I was always very self conscious after smoking and always had mints or gum after I smoked!

Same goes after eating ass.

Three weeks! I survived my first cookout!

Three weeks! I survived my first cookout!

I could be joining you very soon ladies , I just had a call from the " stop smoking nurse " Im gonna give it another try with a little help tho , appointment next tuesday afternoon

Well done everyone

Pochacco said:

You really have to want to quit. I stopped when my throat was hurting me and when they tasted REALLY bad. I know non-smokers can't relate to that, but I looooved smoking. I don't even really miss it and I hardly even think about it now. The only tough times is when I'm drinking but I survived 3 really big weekends...I think the 4th of July will be a piece of cake

CarrieLee said:

Fuck yeah Carrie!



I failed at quitting coffee.

Pochacco said:

You really have to want to quit. I stopped when my throat was hurting me and when they tasted REALLY bad. I know non-smokers can't relate to that, but I looooved smoking. I don't even really miss it and I hardly even think about it now. The only tough times is when I'm drinking but I survived 3 really big weekends...I think the 4th of July will be a piece of cake

PunkMistress said:

SO! You're on the bean again eh?

Sorry to hear that I guess...

Pochacco said:

You really have to want to quit. I stopped when my throat was hurting me and when they tasted REALLY bad. I know non-smokers can't relate to that, but I looooved smoking. I don't even really miss it and I hardly even think about it now. The only tough times is when I'm drinking but I survived 3 really big weekends...I think the 4th of July will be a piece of cake

CarrieLee said:

Im not a smoker but my moms is. She says she loves to smoke.She likes the menthol. Its like a special treat. She would do it more but she hates the smell and doesnt want her fingers to turn yellow. Wrinkles lips are her biggest fear.

Did you write this letter to Dan Savage's column this week?

Did you write this letter to Dan Savage's column this week?

I miss the old you Carrie!!


The You that used to smoke.

3 months for me.

Don't beat yourself up for having to start over...just pick a time again and do it. And yeah, I smoked menthols too..I really liked smoking....sigh.

I am ten pounds heavier, but I needed those pounds.

bluesbaby said:

I'm over it. It was a big holiday party and I was weak

CarrieLee said:

Replapse is part of recovery!! It's gonna happen.

You just dust yourself off and go back to not smoking.

CarrieMpls said:

And that's what I'm gonna do! Boy did I feel like crap this morning!!!

CarrieLee said:

How many ex-smokers really quit on the first try though?

sextonseven said:

Oooh I've tried many times. I was having a hard time Friday night but survived. Then the next day I was at a big party and I just couldn't say no. I actually had it in my mind that I was going to smoke, and well...once my mind is set then that's it.

But I'm back on and hopefully I won't mess up again.

CarrieLee said:

I know you'll do it. Just think how much wrinkles you won't get by not smoking.

For some reason that motivates people more than the cancer risk.