SCNDLS said:

My issues with Dallas run a far-off second to being an accessory before the fact to a crime...

babooshleeky said:

I love you Chrissy...but I truly hate this saying! I feel if you want something bad enough go and get it! If we all sit around waiting for fate to work it's magic we would never have anything.

Miranda, I am sorry this happened! Sending orgnote!

Thanks you guys!

God I hate men sometimes. I feel for you TC girl I am right here with you in this shit. My ex wants to be tight, and that shit is just code for " I want the option to dick you down whenever you wish, cock block new dicks, and retain my right to fuck others. Because I love you and you are soooo special to me."

Fool ass Stephanie took that friendship bait for two years, and couldn't figure out why I was losing my natural mind. I finally woke the fuck up a few days ago.

If you want him go get him. If you're done tell him to fuck off.

Y'all girls wait up, cause I'm down wit the drive-by-ninga-shit too! I'm coming from CT so it might be a hot minute.

nammie said:

This is exactly what that shit usually means. Either that, or he just wants to soothe his guilty conscience and feel better about the whole thing.

I say hell no to "just friends." I'm not friends with any exes, and neither is my husband.

Didn't read the other replies but "stay friends" means he still wants to fuck until someone else comes along.

JustErin said:

i think it also means i want you to think i am a nice guy and continue holding out hope that we will get back together cos that sort of dependence is good for my ego

JustErin said:

fuck buddies. not such a bad thing if you're over the emotional attachment.

MoniGram said:

Very true hun...

MoniGram said:

Yeah, but some of us work too hard pushing for something that's not meant to be, refusing to see the signs that it's just not gonna happen.

PunkMistress said:

Agreed.

..and if you need another participant in that there beat down thing..
i'll be ummm.. preparing here in the meantime...over here in Tampa,FL
i'm not so very far away..






that's working..now....where is that bat i had....

heybaby said:

Totally agree.

Believe me, if someone wants to be with you, they will be with you...it's not about not being ready or being scared. They won't just come around and if they do it's because they've settled for someone they aren't really all that into because nothing else came along - and who the hell wants to be with someone that thinks that about you.

Harsh, sorry...but true.

ThreadBare said:

You don't you don't

JustErin said:

It's very true. I certainly dont want anyone who doesnt want me!

ThreadCula said:

how brave of you to even consider making distance between you

JustErin said:

I agree with this.
If they want to they will find a way to work things out.
Otherwise, all the reasons they state for the breakup = I'm just not in love with you. It's funny nobody can actually say that though.

Miranda, I can't emphasize it enough:

Don't pick up the phone. If he comes to your door don't let him in. You need absolute separation. That is if he is serious about being friends. At this point, you don't know yet if he's just being nice or polite or trying to soften the blow of the breakup.

For him it's business as usual in a week's time if not already.


For you (and others who've been broken up with) it feels like what this guy is going through in this scene here: http://prince.org/msg/100/310928

You knew it was nothing more than a punchline

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

chut it I remember wishing you well on your sappy love thread, bub.

ThreadBare said:

I'm trying to hook you up by exposing your want

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I got this.

Only, there is no "this."

ThreadBare said:

if she has no idea how will she ever know?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Rich, next thing I know, you'll be mentioning how good I am around the house, fixing things and whatnot...








Carry on, bruh... carry on...

ThreadBare said:

I can brag about other things if you want me too

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

You don't know about other things, dude.

ThreadBare said:

You don't know my powers

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Maybe after you both move on, you can learn to be platonic friends.

I know people who used to be in serious relationships but are now great friends