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Thread started 06/10/09 3:44am

missmad

How to not think about peoples' actions that piss u off

What do y'all do to keep ur mind of it?

It's been months and im still spewing bout it. What do I do?


I'm still thinking about the whole confrontation thing. They don't live far and I find myself hoping that I don't bump into them ( or his sis) .
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Reply #1 posted 06/10/09 4:03am

endymion

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missmad said:

What do y'all do to keep ur mind of it?

It's been months and im still spewing bout it. What do I do?


I'm still thinking about the whole confrontation thing. They don't live far and I find myself hoping that I don't bump into them ( or his sis) .
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Just leave them to nature, if they are fools they will reap what they sow wink
What you don't remember never happened
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Reply #2 posted 06/10/09 5:34am

missmad

endymion said:

missmad said:

What do y'all do to keep ur mind of it?

It's been months and im still spewing bout it. What do I do?


I'm still thinking about the whole confrontation thing. They don't live far and I find myself hoping that I don't bump into them ( or his sis) .
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Just leave them to nature, if they are fools they will reap what they sow wink



smile How can I not think about it though? Is starting to get annoying LOL.
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Reply #3 posted 06/10/09 5:38am

endymion

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missmad said:

endymion said:




Just leave them to nature, if they are fools they will reap what they sow wink



smile How can I not think about it though? Is starting to get annoying LOL.


Remind yourself that you are better than they are and letitgo

If you really let it go you will feel great about the whole thing promise hug

Also they(whoever they are) probably think they are right and you are wrong so whatever you say to them wont change THEIR opinion so just work on yourself smile
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Reply #4 posted 06/10/09 5:40am

missmad

endymion said:

missmad said:




smile How can I not think about it though? Is starting to get annoying LOL.


Remind yourself that you are better than they are and letitgo

If you really let it go you will feel great about the whole thing promise hug

Also they(whoever they are) probably think they are right and you are wrong so whatever you say to them wont change THEIR opinion so just work on yourself smile



hug thanks hun!
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Reply #5 posted 06/10/09 5:58am

Mach

missmad said:

What do y'all do to keep ur mind of it?

It's been months and im still spewing bout it. What do I do?


I'm still thinking about the whole confrontation thing. They don't live far and I find myself hoping that I don't bump into them ( or his sis) .



'How to not think about peoples' actions that piss u off'

Flip the mirror round and take a good hard HONEST look at your imperfections

The truth is you have something about you that very well may make others feel just the same towards you


see we're all pretty equal that way ya know

rose
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Reply #6 posted 06/10/09 7:24am

Genesia

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Mach said:

missmad said:

What do y'all do to keep ur mind of it?

It's been months and im still spewing bout it. What do I do?


I'm still thinking about the whole confrontation thing. They don't live far and I find myself hoping that I don't bump into them ( or his sis) .



'How to not think about peoples' actions that piss u off'

Flip the mirror round and take a good hard HONEST look at your imperfections

The truth is you have something about you that very well may make others feel just the same towards you


see we're all pretty equal that way ya know

rose


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I can honestly say I have never held onto anything for "months." That is toxic shit that only damages the one holding onto it. The other person doesn't give a flip.
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Reply #7 posted 06/10/09 7:27am

drifit

"out of sight- out of mind" is one of my philos.
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Reply #8 posted 06/10/09 7:53am

RenHoek

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Genesia said:

Mach said:



'How to not think about peoples' actions that piss u off'

Flip the mirror round and take a good hard HONEST look at your imperfections

The truth is you have something about you that very well may make others feel just the same towards you


see we're all pretty equal that way ya know

rose


clapping

I can honestly say I have never held onto anything for "months." That is toxic shit that only damages the one holding onto it. The other person doesn't give a flip.


I'll give a clapping to that!!
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Reply #9 posted 06/10/09 7:59am

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One thing you could do is devote one last hour to it. Set a timer, grab a pen and paper and sit and write all that shit down. Don't worry if it doesn't make sense or is disjointed. Put down all your emotions, then at the end of your hour, write at the end of your paper 'AND I'M DONE WITH IT NOW.' or words to that effect. Then grab a lighter and set fire to the piece of paper (safely!) and feel the whole thing lift off your shoulders as you watch that paper burn. When you're finished, wash your hands and move on with your life with a smile on your face. Whatever you do, don't keep the piece of paper no no no!

Hope this helps hug
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Reply #10 posted 06/10/09 4:48pm

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drifit said:

"out of sight- out of mind" is one of my philos.

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Reply #11 posted 06/10/09 8:10pm

missmad

Hey all,

thanks so much for the replys. Gr8 ideas.
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